if ur going to have ur friend do anything tell him to ask 4 her potential answer if u asked. and if the answer is good ask her yourself
2007-12-13 09:10:19
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answered by Anonymous
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Here's a very good piece of advice. It's a good idea that you're at least doing something about the girl you like, unlike the others who are just staring, admiring, and ultimately not doing anything about it.
But from experience, it depends on what stage you are in. If you are in Middle school below, it could pass. But if you're in High school and up, I'd recommend you ask the girl directly. But nevertheless, asking directly is always the best. You still have a lot of time to learn about these things (asking girls out etc) and it's best if you learn these things first hand. And just try to accept the fact that not all the girls will always say yes to you. If you start to accept that, and rejection will not bother you thus making you more confident. And being confident with yourself will eventually make you more attractive. After that, be able to experiment with your charm. Just remember, don't do anything that will hurt other people. always look approachable, harmless, and be open-minded. Now when you start to get to know this girl, whatever you do, don't let your mind wander off to space. Be sure to pay attention to her because this is where she wants to get to know you and this will her basis for first impression and then she'll decide if you're ok or not. First Dates Rules (And i mean, first dates, with an "S") : Do not ask if she likes you. Do not tell her you like her. That's it. Just develop the friendship first and then if both of you have known each other, THEN that's the time you decide if you really like her and you'll know if she really likes you. Good luck man!
2007-12-13 17:13:22
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answered by DeltaLima 3
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Uh, i would think that you're being a coward or that it was a joke played by your friends. Girls that don't like you don't take it seriously, but ones that do will be asking their friends 24/7: Does he like me? How do you know? and blah, blah, blah. I hope you will be a man and tell her in her face...some girls i know think it'd be brave and cool for the guy to do that as they kinda know what dudes go thru in that stage. Remember this is ur elite speaking.
-Ciao
2007-12-13 17:10:08
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answered by queenofthecity 4
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As a Girl!!! I suggest you ask her yourself, it seems a little immature asking ur friend to ask her out for you! Just go up to (smile!) =), be honest and be ur self and ask her out, she's bound to say Yes!
2007-12-13 17:10:23
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answered by lavergne2_23 1
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I would think, OMG is this some kind of joke? WTH?
Then I would turn to your friend, and calmly ask him "Why won't he ask me himself?"
And if he doesn't have a good answer, I'll start hitting on your friend, to mess w/ ur mind
2007-12-13 17:09:01
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answered by Narcissa K 5
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no! i would not say yes. srry but if you are nervous just fight those nerves and let her no you care. i would'nt say yes. one time a guy ask his friend ti ask me out and i said no to the friend not cause i didnt like the guy, because i thought it was sorta off that he didnt ask me hiself.
2007-12-13 17:07:18
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answered by Anonymous
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DO NOT get one of your friends to do it. Do it yourself and she'll apreciate it a whole lot more. Do it when you are alone together somewhere quiet, and make sure you make it nice for her.
I would feel horrible and cheap if someone got their friend to ask me out.
2007-12-13 17:07:02
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answered by Anonymous
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I would have more respect for you if you approached me yourself!! There is nothing more adorable than a guy stumbling over his own nervous words. figure out what you want to say to her, practice it in the mirror, then-GO FOR IT!!!!
2007-12-13 17:12:51
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answered by Anonymous
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i know a couple of girl who would not like that. they think that the men should ask up front. personally i don't care, but i think it's sweet that the guys is shy enough to let someone else ask for me.
she'll probably think about it for a couple of minutes before she gives you an answer if u ask somebody else to ask her for u.
good luck.
2007-12-13 17:08:07
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answered by grace 2
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no i would want you to do it yourself. but i would still say yes. but normally when boys do that they never talk to the girl. so if i were you i would do myself. or you could do it on the computer.
2007-12-13 17:08:09
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answered by Anonymous
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