All right tommrow my high school goes on winter break. There is a girl i want to ask out and i know she is interested. Problem is I have been waiting for an oppurtunity that may never come. She is always around other people and I have been thinking that I should start some dialog before I actually ask her out. Problem is I dont really want to spend 2 weeks on break without her. What should I do to get her? Should i just ask her out or try to get her phone number so we can talk more. BTW I am almost 100% sure that she really likes me I have been just shy in the past. Tommorow though I am definitely gonna do it. Oh, and what can I do to get her away from her friends so it is less indimadating? Any extra info or ideas would be appreciated. Oh and just as a reminder I only have 1 shot to do this before break.
Thanks a lot in advance
2007-12-13 11:09:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The next time you see her ask her if you could talk with her in private! :--#)
2007-12-13 11:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u should try to know her better before asking her out. Winter break could be a great time for this!
1, call her appart from a moment if u dont wana do it in front of her friends, and ask for her number
2,call her in 2 or 3 days, and ask her if shed like to do whatever (iceskating is actually nice, but anything, like "I need help to get a xmas present for my sister and i think ull b great help" is also a good excuse that gives u an 'alibi')
3, as she likes u, shell be delighted! Take the chance to talk to her and get to know each other better. After a first meeting, u could meet some other time as friends: go to each others house to study, play videogames,chat on the computer...
4, after a few meetings, tell her how u feel and ask her out. itll work ok! :)
2007-12-13 11:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it!!!!! You sound really sweet and if your as sweet as you sound she will be thrilled that you took the time. Of course asking her for her phone number could give you a great way to get to know her while you are on break, I think that you are right ask her what she's doing over the weekend and if you could have her phone number so that you two could maybe get together over break. Who cares about her friends, maybe you could just grab her and ask if you could talk to her for a minute and go off to the side where her friends can't hear you.
2007-12-13 11:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. Maybe ask her during the passing time between classes, where she most likely wont be with too many friends. Or you could write her a note and slip it in her locker... But it is better to ask it to her face. Just say "Hey _______, I was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime?" And when she says yes, ask her for her number so that you can call her over the break. Good luck!
2007-12-13 11:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by 1012 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her if you could talk to her for a minute and motion her away from her friends. or if you have a class together ask her something about it and then slip in do you want to go out some time. the good news is at least you know she is interested. but make sure you don't chicken out you might not get the chance to ask her out again.
2007-12-13 11:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ann K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write your number on a piece of paper and go directly to her even if she is with her friends (remember in the movie Hitch where Hitch walks up to the beautiful girl that is surrounded by other guys?) and give her a smile and place the note in her hand and slowly rub or slip your hand (as if you do not want to go away from her--slowly pulling on her hand) and walk away or you can just go and tell her how you feel ( just don't tell her every feeling you have for her) and wait for her to smile or turn away.
2007-12-13 11:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by Lifeline 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if you can talk to her in private for a minute and tell her you like her and would like to stay in touch during your school break. Keep it casual and friendly. Make plans, (if she lives close by your house) to grab a cup of coffee or a bite to eat sometime during the break. Good Luck!
2007-12-13 11:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by luv devil child 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could ask for her phone number on the way to busses or in the hall if she happens to be alone. if shes one of those people who is always around friends you might just wanna ask her to talk to you for a minute then ask her out. i think directly asking her out would be better also because it takes guts to do that and she will see that... it may be uncomfortable for you.
2007-12-13 11:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming that you guys have some sort of friendship/acquaintanceship already. bring some Christmas cards to school tomorrow and give her one. Write your phone number inside. Bonus points if you put a CD with a few Christmas songs inside.
2007-12-13 11:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by Merritt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww this is so sweet.
Well if you know her friends ask them to have her go "some place" so they can lead her to you...hoping they'll leave you two alone so you can ask her out
The other option is you can wait for her outside of her class since you can walk with her and lead her some place else to talk to her and not have to deal with her friends.
hope this helps! :D
2007-12-13 11:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by Msmartini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should go for it!!!
u really don't have to get her away from her friends cuz as soon as u walk away shes gonna tell her friends every detail so its just easier to ask her in front of her friends and maybe her friends will encourage her to go out with you!!!
2007-12-13 11:13:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋