Im been going out with my boyfriend since 11-13-07 today is our one month anniversity he was just bugging me about when he's going to hit it (have sex with me) and i think thats one of the problems it seems like he just wants to hit and quit i rather it be making love he's sixteen and im seventeen hes not a virgin but i am and i dont think im ready yet because i still dont trust him that much please please tell me what should i do thanks
2007-12-13 09:25:11 · 9 answers · asked by {~MZ.SMITH!~} 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am so proud for you that you have kept yourself this long. You dump him. He has no respect for your position and if he really liked you he would not speak to you in that manner and he would not pressure you to do something you are not ready for.
2007-12-13 10:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAY too early!!! have been with my boyfriend for over eight months and we are just talking about sex. I believe that he is just trying to "hit it and quit it" as you put it tell him a firm no and see if he still acts the same. If he acts cold towards you then you know that you need to break it off. Don't lose an important part of you for a jerk like him.
2007-12-13 09:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by rachel_lovergirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever your intuition tells you. Our bare thoughts are very right-on and honest to us. I'm going to throw this out there, at your age, 99%+ of guys will disappoint. If YOU wanted to have sex, then go ahead. If you don't want to, that's your consciousness telling you that doing it with him is not best for you. If he doesn't make you horny by natural means, then he's probably not good in bed either.
2007-12-13 09:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by Brandon D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your right in that he just wants sex
ask him if he loves you
if he says yes then tell him he can wait for sex.
if he goes off or says no then tell him to go watch a porn or get lost because you want to wait.
( making he wait is one test he can take to make sure he is the right guy for you. yes is 10 good husband points, no is -10 good husband points)
2007-12-13 09:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break up with him. He's only interested in you because you're a virgin and he thinks he can get you to have sex with him. Don't do it. You're just a prize to him, and you should respect yourself more.
2007-12-13 09:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by xK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Don't do anything you don't want to do. One month and already into sex...?!? What? If he doesn't respect your decision then he's not worht it.
2007-12-13 09:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes into your body not you if he cant wait leave him
2007-12-13 09:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't give it up to him, it is obvious all he wants from you is sex, leave him for a real man
2007-12-13 09:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by Frank K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but guys like that only want to hit on you. You should try to tell him wat u really feel
2007-12-13 09:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Maria C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋