Family & Relationships - 30 November 2007

2007-11-30 06:35:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I admit that i have a quick temper and when I'm angry i dont think b4 i speak.

Example: I need to conserve gas. Since i have to pick her up today i decided to stick around somewhere to wait as opposed to going home to then drive back. She insist that I should go home because she doesnt want me to wait around which in return will make her hurry up with getting dressed to not keep me waititng.

I advised her that it was fine with me waititng because i need to conserve gas. This went on back and fourth for a couple min and in the end i got irritated because i felt it was my choice to wait . I said things like "Just let me be, thats my choice, i am choosing 2 wait" and "leave me alone"

She was hurt because of my comments.

MY question: I know i am wrong for getting loud but i feel that me wanting to wait was my choice for my own good. Even though her intentions were good her persistance was what got to me.

Any advice to help me control this problem? I dont want to lose her!!!

2007-11-30 06:31:35 · 3 answers · asked by ♥♪ Zee ☆♫ 4 in Singles & Dating

My brother is engaged to a really awful girl whom I really hate, but I don't want to cause a family fued by boycotting their wedding. And I don't hate her just to hate her...
1. they've only been dating 10 months; 2. she has cheated on him twice; 3. she was about to break up with him but then he got a really good job with lots of benefit; 4. she has made no effort to even be polite to me or my mother; 5. she is a whore.

Should I just bite my tongue or try to stop my brother from making the biggest mistake of his life?

2007-11-30 06:29:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My friend w/benefits & I had a sort of heart to heart talk yesterday. He told me when we first started talking he wants to be fwb & maybe build up 2 more. Yesterday I told him I don't want 2 start having feelings 4 him that aren't returned b/c I thought it was just about the sex w/him. He said that it isn't & that we don't have to do it again until I am ready b/c he doesn't have to have it 2 talk 2 me. He asked if I really thought that he didn't have feelings 4 me b/c he doesn't sleep w/just anybody. He said he wants 2 be careful right now though b/c he's got alot going on & he's not looking 4 a serious relationship. I told him that this kinda scares me (I'm recently divorced)& he said he doesn't want me 2 be scared & if I am then we can just be friends only if I want. I asked him what he wants & he said he guesses 2 just keep things the way they are 4 now(fwb). What am I supposed to make of this? He supposedly has "feelings" but why is it like this?

2007-11-30 06:29:17 · 12 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm a little confused about what to do, this guy keeps following me around at school and hugging me, in my science lesson today, (he sits next to me) he felt my leg. i have no intension of going out with him and i don't know how i should go about this. he asked me out and i said no but he just won't stop asking!. some help please.

2007-11-30 06:28:57 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-30 06:28:21 · 7 answers · asked by prashanth p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wedding invitations have one envelope, the outside envelope , so I put the return address on the envelope right, on the front?

2007-11-30 06:27:34 · 7 answers · asked by Nathan&Aubries Mommy 3 in Weddings

I'm somewhat interested but at the same time i don't want to ruin a good friendship

2007-11-30 06:26:13 · 19 answers · asked by convana 2 in Friends

there are sexual rumors about a friend of mine and we were wondering how long until people forget or stop talking about them

2007-11-30 06:24:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I have been married for only 3 months. He has had a drinking problem that he contained until after we got married. Soon after he drank and has a temper. Then one day out of the blue he told me he was bored and moved out. A week later he says he has made the biggest mistake of his life and wants to come back. I tell him we will see how it goes. A week after that I find out that 6 months before we were married he slept with his ex, the mother of his child, who he has never had a relationship with. Then we start to sort things out after that and I find out that he has asked a girl he met in th bar to his upcoming christmas party. I love him and I want to make it work. How do I trust him ever again? Do you think he really wants to come back? What would you do if you were me?

2007-11-30 06:16:00 · 19 answers · asked by nickii3049578 2 in Marriage & Divorce

some one gets cheated on,depressed,beat up.sad,wtf.and the solution is go to a counseler.they are not the cure-all.im sick of the word honestly.just suck things up and go on.and you willsave yourself some money.whats wrong with feeling more than happieness.feeling more than one emotion and being able to deal with it yourself,only makes you stronger.and if you cant deal with it then avoid all issues that could make you unhappy by moving to a remote island somewheres.

2007-11-30 06:14:53 · 19 answers · asked by mr. y 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-30 06:14:33 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-30 06:11:57 · 7 answers · asked by Incognito 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I hung out with my friend last night and she and when I went in to kiss her she said "It's about time." We did the dirty but then she kept getting texts from this other guy and was texting back and forth. She kept laughing at what he wrote so i asked what was written. She said the guy who's texting is annoying her and that she told him she was on a date. It bothers me that he was texting her at 2 in the morning. Why did she tell me that it's a guy she doesn't like? And that she told him we were on a date?

2007-11-30 06:10:58 · 25 answers · asked by Jeff H 1 in Singles & Dating

...that I have a small package?

My wife has made it clear, not in a mean way, that she thinks my package is on the small side (she is just being honest), but I can't help wondering if she has shared that info with her girlfriends?

Do wifes share that level of detail?

Small and embarrassed!!!!

2007-11-30 06:08:31 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I are finalizing our divorce in jan( We have to have a trial since we can not agree on any custody arrangements). he is verbally and physically abusive and has been over the course of our relationship. (He now has a warrant out for his arrest for breaking my finger in march)

Yet when he filed for divorce he flipped the script and told everyone I was the abusive one and was crazy and that I had threatened to harm our son. (in fact he choked me when I was pregnant with our son, twice. And never helped me with him when he was born) I didn't have a lawyer at that time & no one would listen to me. He has custody of our son and uses him against me all the time. he'll be late or just not show up for my visits. He also doesn't take very good care of my son and he will neglect him. (not taking him to the doctor, bathing him, putting him in clean clothes, or changing his diaper)

I have documentation of the abuse and neglect. I also have a lawyer. Advice on how to deal w him?

2007-11-30 06:07:57 · 11 answers · asked by Rei-Rei 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i were having issues, so the baby and i went to my parents for the summer, while i was gone he cheated, and i have accepted that and now wondering how do we move past it?

2007-11-30 06:06:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is drinking 2-3 times a week - 30pk or more, plus shots, to the point of not remembering consider being addicted to it. im only asking because I have a friend who is still into partying and he doesnt think so. He's married and has a family and he goes out and drinks til the next morning. when payday comes around he's out again and not home with family. he says its for being with friends but isnt it even possible to visit friends during the day and sober? he thinks he doesnt have a problem but his family do. its to the piont that his family is going to leave him for it. they are a nice family when together but i dont think he understands that.

2007-11-30 06:03:39 · 40 answers · asked by ???? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-30 06:02:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband is telling me when we go through a divorce I am going to have to pay him back for all of the insurance he payed on my car and for everything he had to pay for me. Is this true? He is being a jerk about child support so I don't know if he is saying this to just get me mad. I don' know. Thanks

2007-11-30 06:02:22 · 18 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I see him mostly everyday because we go to school together and he is even one of my closest friends although we dont have any class together

He has never really dropped any verbal hint but physically he like hugs me a lot and when we are like sitting together he wants me to lay my head on is shoulder and he pust his hand in my leg...stuff like that

So here comes the problem. he likes or liked (i hope) another girl who is also friends with us but she was in a long distance relationship so she turned him down eventhough she did told him she liked him too. Now she is single again and he pretty much acts the same way with her he acts with me.

Im too confused now. I think he might like me but he might also stil like her. I dont know if he knows i like him but i wouldnt dare to tell him. Should I try to get him or not? and if so how?

2007-11-30 05:59:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey guys...Can a guy avoid the girl he really like since 3 years ,just for the sake of ur studies. I mean can a guy do like this...
This guy used to give an eye contact to me since 3 years of college. We became net friends. Now he has gone abroad for studies..and since then he doesn't talk much on net ...although he comes on net. Sometimes he doesn't even reply. Do u think hez behaving this way because of his studies?

2007-11-30 05:59:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I never had this growing up. Was this common or and extreme thing? How bad did it hurt? Was it done bare or not? Did it leave marks? Did you consider it abusive? Did it work for you?

2007-11-30 05:56:06 · 11 answers · asked by Nicole n 2 in Family

For not going to court to testify against her kids father. The police gave her the subpoena in hand, so she knew she had to appear or else. She is the one who filed the charge against him.

She said she wanted to keep him out so she can recieve child support. I kind of believe her, but I dont.

Why didnt she go to court?

2007-11-30 05:55:07 · 10 answers · asked by big_trouble_in_little_cleveland 3 in Singles & Dating

Like this picture http://www.flickr.com/photos/21383089@N06/2073972654/

thats me, let me know if you think its attractive

2007-11-30 05:51:37 · 12 answers · asked by st.camilus 2 in Singles & Dating

who is right? me or the people who say my bf is worthless like a penny?

2007-11-30 05:51:22 · 5 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-30 05:51:03 · 3 answers · asked by chu 1 in Family

I still can't get it in my head, but after taking many online tests I have all the symptoms. But how do I tell my parents I really can't if I tell them they won't care or they will yell at me, telling me to just stop being depressed...but I know I can't do that,

This isn't the family that will take you into loving arms and tell you there here for you they don't understand...I am depressed I've ceased to solcialize and my grades have dropped critically low and now matter how hard I try I can't seem to concentrate or I get really bored and my parents are making me dropout of highschool, If I tell them I'm depressed they'll just think it's an exuse

what should I do?

2007-11-30 05:48:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He completely left me alone for 20 mins. while talking to them. Don't you think that this was rude and inappropriate? I mean I could understand a "hey, how are you" But i think this was wrong for him to do. What should I do about it?

2007-11-30 05:48:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What arouses women more?

2007-11-30 05:47:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating