Family & Relationships - 30 November 2007

how to get thier e-mail address cuz i mostly be bord and if u answer this leave yo e-mail address plz

2007-11-30 07:54:51 · 9 answers · asked by Dansheka W 1 in Friends

Ok, I've been in relationships and I know all different types of guys, but here is something I just don't get. I was seeing this guy, he seemed really great. We talked every day, and then one day he just doesnt call me, and doesnt call me for about a week. I am not the type that calls someone's phone off the hook. I figure, if he wanted to talk to me, he would. So no I didnt try to call him. Anyways..he finally calls me a week later and apologizes, (and like a dumb @$$ I believed him) so we went on an amazing date, and then he took me home and gave me a kiss goodnight. Then, the next day he acted weird, and then didnt call me for another 3 days! So I totally blocked him out and deleted him from my phone and I was done. Then he writes me an email and asks me why I wont answer my phone and that he's really sorry!? OK, don't u think if he was really sorry, he'd be showing up at my doorstep with flowers and trying everything to be good to me? Why does he keep going back and forth?

2007-11-30 07:54:25 · 12 answers · asked by Ray Ray 4 in Singles & Dating

My soon to be ex husband is unemployed and while I am at work he is on my space searching for local women to chat with. is that cheating or am i tripping?

2007-11-30 07:52:27 · 35 answers · asked by Seriously 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-30 07:52:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just truly want to tell her how I feel about her coming into my relationship and my life.

Stupid, I know.

2007-11-30 07:50:02 · 32 answers · asked by orange c 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-30 07:48:38 · 35 answers · asked by jmportman 1 in Family

well ive been with the same guy since i was 18 yrs old .i am now 22.n-e ways things were good in the beginning but one thing that has always been an issue that i turned a blind eye to is that he is incredibly selfish when your 18 and in love you put up with anything ,but now its gotten worse we have two babies now a 1 yr old and a 8 month old .he works alot and we dont spend much time when he is off work he either wants to party with his family or be on the computer all day completly ignoring his kids and leaving me 24 hr mom im very isolated and lonely since i have such a work load .i have no time 4 friends and my husband seems to have no time 4 me ive become very unhappy with him because of this he puts his cousins and friends before us but they seem to just use him but he dosent seem to care about that he'd rather be w\ users than spend time w\his kids and family who love him the only time he needs me is if he wants somthing.should i call it quits or talk it out?

2007-11-30 07:46:38 · 6 answers · asked by ash1234 1 in Singles & Dating

The x of 9 days emailed me and called my house like 9 times in the last 14 hours pleading to be together. He accepts it then calls back pist cuz I won't get back together with him. He now says he is going to the doctor to get meds to calm him cuz he is upset we broke up. I knew him only 9 days people! He is freaking me out. If you didn't read the other one I wrote....read it and come back to this one and it will make sense. The x of 9 days is simply making my life hell. Not to mention he texts my 12 year old daughter telling her the story and she doesn't need to know grown up stuff going on. Don't you agree? I told him to stop texting her and to leave her out of this break up but he won't. My neighbors are looking out for me and my child thank goodness. What is your take on this weird drama? I hate drama and I always seem to find the PSYCHOS.......

2007-11-30 07:43:24 · 2 answers · asked by MOM OF ONE 6 in Singles & Dating

Like, I've been with my bf since 11th grade yr..(we're both 24 now), but I'm a realistic person..We've been 2gether since we were 17 and i KNOW for a fact he has not been faithful for ALL 7 years..there is no way..He's not sloppy with his sh*t though..like girls calling, coming home late, not picking up the phone, etc. But in the back of my head, i feel like there is no way he could have been faithful all this time..we were fairly young when we got together, I can be wrong, but I just KNOW IM NOT..what do u think?

2007-11-30 07:41:15 · 40 answers · asked by Fabe 6 in Singles & Dating

I had a daughter when I married him, she was then 17. I and he had a child together, a daughter. In a year he divorced me and married my daughter, and they, too, had a child together, yet another daughter.
What should I do?

2007-11-30 07:38:05 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi! i am in love with my cousin whose the same age as me and i am scared of telling him...please i live in the US and he in india i dnt even know if he even likes me...our families are rivals but they sometimes talk...so now what should i do...i mean am really frustrated because the biggest thing is that i come from an ISLAMIC family...really typical one and they dont support the idea of love b4 marriage. but am really desperate for him...any answers???...i know its lotta complicated but i'd really b gr8ful 4 ur help....thanx!!!

2007-11-30 07:37:40 · 20 answers · asked by *Just Me* 5 in Singles & Dating

It was even parted in the middle. Ugh!

Was I wrong to pretend someone was calling me and leave???

2007-11-30 07:32:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I lived together, moved to a different state together, built a house together, and THEN starting ring shopping and wedding plans. We had been planning on getting married, but wanted to build our house first, etc. We never would have done any of that together had we not already agreed on marriage, but I still wanted an offical proposal and he still wanted to give it to me.

So, after a month of ring shopping he actually managed to surprise me with the ring of my dreams, and we were "officially" engaged!

The problem was, I had to start wedding planning before that date, since we were planning on getting married in about 6 months ( and wedding dresses take forever to order, I couldnt buy off the rack because of my size, places book up, etc, you know the drill ) and poeple treated me like I was a little girl playing dressup! I mean, nobody treated me like I was actually getting married, they would literally come out and ask where my ring was!

2007-11-30 07:31:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-30 07:29:46 · 14 answers · asked by MR Hole, 3 in Singles & Dating

We have 6 kids together. (Please not the Brady Bunch song!)

We are both over 40

We have lived together for 1 year.

2007-11-30 07:27:03 · 2 answers · asked by Lisa G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I made my husband a sandwich and I was kind of a little hungry but not enough to eat a whole sandwich so I took a bite of it and gave it to him and he swatted me on my bottom three times!! He said that was extremely rude and I guess it is now that I think about it but my mom did that with my dad sometimes!

2007-11-30 07:24:15 · 16 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this strange problem...i have a sister who is of my age .... i m 17 yr old....but we hav been very close to each other frm the starting.....but now a days i m having sme problem....actually when ever our parents are not there in our house...we like to get nude and see each other body.....last week i even masturbated in front of her....she saw me masturbating and watched me c u m..??she also masturbated .. we watch porn together..but we dont have any physical contact betwen us....that we hav decided.....but now i m feeling little awkward..as to what i am doing... can nyone tel me how can i change these habits....???

2007-11-30 07:23:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and i are going to stay in for the weekend. No partying. I want to make my husbands weekend enjoyable, yet relaxing. He works so hard to make sure everything is taken care of. I wanna do something special for him. I want him to enjoy it and feel very relaxed. I need some ideas of what i should do. Can anyone help???? Thanks in advance to all!!!!

2007-11-30 07:22:28 · 18 answers · asked by beautiful_flower 2 in Singles & Dating

Should I be mad? (why would he keep them?)

Should I give them back to her? (were friends and hes angry with her)

Should I destroy them?

2007-11-30 07:22:15 · 28 answers · asked by Lisa G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend called today.. he told me he lost his wedding ring.. he doesnt know how to tell his wife? is he in trouble..???

2007-11-30 07:21:26 · 24 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I will be living overseas and dont need traditional gifts. But we really could use cash! How can we politely ask the guests at our wedding to gift us cash instead of presents?

2007-11-30 07:21:15 · 31 answers · asked by Nickteacher 2 in Weddings

When will I get the best deals on engagment rings...before or after christmas? And...are there any other tips for purchasing a ring that anyone has?

2007-11-30 07:19:05 · 21 answers · asked by Nickteacher 2 in Weddings

I may not have a perfect relationship but I know we have love. Thats the first step isnt it. Next we have never been unfaithful in our relationship. Either of us. We just argue a bit more than I would like. I dont want to hear "leave him" or " it never gets better". I have never been as giving in a relationship before this man and since hes been in my life I have seen a different light. I just dont know how to help him see to. He says he wants to make things better but we just dont know how to start or where to look. We went to pre-marital counselling but the guy only wanted to be negative and said seperate. I have had enough of that "give up and move on" bs for a lifetime. I have kids and I am tired of showing them that love is not worth hanging on to in a good situation. No one is perfect but trust me from reading these other posts things could be a lot worse. Are there any positive people out there with advice that might help????

2007-11-30 07:18:27 · 7 answers · asked by Angel Face 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met him two weeks ago and now he is my x of about 9 days. I broke it off for he was so needy and pushy. I told him to back off but he wouldn't he kept pressuring me to tell him that i love him. I only knew him 9 days. So I broke it off and he came to my house and I wouldn't answer the door so he knew i'd leave so he waited for me to leave then reappeared at my car door. Freaked me out! but before he could open it I took off down the street to a friends house to get away.I tried to talk to him about his behavior but nothing sinks in. He is pushy, bossy, nosey and I don't want to be with him anymore and he knows this but he insists that i should be "TRUE" to him even though we are not together anymore. Allot has happened in 9 little days with him that I can barely sleep. Last night I barely got a wink. He is nice one minute and a prick the next. What would your thoughts be on this? YOUR THOUGHTS.....would you be freaked out? concerned? Not worried? there is more to the story.

2007-11-30 07:17:06 · 15 answers · asked by MOM OF ONE 6 in Singles & Dating

For the first time ever, i was bored & decided to go thru my brother's old handset which now my dad uses. I went into the inbox and saw a picture message with a profile of a 19 year old girl, half of her boobs were showing and she listed her interests about how she liked "pleasing college boys" etc. this made me sick as im 19 years old. dont tell me that i shouldnt go thru people's phones because thats NOT the point. what is this? why does he have it on his phone? is it one of those spam things that gets sent to ppl's phones or what??? im not planning to tell my mom

2007-11-30 07:15:34 · 27 answers · asked by Mellissa 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

just found $20 missing from my silver cigarette case (snaps shut). my boyfriend of 10 yrs. handed me $80 (counted it before putting it in case) a couple days ago and i haven't left the house, or spent any money, or even opened the case, and found only $60 when i was at the store today. so i asked him if he took it, which is no big deal. he said no. i could see in his face he was being evasive (he's had issues with honesty). so i said that our 8 yr. old son must have taken it then. then he started trying to create doubt in my mind that maybe i just lost it, and sometimes that works, but as stated that is impossible in this case. i know our son didn't take it, but i'd get him from school so i could question him. we went round and round for awhile because i know he took it and is willing to let our son take the fall for his mistake. how am i going to ever respect him if he allows this to happen? is he even human?? i'm worried about our kids having a father who is honorable.

2007-11-30 07:15:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My gf and I are thinking about having sex for the 1st time and I just want to know some stuff

What size brand of condom should I use if I'm 6.5"? Is that big or small?? will it hurt her much? what can we do about that?

Do you have any other tips to make it good?

2007-11-30 07:14:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, we've been together for 2 years. When we first got together we talked about marriage ALL the time! now, never. He wants a baby and a house with me, but when I bring up marriage he acts like he doesnt hear me. I tell him I want marriage, house then baby but he seems to disagree. Whats going on in his head?

2007-11-30 07:14:30 · 10 answers · asked by <3 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I sent the boy im talking to a pic of me on Monday.. when I speak with him yesterday he ask me if i sent the pic to anyone else. ....why?

2007-11-30 07:13:09 · 10 answers · asked by DoNtWoRRyABouTiT 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend said yesterday shes going to commit suicide today. She wasnt at school, i tried calling her/texting her. IM REALLY SCARED! I have no way of contacting her. WHT IF SHES DEAD!!!! Me and her best friend went to the guidence counciler today and she said she was goign to call over there to make sure everything is alright. She did, no one anwsered. IM SOO SCARED!!!! What do i do?? Im in tears.. she would really do this too. its NOT a joke.. please!!

2007-11-30 07:12:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends