Drugs + Love?

Question

im going to ask this again, has anyone here seen a relationship work out where both parties abuse drugs ( all day everyday) and thats the only thing they do when they hang out?

Answer 1

I have known people who use drugs together, but they had jobs, and they are still together (things worked out). But I have know A LOT of people that used drugs together and things didn't work out. Therefore, I would say the odds are against it.

Answer 2

I have seen it work out when both parties use drugs and are functional members of society while using drugs, yes. But, the fact that you say, "abusing" raises the red flag. If both parties "abuse" drugs (by THEIR OWN definition) and if it affects their functionality (grades, holding down a job, etc), then of course it may not work out due to the drug use --- or for a number of other reasons.

Answer 3

i know it sounds bad but a lot of times it does work out probably longer than a sober relationship. BUT it doesnt mean it will last.
its a horrible equally drug abusive relationship but if they both think pretty much the same which is get more drugs and do more drugs then yes it works out for them.

the problem is when one of them wants to get off drugs. or even "cut down". problems start to stir if its not equal in the relationship. secrets start.
if she says shes cutting down and wants him to cut down also, he might not feel the same way but say ok and still do drugs be hind her back. thus will create many problems. (as if both parties being on drugs wasnt enough problems)

it really depends on the person.
if there is an equal and open relationship things usually work out for a while untill someone wants to stop the drugs.
if it isnt EQUAL then one might start to complain...
ex:
"i paid last time so you pay"
"i dont have any more money ill get you back next week."
"thats what you said last week!!"
.... and so on.

get it?
i personally dont think its a healthy relationship.
im not judging you on drugs or whatever. if you want to have fun by all means its your life.
sex life is a different story.
drugs + sex = : D
drugs + love = : (

Answer 4

uhhhhhh no. I've seen relationships where the guy was a major druggie and the girl was little miss perfect/ ballerina/ daddy's girl. But He had to cut back on drugs because he got on probation. But the couple is still strong. But I've never seen it with both parties being hard core druggies.

Answer 5

Depends on what you mean by "work out." By just using the word "abuse" you show a certain implausibility of it working out. But I've seen relationships where it seemed like they weren't hurting themselves any more than usual. If they can still have a connection, I guess its better to be together than alone....its hard to say.

Answer 6

No... I have yet to seen a relationship work where both people are using. Even when your both trying to stay clean together it's better to stay single and have a good 2 years both of you clean before you return for a relationship.

Answer 7

no nothing works out in this issue, you both get side tracked by other problems caused by the drug abuse and having no money because its been used up on the drugs

Answer 8

Won't work for long and if you are both high, how can you discern love from some euphoria induced by drugs. Quit getting high. Drugs eventually kill or ruin all abusers.

Answer 9

Honestly, I've seen a lot of relationships like this, and none of them have worked out.

Answer 10

Drugs will eventually take there toll on both parties. There is no pot of gold at that rainbow.