The x of 9 days emailed me and called my house like 9 times in the last 14 hours pleading to be together. He accepts it then calls back pist cuz I won't get back together with him. He now says he is going to the doctor to get meds to calm him cuz he is upset we broke up. I knew him only 9 days people! He is freaking me out. If you didn't read the other one I wrote....read it and come back to this one and it will make sense. The x of 9 days is simply making my life hell. Not to mention he texts my 12 year old daughter telling her the story and she doesn't need to know grown up stuff going on. Don't you agree? I told him to stop texting her and to leave her out of this break up but he won't. My neighbors are looking out for me and my child thank goodness. What is your take on this weird drama? I hate drama and I always seem to find the PSYCHOS.......
2007-11-30 07:43:24 · 2 answers · asked by MOM OF ONE 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I found out he is mad because I won't tell him "I LOVE YOU" to him....OMG! Ive known him 9 days is all. He emails me I have gotten rid of my cell phone for he is harassing me on it and last night he calls my work!!!!!PHHHHHHHH! What an idiot. HE is unstable, I know. Am glad he and I are not together. He bought me a 52 inch screen tv that I didn't want from him and other things that I told him to keep. I am not a user of any kind and since we are not a couple that I don't want his stuff. I know I did right with that too. It is difficult however to keep myself together when I am afraid he will walk into my work and if he does that there is nothing I can do but look at him and ask him to leave. SCARY!
2007-11-30 08:24:53 · update #1
As of tonight he is still emailing me and calling me and texting me.......wow! I will have to contact PD. Thanks for all ur answers people. Much appreciated.
2007-11-30 13:00:02 · update #2
i would say that he's more than a little mentally unstable. he's texting your 12 year old? how did he even get her number? you're absolutely correct that your daughter doesn't need to know about what's going on. my take on the whole thing is that if he keeps pestering you, call the police and let them know what's going on. do all that you can to stay safe and keep things normal.
good luck,
andy
2007-11-30 08:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guys has more then an a couple screws loose, I would seriously consider threatening him with a restraining order, he is stalking and harassing you, and now he has brought your child into it. The relationship is all in his head. Tough break hooking up with someone so unstable.
If he does not back off after you threaten him go down the police station and get the restraining order against him. Get rid of his and fast.
The guys is cracked don't let him make a victim out of you, he has no right to do what he is doing.
2007-11-30 08:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Twigglet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋