Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

Im a 17 year old christian and my problem is that my brother's x girlfriends whom is (34) stalking me at church its not only her that's doing it she has her roomate looking at me and her roomates cousin. Now I know what you're thinkin may she just wants your brother back, no she doesnt the way she looks at me I can tell she doesnt. I mean either she's looking at me smiling or she's looking at me with a straight face, now I'm not gay at all, I even had my mother to talk to her, but she denied everything, she just got worser now she loves to intimidate me. What does she want from me could someone please tell me someone told me that she was a bi-sexual, but I'm trying not to think that lol. I mean i tried sitting behind her but she rodes her head back every 5 minutes to see if I'm still their.Why are these grown women doing this to me, I m not gay this has been going on for 5 years and she still isnt changing. I mean she looks at me so deep within my eyes. I need help

2007-12-13 10:44:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Very critical spirit. Enjoys belittling even children. Argues just
to argue. Seems to be intentional with her disrespectful remarks. Like looking for a fight. We are the only family. I don't believe there's a choice in whether to include.

Last Christmas, I spoke exact examples of the misbehavior.
And the 'victim' mentality continues.

Has anyone encountered this? What have you done?

2007-12-13 10:43:31 · 10 answers · asked by sotiredofhis 1 in Family

My husband and i have a very good relationship, we are very happy with each other( touch wood) but what bothers me sometime is...he can go wherever he likes to, he is always making friends and talking to them but every time i want to go some where he insist to come along and he always does, he checks my phone, i dont talk to anyone besides my family. if i ever go out without him he will ask me 100 of times when will i be home and if i ask him the same thing ...he doesnt like it... what should i do? how should i make him understand it goes both ways?

2007-12-13 10:42:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She makes me do stuuf i dont want to do. I HAVE to buy her stuff like im her mother. Then she MAKES me get paper for her then she justs throws it at my head like im some kind of dummy that will do whatever she says. An when I have something she wants she steals it from me. PLZ. HELP ME!!!

2007-12-13 10:41:38 · 31 answers · asked by Makayla 1 in Friends

I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 or 4 weeks now, but before then we were really good friends for 4 months before we started dating each other. The whole time we were friends we liked each other. So today i told him "i think i love you" and he said "i love you too".. After that i told him that he doesn't have to say that if he doesn't mean it because it won't hurt my feelings. And he said "no i do love you". Today he told me that 3 times.
Should i believe him?
Do you think he i just saying that so he can get some?

2007-12-13 10:40:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was curious to know what others think. Thanks!

2007-12-13 10:40:23 · 19 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay here is the story, there is a boy that likes me but i kind of like another boy, the boy that i like now i turned him down when i was younger (9) now he is friends with the boy that likes me. The boy that likes me asked me out but i dont know what to do, i dont want to say no because then people will be all up in my face asking me why and again most of the people in my school if you ask them they will say yes but unless they really dont like you. If i say yes (which i dont want to because it dont want to go out with him) i would be lying to myself and him but i dont want to break his heart. SOME ONE PLEASE HELP ME!!!!! Oh and the boy i like im not sure if he likes me but sometimes he shows a hint of jealousy, so does these other 3 boys te he. And i still want to be friends with him he is still funny. And please dont say anyhing about "peer pressure".

2007-12-13 10:40:07 · 14 answers · asked by scorpiomimikins 1 in Singles & Dating

My father went into rehab in june and hes been out since september. he still attends AL meetings... but ever since this past sunday hes been acting strange... the last i saw him was on sunday night and he came home today (thursday)... he hasnt gone to work in the past four days and i think hes doing what he usually does when he starts drinking/smoking alot.... now my family starting to have the same problems again.. what can i do?

2007-12-13 10:38:52 · 4 answers · asked by Emma :) 1 in Family

2007-12-13 10:38:12 · 15 answers · asked by thedreammaster1984 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I told my boyfriend his friend said he was cheating.

He got really mad and said- Can I call you back in a minute??

So he called his friend and said that his friend thought was cheating but he wasn't. My boyfriend seemed less mad after that but still was a little. He said he'd do anything to prove he wasn't cheating. I found it all a little queer... what do you think???
P.S. His friend hits on me a lot....

2007-12-13 10:37:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in May 2006 this psycho woman my mother met online came from Troy, NY to our house in Maryland one night while my father was out of the house, and they made us pack up, abandon the house and our stuff, and move to Troy, NY all in 1 night. My brother is 23 and has autism, my sister is 20, and I am 21 and in college in Maryland. But none of us can drive. In August 2006 my mother reluctantly agreed to take me back to MD for college, but her friend came along and yelled at, and nearly killed me the entire way while my mother did nothing but look sad. Once in MD all they did was drop me at my father's mother's house and then my mother immediately drove back to Troy, NY. And in June 2007 my mother's mother, to whom I was very close and who was already in very bad shape from worrying about my mother had done, finally died. So my mother, brother, and sister are in Troy, NY, and none of them even came down here for the funeral,

2007-12-13 10:37:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and w always thought we were meant for eachother. When we met it was like we already knew eachother, there was never an awkward 'getting to know you' stage with us. We're both only seventeen, and we're still in highschool. Last year he got sick with mono and stopped coming to school for a while because he was so sick, and ever since then he hasn't been coming to school at all. It's been almost 8 monthes since he's come to school. He used to be a very good student and i don't know what happened. He pretty much shows no interest in anything anymore except video games. He doesn't even seem to feel motivated to talk to me at all. If we ever do anything its always me calling him. I try to do nice things for him all the time, but i get nothig in return. I feel like i don't really want to be with him anymore but I really do still like him and i see his potential. It makes me really sad. Do you think I should move on? How?

2007-12-13 10:37:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have loved a guy for almost two years. He cheated on me because we "didn't see each other enough" and left me for someone he's only known for a few months. Of course he's an idiot because I love him to death! Do I just go on? I can't just forget about him. Your advice please. . .

2007-12-13 10:36:51 · 14 answers · asked by mamasbaby 3 in Singles & Dating

When you chatting on MySpace?
Thanks x

2007-12-13 10:36:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my boyfriend n it ended up being the biggest mistake of my life... he is mad at me now... how do i get him back ... how do i make him want me again?

please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! : (

2007-12-13 10:34:18 · 1 answers · asked by Mandeexrox 1 in Singles & Dating

like im not going to post any pictures of myself but i am 15yrs old . and i just want to know like what most girls do to "beautify" themself. i would like to try some of their "tricks".

2007-12-13 10:34:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok children get stress from almost anything but how do they manage it or what do they do "express" their feelings or the stress they have

2007-12-13 10:33:49 · 12 answers · asked by SARII 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, yeah, it's a does he like me question, so I'll make it quick. There is this guy I like, and I don't know if he likes me, because he is in a higher social class than I am. I still have a lot of friends, but in a different group. Anyway, yesterday, he sat down next to me in class, which suprised me, and then today though, someone else was sitting next to me. She moved to sit somewhere else though, and then the next thing I knew, the guy I like sat right next to me! We didn't really talk, so I don't know. Please help!
thanx

2007-12-13 10:33:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its unmanly to have to wash and fold silky panties and bras!
Do I really need to enforce the - I'm not modeling it if you don't help wash it -rule or will he come around soon enough?

2007-12-13 10:33:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so do you guys (guys only plz) like girls who wear no panties anywhere or what

2007-12-13 10:30:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 15 and i wanna do something romantic for my girlfriend
I dont know what to do
Please help me?

2007-12-13 10:30:42 · 5 answers · asked by Lee 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 10:29:54 · 10 answers · asked by chicken lover 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother has found himself in a challenging situation. I don't want to get too involed but I want to support him, and his wife. His mother in-law is a very controlling and insecure person, according to her daughter. I have met her a few times and agree there is something wrong with her. She has gone behind her daughters back and doesn't respect choices they have made. When her daughter attempts to be firm and make her wishes known, her mom turns the situation around and makes her daughter feel guilty and depressed. This is affecting the relationship between my brother and his wife. There are children involved, and they are concerned about what she does around the children. This issue is getting worse and bringing alot of stress to our family. My brother wants to tell off his mother in-law, and tell her to butt out because she isn't listening to what her daughter wants. I don't think this is a good idea. I think this is the daughters responsibility and not the son in-law. Please help.

2007-12-13 10:29:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

two weeks ago he broke up with me after a year because he suddenly didnt know if he loved me anymore and was tired. I was so upset and I cried so much (I still am upset). I saw him two days after and he had cut marks on his wirsts. we're 21 so its not a phase or anything. I got him to talk to me about it and he said he wanted to die now that we arent together. I asked him if he wanted to go back out and he said no, not now.

well then he started calling me a lot for about a week and now he hasnt called at all. he promised he'd call last night and never did.

hes acting crazy and I dont know what to do. because I dont want him to do anything to hurt himself but it was his choice to breakup! I did not want to at all.

2007-12-13 10:29:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I meet a guy over the weekend last saturday at a club.
He approached me we talked. We hit it off. danced,
My one male friend that was out partying with us. Approached the guy that asked me out, and pretty much gave him a playful hard time. he gave him the "this is my best friend... be nice to her or ill hurt you" speech. Both boys laughed at it.
I found it great that he continued to talk to me even though my overly muscled friend gave him the third degree. Most guys dont. At the end of the night we swapped numbers.
He called me the next day(sunday), and the day after that. and on wednesday asked me out, for a coffee on thursday(today)
So today. I get a phone call from him today.
"telling me he wants to be straight with me, and has BUNCH of family drama happening, and has to deal with it. and will call me in a few days to re-schedule..."
IS buddy full of crap? Do guys actually take girls seriously that they pick up in a club?

2007-12-13 10:28:57 · 7 answers · asked by DreaDEA 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean today everything seemed so great. (kinda like him). We'd hang out, laugh at each others jokes. He hangs out with me the most. Sometimes we just look into each others eyes. And i really have this vibe, like we really like each other but im not sure. But we're friends. But most of the time people will keep asking us do we like each other. And finally today they asked us for the millionth time and he said that he sweard that he did not like me like that. And i said the same (as usaul) but this time when i said this he looked me and said are you sure. And i was like yeah i dont like you and he was like ok yea right. then right after that he starts acting like how i just told you. I would think he's playing around but why would he waste almost every minute of the day with me???? (he makes me sooo confused plz help me!)

2007-12-13 10:27:55 · 21 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1 in Singles & Dating

If you loved the person your with would you ever get there name tattooed on you? People always say no because you wont be with tht person 4ever and when u break up you will be pissed at yourself and feel stupid, but i feel like if i did it, and me and my dude broke up, i wouldnt be mad cuz thts how i felt at tht time! Now wut do u think?

2007-12-13 10:26:46 · 13 answers · asked by Sham 1 in Singles & Dating

okay my mother in law drives me crazy she has hated me forever i dont think sheever like dme but anyway my main problem is she always ask's about our money how much we have did we pay the house payment my hubby just changes the subject does not talk to her baout it so how do i tell her that we dont want top talk about money with her or anyone else for that matter

2007-12-13 10:26:12 · 8 answers · asked by samantha k 1 in Family

We've been dating pretty seriously for almost year now. We're both 18 years old, and I have a car so transportation isn't a problem. But here IS the problem.. I'm putting myself through school so cash is really tight.

Our one year anniversary and christmas is just a week apart, and I obviously can't afford something for both occassions, so I want to do something really special for him. What is something that would just melt his heart?

I want responses from guys who are genuine and true because that's the kind of man HE is. So boys, if you are affectionate and honest, what is something that she does that drives you wild?

Please help.. I need this in just the next couple days!!!

2007-12-13 10:24:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love bbw i find their shape and their curves very sexy
to me that is far more appealing than some of the wafer thin girls you have to be these days to fit in, iknow a lot of guys who find them attractive after a gutful of beer yet are ashamed when they are sober, i'm proud to be a chubbychaser why can't others?

2007-12-13 10:23:29 · 28 answers · asked by shu9861 2 in Singles & Dating