Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

I can't move anywhere else, they are living 75% of the time in the mountains so everything is fine most of the time BUT fiance is still attached I guess and when his dad asks him to come to the mountains for the weekend, it's done. I have no choice in the matter. Now that its the holidays, its worse. On thanksgiving, I went to my dads while he went to his sisters and they felt that I should have went with them even though I promised my dad first. Now it's Xmas and I told fiance I didn't want to go to the mountains but we're going since my family's parties are different days. Does this mean hes not ready for marriage if he doesnt want to spend a holiday alone with me?Also, I'm 20 wks preg. and want my kid to see my family too. How can I get the point across that my family isn't dead and isn't in another country and that seeing them is very important to me? I love him to death but I'm not ditching my whole life for him. What should I say and what should I do?

2007-12-13 11:14:35 · 4 answers · asked by templeowlchick06 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I purchased a wedding gown for my daughter and she found a different dress that she liked. So we purchased that dress and now I have a brand new dress that I want to sell and I am having a hard time narrowing down a shop that will purchase s item in question. If I could narrow down a consignment shop(s) that specializes in this type of item for resale I would gladly appreciate it.

2007-12-13 11:13:59 · 6 answers · asked by dawn t 1 in Weddings

okay so ive had this crush on this girl. So i deicided to write a note about this inside joke we had.

Then i put the note inside her backpack...

5 hours later her friend tells me that i wrote a emotional love letter to her!!
I couldnt believe it!!...but it seems that i put the wrong piece of paper in her backpack..

insead of puting a note..i put a love note...which i wrote a week ago when i was bored...

now she knows how i emotionaly feel about her. In this love note i go into detail by using poetry and stuff. Its very profound. But i had no intention of showing her...

now i have to see her tomorrow...and i dont know what to say..

2007-12-13 11:13:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I get married, I will never cheat. No matter what. No matter what. Why? Because I would rather die than break my woman's heart like that. DEATH BEFORE DISHONOR!!!!

Family first!! I don't care about jobs. I don't care about money. I don't care about a nice car and house. I don't even care about sex. Family first!!!!

2007-12-13 11:12:18 · 26 answers · asked by airforcewolf16 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 11:10:16 · 5 answers · asked by Arisa W 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 months and he keep pressuring me to have sex I finally said yes we did it 4 times but I don't really like it. I'm tiny 5'5'' and only 72 lbs he 5'7'' probably like 140 he's not fat he just has muscle. It hurts every time I do it cause I am so small and hes so much bigger than me. What do I do?

2007-12-13 11:10:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes i like my sister, but she's constantly stealing my stuff like nintendo ds cellphone,etc. and losing it!!! I REALLY hate that!! I'm so overwhelmed by this person...how do i deal with it?
ugh!! shes SOOOOO irresponsible i'd like to tell her to get a life and move away to russia and freeze to death there.
and my mom also blames me she says that i "let her take it"
WHY WOULD I?!!?
and u no wat the stupidest thing is??
shes 2 years older than me..
anywayz this person is seriously disturbed.

2007-12-13 11:09:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-13 11:09:33 · 15 answers · asked by sonyviki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

All right tommrow my high school goes on winter break. There is a girl i want to ask out and i know she is interested. Problem is I have been waiting for an oppurtunity that may never come. She is always around other people and I have been thinking that I should start some dialog before I actually ask her out. Problem is I dont really want to spend 2 weeks on break without her. What should I do to get her? Should i just ask her out or try to get her phone number so we can talk more. BTW I am almost 100% sure that she really likes me I have been just shy in the past. Tommorow though I am definitely gonna do it. Oh, and what can I do to get her away from her friends so it is less indimadating? Any extra info or ideas would be appreciated. Oh and just as a reminder I only have 1 shot to do this before break.

Thanks a lot in advance

2007-12-13 11:09:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently divorced and have two children with her. I haven't bond with my 3month old and very close to my 3yr old. I live an hour and a half away from them and I commute to see my eldest every week. I pay child support and she uses the money for her family and very little goes to the kids. In the past I provided for her. She never went to work or recievced a higher education than high school. Her mom has always influenced her life alot. I miss my ex and wish things could be but I realize to much pain and burnt bridges. The trust is gone and I know if we ever got back I would be the one that carries all the weight and it's only a problem since she feels I have to do EVERYTHING! I want to find me a woman soon but I don't know if that would make life easire or worse

2007-12-13 11:08:54 · 10 answers · asked by Leonidas 3 in Marriage & Divorce

1. be married to a guy who is really really good in bed (i'm talkin stamina) a total playboy....and has large hard equipment ......... but ur not convinced that he loves u and u think that u may get a divorce in the future....u also feel that can't trust him what so ever.

or

2. Be married to a guy who has a small softer penis.......is a min man and is bad when it comes to sex.....but he absoultley adores you and is loyal and u can tell because u feel it in ur heart and he always protects u and buys u things..

both have the same job and make the same amount of $.

2007-12-13 11:08:13 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I heard that was true. Is it? If that is the case, then my POOR parents! They have been together for almost 31 years, they must really not be liked by the world! ;-) I'm not trying to brag but what is up with all these people are are committing extramarital sex??! I know the world is now kind of morally on the other side, but really, is marriage really not the thing to do anymore? Geez, and I was looking forward to my wedding day =(.

2007-12-13 11:07:31 · 6 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 11:06:48 · 22 answers · asked by oranda lady 3 in Family

thanx -tom

2007-12-13 11:01:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well here goes: I have been with my wife for 15 yrs since school and I'm 30. I have been married for 2 years to her.
At this moment in time i still know i love her but i dont fancy her anymore.
I dont enjoy having sex with her.
I am bored in her company and we run out of things to do and talk about together.
Things have gone into a routine and sometimes its her not wanting to do other stuff. I have a lot of hobbies which i enjoy but i feel the need to always getting home to keep her company as she doesnt have many friend to go and see when i'm out. I tried getting her to do stuff but she is getting lazy and claiming to be too tired.
I feel like part of an old couple but i'm still so youthful inside. My wife is also not taking care of herself and started putting weight on which doesnt help matters.
I have met someone at work who i get along with v.well, we both fallen for each other but she wont come near me due to my status, is it worth leaving my wife for potential happiness?

2007-12-13 11:00:27 · 19 answers · asked by gadgey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A powerful bit of leadership and manly behavior with a good measure of proper religion may be what is needed today!

2007-12-13 11:00:08 · 9 answers · asked by JIM 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 10:59:55 · 73 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we went on a couple of outings together "dates". but this one time i told him i was embarased 2 be seen with him. i told him i was just playing. but he was really sad that i said it. but we wud play like that..he didnt talk to me for like 2 days. a few days later everything was back 2 normal. we were laughin a nd stuff. then 2 weeks later he said he was going with a girl who worked with us, a mutual friend. i talked 2 this girl she knew i liked him. he knew i liked him i think..& i cant b mad B-c we r just friends. so i wasnt b-c we said we were just friends. then he tells me he loves me , but hes getting a tattoo of this girl name.( i think he did it just to make me jealous). it worked. he didnt know. then one night he was drunk and he tells me he loves me &hes mad we arent together. i laughed it off. i didnt know if he was serious. he constantly puts me over his Gf . she will call &he will lie 2 stay on the fone with me.(smiling) i told him y arent we together .he said i dnt like u.Y

2007-12-13 10:58:36 · 5 answers · asked by annie 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't really have any problem with gay people, some of my friends are gay, but I was just wondering what people thought on the subject. I think that they shouldn't get married because in the definition of marriage it says the social institution under which a man and woman establish their decision to live as husband and wife by legal commitments, religious ceremonies, etc. but I still think that they should beable to be united just not from the church. The reason why I'm asking this question is because some of my friends are for gay marriages and others aren't, and I just want to see if one side has more supporters than the other. If you could tell me why you are for or against gay marriages that would be great, so what's your opinion?

2007-12-13 10:58:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I didn't talk to this girl in my class that I had a crush on all semester. Would it be weird if I emailed her to ask her if she wants to study with me for the final?

2007-12-13 10:57:49 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. What makes a girl hot?

2. What makes a girl pretty?

2007-12-13 10:57:45 · 30 answers · asked by Alycia [♥] 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 10:56:45 · 63 answers · asked by ~~♥♥♥~~ 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so this guy he always looks at me and smiles and looks into my eyes Even when he is talking to other ppl he will still look at me When Im around he will look at me for like a second and look away each time People always catch him looking at me When i'm around him he is always laughing and smiling at me When we talk to eachother we will both move closer to eachother each time we talk when im around him i am so comfortable When ppl ask him something he wll go like " ask her she is smarter" and smile at me. But today my friend asked him who he liked and he said no one. But he found out that someone liked him. He kept on asking me who it was there was a bunch of girls around him. He kept on asking me who lliked him. I was like idunoo. Each time he asked me he would have the biggest smile on his face When i walk behind him he would just keep on looking back at me smiling we played games together before and he let me win a bunch of times i think he is just shy guy He never had a gf befo

2007-12-13 10:54:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you look for in a girl when you are wanting a relationship? What turns you off and what turns you on. Im a single gal and I would like to hear from all you single guys out there. Thanks.

2007-12-13 10:53:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my hubby is a beautiful man, and i have been a cow , i am 10 weeks pregnant and have not totally been in the mood for romance ,because of my morning sickness i am also very
cautious,i don't want to throw up on him, which is one of the reasons why i am not as interested in sex, but i want to give it to him.what can i do ?i thought of doing a little strip tease for him but i don't know ....... help

2007-12-13 10:53:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My house (im 13) is clutter central!! there is not one clean and simple room. my house isnt really dirty, its just so packed with stuff and unorganized. my mom has a shopping addiction, and i just cant seem to help her get rid of anything. everything she gets, she cant give up. and nothing matches. oh and shes bipolar and has depression, so she gets mad easily.

2007-12-13 10:48:40 · 9 answers · asked by Confetti! 2 in Family

My boss is cheating and I want to follow him around and film him, hopefully catching him in the act. Then I will have proof to send to his wife. Is this legal? Please don't tell me don't mind my business. Anyone who says that is a cheater anyway.

2007-12-13 10:47:29 · 21 answers · asked by airforcewolf16 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just a regular girl, i think i know what i want but when it boils down to it i really have no idea. I have a boyfriend that i've been with for over a year. I'd say he's my first 'love' --as corny as that sounds. anyways he became a huge slacker over the course of our relationship and i'm not sure that i really like that about him, and the thing is, theres this other guy that i sort of developed a bit of a 'crush' on for lack of a better word. The other guy actually goes to school and gets good marks, and i like. At the same time, i still see a huge amount of potential in my boyfriend and i live his easy-going personality, its just that sometimes he annoys the hell out of me and he has terrible habbits and a bad work ethic. Does anyone have any suggestions on what i should do about this?

2007-12-13 10:45:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is such a sweet heart he treats me so good but my mom doesn't know that i'm dateing him should i let him tell her because he really wants to or wait until the right time

2007-12-13 10:45:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Only two for me and it did not include my Husband.

2007-12-13 10:44:40 · 35 answers · asked by D 7 in Marriage & Divorce