ok so there is this guy that told a friend of mine that he likes and me and everytime i ask him bout it denies it and he even told her that he will ask me out?
how do i get him to do it himself
please be serious bout this i dont need no smart *** answers
2007-12-13 07:35:38 · 38 answers · asked by evgenimalkin<33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be a woman, inform him when he's taking you out, guys need to be nudged a little sometimes. Good luck with your conquest!!!
2007-12-13 07:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all,try and b sure that the dude likes u in that flirting,showing off and acting ridiculous when u'r around kind of way....cause sometimes is very hard 2 understand dudes!!! Mayb he likes u like a friend or mayb he's the shy and conservative type of dude,that does'nt like for people 2 do or say anything 4 him.Honey the only thing i could advice u 2 do is 2 seriously talk 2 this dude and ask him what's going on in his head,most likely in his heart.This way u could just get all those doubts out of your mind ok....Bye
2007-12-13 07:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by Babielicous 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you have friends involved you really cant be sure how they said things or what exactly they said. So if you think there is some kind of connection between you then start to smile and talk to him about a few things, see how he reacts to that , then you can sense if you can see if he wants to do something together or maybe if there is something going on if he wants to go too.
2007-12-13 08:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by sammy3256 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's denying that he asked you out, why are you bothering with him at all..!!
He obviously lacks guts, or the decency you obviously want in a guy.
So stuff him, move on, ...have fun.
If he's serious, you'll know soon enough.
But don't use anyone else as bait. That's unfair on the third party.
2007-12-13 07:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by Moorglademover 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No smart a** answer?
Ok, here goes.
Your friend says he told them he likes you and wants to ask you out.
ASK HIM OUT!
Nothing hotter than a girl hitting on a guy.
2007-12-13 07:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by strech 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Treat him like he's any other guy on earth and don't pay too much attention to him. Guys want what they can't have and also what doesn't want them. You'll seem like a commodity, a must have, if you dont need him he'll want you!
If he is just shy then treat him like a friend. The more comfortable he gets the more likely he'll get up the nerve.
2007-12-13 07:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he really wanted to ask you out he would have been asked you. He's probably just taking it slow and needs time to think things through. You can't make him ask you out! You have to be patient, eventually he will if he really likes you. But if you're in desperate need why not ask him out? Maybe that's what he wants you to do.
2007-12-13 07:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by ashleylgriffin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
'why don't you ask him out? Maybe he is shy and he felt that you were putting him on the spot. Just ask him if he'd like to come to your house to watch a movie, make some popcorn and just be yourself. Act like you're friends and take it from there.
2007-12-13 07:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by govgirl_24 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Learn how to write a complete sentence that makes sense, and then ask him out, so you dont look like a retard.
2007-12-13 07:40:47 · answer #9 · answered by ButtPirate41 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I definitely think that he is thinking almost the same thing he wants to ask you out but he is unsure how, so ask him this is the 21st century, girls can ask guys out now! well good luck latta
2007-12-13 07:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by SweetMist 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋