kay, so I have a good amount of friends. most of them rock and we're nice to each other and all of that stuff. I'm in middle school keep in mind. anyway, my good friend for about 2 years is acting a little weird and not talking to me as much. she apologized, but still. my used to be friend which i don't like is taking over our no longer group and so is some other girl. then, My other friend is having those two over tomorrow night and i don't know why she didn't invite me. It seems like she's ignoring me and I'm sick of it. I feel like an outsider. Please help??
2007-12-13 07:41:26 · 7 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yeah tell her how u feel. just say did i do something wrong? if she says no then invite her over and sum other friends in ur used 2 bee group. hope i helped!
2007-12-13 07:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by eRiCa <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there! Girls can be very catty and two-faced. It's the truth. If they are your true friends, nothing will come in the way of your relationship. You're learning what true blue friends are all about. My daughter has gone through it all too. Stay true to yourself and take up new hobbies, meet new friends. It hurts at first, but when you get over it and life goes on, you'll see that life has more to offer and life is too short to worry about people who are fickle. It sounds like your friend is not an independent thinker and likes the status quo, or is feeling pressured from your "ex-friend". If that's the case, she needs to learn a lesson about friendship and standing up for yourself and not being manipulated by people.
2007-12-13 15:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by govgirl_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to ask her what's up. Otherwise you'll just keep wondering if you did something wrong. Just come right out and say, I've noticed you don't talk to me as much, is there a problem, did something happen? If she doesn't answer you, tell her that you're ready to talk any time if she changes her mind about telling you. That's about all you can do at this point.
2007-12-13 15:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by tahnwen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just wants to meet some new friends then after a little bit she will go back to hang out with you, this happened to me in 4th grade and a little bit in the beginning of the year of 5th grade and now she's hanging out with all of her friends so I bet you'll feel like an outsider for a few weeks or days then she'll start hanging out with all of her friends! I hope this helps!
2007-12-13 15:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you feel like an outsider. The best advice is - be your own best friend first. You don't NEED anyone to feel good about yourself.
You have aquaintences for what you describe are not the actions of a FRIEND.
Accept yourself, for who YOU are. God accepts you for who you are.....Certainly your family does, right?
Life is WAY too short to concern yourself with this. Who needs to be treated like that??? You don't deserve it.
Move forward and onward.....step by step
2007-12-13 16:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change. i,ve known a girl for years, we have always
gotten along and suddenly she no longer likes me.
i,ve done nothing bad to her
i know exactly how you feel, but maybe the best bet is to
simply go on with your life drop her as a friend, and make
new ones. good luck.
2007-12-13 15:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel like shes not going to totally ignore you the chances are shes propably just going through a phase
2007-12-13 16:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋