Family & Relationships - 30 November 2007

my boyfriend has been christened and i havent, we really would like to get married in a church and i dont know if we can. please help

2007-11-30 05:47:01 · 18 answers · asked by claire H 1 in Weddings

2007-11-30 05:46:38 · 26 answers · asked by Black Scorpio 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My new secretary is a hotty! She must join me and my wife in the bedroom , soon or I am going to explode. I don't want to go behind my wife's back and we've never done this sort of thing before.

2007-11-30 05:46:27 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love pizza, video games, cartoons,dogs, naps, science(sometimes) makeup (sometimes), dresses(sometimes), and most of all guys!!!! any guy accept for really pervert guys and stuck up guys!!!! am i hott or cute?????

2007-11-30 05:43:50 · 12 answers · asked by shanaynay m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-30 05:42:30 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my son was dating his gf for over 4 years, they had a baby 9 months ago, and i supported her mentaly through it all. to the end. son had some drug issue problems and i had tp get him in rehab , i been through alot with him he is one of those Intervention kids who rebels on the parents! son now moved out 2 weeks ago, his gf finally on msn got to me, with harsh words such as im a terrible mom, she always hated me and pretended to like me so she could come to my house, she dont need to come over now since son moved, i thnk this was her oppurtunity to be mean to me, also called me a hussy off the street lol. she hangs with a grown woman from work inher 40s who said to say that to me. i had been to hell and justc starting to come back , since son was 15 years old, he was a hand full. I guess she states im a horrible person. but really im not, but was frustrated from sons lifestyle and corruption of our home for 9 years . many arguemnts in the home

2007-11-30 05:40:32 · 39 answers · asked by flowerlegz 3 in Family

okay i want to mary my bf of almost 3 months we have dated befor and its a toltal of 9 months i love him to death and he is going into the army in january and might get sent to iraq any adive

2007-11-30 05:37:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Would you sleep with a really ugly man if he was wealthy and offered you £100billion/$100billion to sleep with him for one night? Let's say he's as ugly as David Guest, would you still do it? You wouldn't ever have to work again and you would be financially secure for the rest of your life.

2007-11-30 05:36:34 · 21 answers · asked by Axehole 2 in Singles & Dating

grandbaby had his dedication(his mommy is baptist) we as grandparents werent told about it nor were we invited, i found out about it by facebook , a quote she was saying about it..is funnyn because at the time we were talking. now we arent since i asked her why we werent invited. she got upset at me for being insulted for not being invited

2007-11-30 05:34:07 · 8 answers · asked by flowerlegz 3 in Family

2007-11-30 05:33:37 · 21 answers · asked by miss me! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

what is a good, free dating site, that you can email people, and have no charges, or signing up, and has alot of members that you can search locally

2007-11-30 05:30:08 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Here I go to the party with this girl I know about 4 weeks. She is a virgo. Would it be nice to buy her a virgo sign necklace or what? What do u suggest if not necklace?
Thanks for visiting.

2007-11-30 05:28:16 · 5 answers · asked by Narbeh 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-30 05:24:12 · 12 answers · asked by Steve C 7 in Singles & Dating

Now people have CRITICIZED HER FOR PUTTING HIM IN A HOME...I do not get that because she was unable to care for him...when she had two little children to raise ALONE...I mean she made the best choice for her and the kids...I DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE criticism.?????..because NONE OF US WOULD WANT TO BE IN HER SITUATION...I know i would NOT...It is toooooo brutal...Remember we would have to walk in her shoes in order to judge her...What is your take on that?

2007-11-30 05:21:58 · 33 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance' and I are both Catholic. I became Catholic last Easter and began working on an annulment as soon as I was confirmed. I had a very awful marriage when I was 19 to an athiest and have been divorced for 10 years. We both wanted very much to be married in the church, but because my ex has gotten to the venue changed to a diocees that is understaffed we have decided (with the input of our priest) that we are going to go ahead and have a civil ceremony. We have also decided because of our ages, 33 and 36 that we want to begin our family right away. The trouble is I want to have a wedding and once the annulment comes through I want to have a small Catholic Mass, he on the other hand wants the oposite a small civil ceremony and a large Catholic Mass after the annulment. I didn't have a wedding when I was younger and I want to have a celebration of our love that everyone can attend, all of our family and friends, nothing over the top but a wedding none the less.

2007-11-30 05:20:52 · 11 answers · asked by L H 4 in Weddings

for marriage

2007-11-30 05:18:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Having constant rift with my husband, as he feels I do not support him when he wants to do things for his mom. Due to this we constantly have fights, I have 2 kids 10 and 7 who are unhappy about the fights. He has never been there for me mentally, physically for the last 15 years that we have been married. Every time I ask him for love he says he is tired and other times he wants it right then, I have even caught him a few times on some odd websites may be due the websites he is on he gets excited and comes only at that time. Have tried to foregt that but just unable to do that I feel really hurt when I think of all this. He is actually the earner in the family, I have just started and am not confident finacially. A few days ago it was our anniversay and he didnot spend one bit , but was busy taking care of his mom that hurt me a lot. I am confused if I should leave him or continue living for my kids sake. Any advice on what it might be mentally, financially for me and the kids

2007-11-30 05:16:06 · 7 answers · asked by Ruchita B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i have been separated for three months. I bought a house with him and after one year, we lost it. He was in and out of jobs very often and i had to frequently pay the bills. Stress soon turned into physical abuse and now im 23 years old living at home with mom. Now he wants me back... Its exasperating because i want a sense of belonging and i've been looking for it in all the wrong places. I dont want to go back with him though, i've moved on emotionally and sexually... But i dont have the money to file for divorce. We were only married a year. Is it too late for an annullment? Where can i find legal help for low incomes? Please help...appreciate it!

2007-11-30 05:16:03 · 6 answers · asked by Beautiful Shayla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a baby 7 months ago. My husband and I have had it rough since we got married. We fought a lot. In september I noticed he acted weird when his phone was ringing late one night. I picked it up and he grabbed it out of my hand. Than after that he never left it in my sight. I got his phone and called the number. A female answered. I confronted him and after a week he said it was a woman he met online. He said he talks to her about our relationship because he's not happy with me. I found out she's 45 minutes away from us. He said he wouldn't call her again. Since this, he leaves his phone around and I check it frequently but there is no action on it. Do I trust him again? Do you think he cheated? I don't know what to believe anymore. But our relationship seems to be getting better even though we still don't have sex often. I have to initate it always. Now he's not so secretitive. Oh and... he said that she had a child. I said yeah so what I have a child. It was so weird.

2007-11-30 05:13:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

you start crying as well?

2007-11-30 05:13:44 · 16 answers · asked by young_bp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or do you just want the model type and push on?


I will let you know off the back I loveeeeeeeeeees as smart woman that knows how to be sexy too.. so both..

2007-11-30 05:12:59 · 15 answers · asked by ☻Jay ™☻ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-30 05:12:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-30 05:10:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it really as bad as everyone makes it out to be? I want to get married one day but after constantly hearing how terrible it is and having marriage referred to being sentenced to a life in prison, I am not sure I want to make that life commitment. Your opinions please!!!

2007-11-30 05:09:16 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The girl I'm with now wants to party and have sex, but she just cant cook like mum, to be honest what good is she. I think girls should go back to cookery lessons at school.

2007-11-30 05:08:45 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well I told my cousin that I was dating a white guy and she is fine with it, I told all my friends they are cool and all of these people are happy for me and they accept me for who I am my boyfriend accepts me for who I am cause I told all these people but there is one person that I need to tell but cant cause Im scared of what he might say it my dad and I am a daddys girl what can I tell him how can I tell him my boyfriend is a year older then me and he is white? help

2007-11-30 05:07:06 · 4 answers · asked by suga mama 3 in Singles & Dating

L.O.V.E. by Nat King Cole?

I know you usually use a more upbeat, popular, or funny song, but we just can't think of anything along those lines that really fits us, even though we are a young couple we dont really listen to pop music, only alternative, rock, and county, and many of our wedding songs are country already, and I really want it to be upbeat and happy, and rock jsut doesnt seem to fit in that catagory for me...

I thought this is classic and sweet and maybe an option? Any and all opinions are welcome! Honesty please! Thanks!

2007-11-30 05:04:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-30 05:02:37 · 17 answers · asked by Thankful 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf has three kids the kids mother has never taken him to court for child support because they lived together up until the last one was born. I believe the last one is 3 years old and it's been about 2 years since they broke up. Now I will say that the last child as he has told me is questionable because she cheated on him. She has also as far as I know been on welfare and has never worked a day in her life. She constantly plays games and will not allow him to see his kids. He is going to go to court to get visitation rights and is concerned with whether he'll have to pay back child support? He does take care of his kids faithfully, so its not that he isn't supporting them. I told him I didn't think they could order back child support seeing as though they lived together throughout the relationship at least. But, I've heard yes he will have to pay back child support and no he won't...So, I have know idea. For my own knowledge I'd like to know to at least tell him its a 50/50 chance.

2007-11-30 05:01:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the father of my baby, who has been with me for three years, is getting married with a woman who has been his gf for almost thirteen years. He's getting married this december. Although I've known about his gf for a long time and their plans, our relationship still went on until such time that i had his baby. Now he's reunited with her and they are planning their wedding. I just want to know, should i give him a last call to ask him if he misses me and our baby, or if he's happy (happier that when it was the three of us) or if he is truly going through with the wedding. I haven't heard from him since they were reunited. Should i be doing this for the last time, as a closure on my part? please help me!!!!

2007-11-30 05:01:17 · 56 answers · asked by violetlady 1 in Marriage & Divorce