i mean today everything seemed so great. (kinda like him). We'd hang out, laugh at each others jokes. He hangs out with me the most. Sometimes we just look into each others eyes. And i really have this vibe, like we really like each other but im not sure. But we're friends. But most of the time people will keep asking us do we like each other. And finally today they asked us for the millionth time and he said that he sweard that he did not like me like that. And i said the same (as usaul) but this time when i said this he looked me and said are you sure. And i was like yeah i dont like you and he was like ok yea right. then right after that he starts acting like how i just told you. I would think he's playing around but why would he waste almost every minute of the day with me???? (he makes me sooo confused plz help me!)
2007-12-13 10:27:55 · 21 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he might just like you as a friend or he might be lying
you need to stop lying and admit that you like him, then he'll admit it too
2007-12-13 10:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by toothPASTE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the SAME EXACT situation for 2 entire years. Then I moved, the day before I moved we ended up kissing and telling each other our true feelings. Come to find out he didn't tell me or other people he liked me because he didn't want to ruin our friendship if I didn't feel the same. I didn't tell him because I was also afraid things would be weird if I told him I liked him and he didn't like me. The only way to know for sure is to confront him with it (ALONE!) Be honest and tell him, at times I feel like there might be more to this than friendship. Do you ever feel that way? If he is that good of a friend he will understand and won't let it get in the way of a friendship even if he doesn't feel the same. Don't do the mistake I did! Ask him about this!
2007-12-13 18:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe he's just confused as well and that he might be upset if he really did like you because you said you didn't like him. My advice, just ask him if he really doesn't like you or not if he says no then tell him and let him know that you like him and maybe he'll see what a good person you are and ask you out. i hope i helped and good luck. =]
-olivia
2007-12-13 18:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by liviy94 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, he knows you like him. Why are you lying? Be a woman, grow up and stop being afraid. Life's too short to play games. If he's willing to state outright he doesn't like you in that fashion, UNLIKE him or spend time with someone cute who WILL and move on.
2007-12-13 18:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I agree, he's a guy. Honestly don't waste your time with that drama. There are way too many fish in the sea.
2007-12-13 18:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by ღஐcavalier de fantômeஐღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. He has no self confidence, and is somewhat confused as how to act. Make your feeling known to him, and let the chips fall as they will. If you scare him away, you haven't lost anything worth having.
2007-12-13 18:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by davetheguitarplayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you like him, and you know he likes you. So stop this foolishness, admit it to your friends so they will get off your backs, and hook up. The two of you are more concerned about your friends opinions than your feelings for each other. Get a grip and go for it!
Feel me?
2007-12-13 18:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by Califiyah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes u a lot but just deosnt want to say it and the part when he said "are you sure?" he could have forgotten about people watching and him not telling you so i tried covering up for what he did
2007-12-13 18:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by ♦drop it like its hot!♦ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either may not have any male friends or he really does like you more than he says but doesn't want to admit it for fear of rejection.
2007-12-13 18:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally think that he likes you from what you said. but check and see if he acts like this with other girls.or just ask him if he does. dont be scared too. i mean your not scared when your flirting are you?
2007-12-13 18:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by baller99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋