Im a 17 year old christian and my problem is that my brother's x girlfriends whom is (34) stalking me at church its not only her that's doing it she has her roomate looking at me and her roomates cousin. Now I know what you're thinkin may she just wants your brother back, no she doesnt the way she looks at me I can tell she doesnt. I mean either she's looking at me smiling or she's looking at me with a straight face, now I'm not gay at all, I even had my mother to talk to her, but she denied everything, she just got worser now she loves to intimidate me. What does she want from me could someone please tell me someone told me that she was a bi-sexual, but I'm trying not to think that lol. I mean i tried sitting behind her but she rodes her head back every 5 minutes to see if I'm still their.Why are these grown women doing this to me, I m not gay this has been going on for 5 years and she still isnt changing. I mean she looks at me so deep within my eyes. I need help
2007-12-13 10:44:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you truly feel intimidated by this lady, you really are being stalked and should report it to the police. She may have a "geranium in the cranium" as Ann Landers used to say. You do not want the situation to escalate.
If you think she's spiteful, but harmless, try to talk to her. Speak quietly but in a public place, and say that you feel like she's trying to get your attention. Ask her if you can help her with anything. Try to ask sincerely and in a happy tone of voice-not threatening or snarky. Hopefully, she'll give you an answer.
Good luck!
2007-12-13 10:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Molly B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whilst human beings arise with one in all those ingredient, it ability that guy or woman (who's the same intercourse) is rather involved in you. you may desire to sit down and communicate over along with her. a pair instances she seems returned, be there. yet whilst she seems away at one factor, run off and don't seem returned OR circulate returned! If she would not like it, tell your brother. possibly your brother will help you. communicate to him gently why you choose help. If he would not get it--you already know how adult males are, they are stupid each and every so often--tell him why you choose help. If this would not help, i'm somewhat sorry. i understand the sensation of being stalked via an ex-lady pal of a brother. as quickly as returned, i'm sorry if this would not help. (I swear i'm no longer gay!)
2016-11-26 21:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's being messing with you. She's picking on you because she's not with your brother anymore. But I would watch myself around her.
2007-12-13 10:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words: Restraing order.
If this was me I would have my brother tell her to stay the heck away from my family or she will be arrested for stalking!!
I think that freaking her out would work, but if not.. Then tell her to stay away from you. I would make that clear and have witnesses!!
Good Luck!!
2007-12-13 10:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow maybe she saw you in your diaper and wants to hook up with you now that you are older. Anyway when I was 17 I would have had to see what was up and then I would have tried to have her and her friends all at the same time. But I forgot now a days the youngsters can not handle what we used to be able to.
2007-12-13 10:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your mom talk to her.Just mention to her that you notice she is staring at you a lot and you want to know whats up.or have your pastor sit down with you and her and hash it out.Church is NOT a place for things like this.
2007-12-13 10:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋