Ok, I've been in relationships and I know all different types of guys, but here is something I just don't get. I was seeing this guy, he seemed really great. We talked every day, and then one day he just doesnt call me, and doesnt call me for about a week. I am not the type that calls someone's phone off the hook. I figure, if he wanted to talk to me, he would. So no I didnt try to call him. Anyways..he finally calls me a week later and apologizes, (and like a dumb @$$ I believed him) so we went on an amazing date, and then he took me home and gave me a kiss goodnight. Then, the next day he acted weird, and then didnt call me for another 3 days! So I totally blocked him out and deleted him from my phone and I was done. Then he writes me an email and asks me why I wont answer my phone and that he's really sorry!? OK, don't u think if he was really sorry, he'd be showing up at my doorstep with flowers and trying everything to be good to me? Why does he keep going back and forth?
2007-11-30 07:54:25 · 12 answers · asked by Ray Ray 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't let this boy treat you this way. Stop it before it is too late, that's my advice. You shouldn't be ignored or neglected..so drop him.
Here's what happened to me: I had been with a boy for a couple months, things couldn't have been better. It was like a scene off The Notebook everytime we were together: long walks in the park just laughing, amazing naps together snuggling close, and the most beautiful kisses with whispers of, "I love you..". One day he went on a camping trip for 2 days and when he came back he called me. We told eachother we missed eachother so much and we would meet up at the carnival. That day he acted like everything was okay until a few hours later where he ruined my day and broke up with me for no apparent reason. Left me crying, everybody around, all alone and a few days before my birthday.
Don't let that happen to you. If you have no reason to trust a boy..don't trust them. If you have every reason to trust a boy..keep your eye out. Basically, this boy doesn't measure up.
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2007-11-30 08:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by Oops, did I say that? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend just went through this. Turns out she had told the guy "I just got out of a realationship and I'm just looking for FRIENDS for now. Maybe it will be something later, but not for now, not even kissing" and he said he understood. After 2 weeks he just stopped talking to her. He thought she was going to be easy even though she told him otherwise and upfront.
Some guys just want to have fun and dont want to work for a relationship. You should just tell him up front "look if you want another chance you cant keep being flaky. ONE MORE CHANCE" and then if it doesn't work, move on.
2007-11-30 07:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before actually going out and being my boyfriend, my boyfriend did stuff like that, I hated it, hell I hated him lol. But once we finally hooked up, (when he finally had the balls to truly ask me to be his girlfriend, not just the girl he can go to the movies with) I asked what all that was about, and he said it was because he was nervous, he did not want to rush into anything and then he actually said that if I truly loved him then I should've called him. (I know WTF right?) But I told him that he's one who has to show me that he loves me because I do my part too right? I mean I don't know if thats what you're going through exactly but it might be. Communication is key?
2007-11-30 08:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by KristyC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because he has no idea what you want. just because you talk on the phone doesnt mean you say anything important. shutin him out wont do anything. communicate! and i mean like actually saying stuff. poor guy has no idea what to do and you wont give him a lifeline
2007-11-30 08:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by anyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, just ask him what is up.
No appolgises, no nothing, ask him why?
If you don't like the answer, then you know how to kick him out.
2007-11-30 07:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by David G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is dating others and trying to figure things out.
2007-11-30 08:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by selery222 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes confused or probably dating other girls as well
2007-11-30 07:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by <<LIZARD>> 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because he is a man, dating other girls and seeing who is the one who will truly worth his time.
2007-11-30 08:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by #$%♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but i think he's cheating on u...or i could be wrong. he might have a busy schedule or he's cheating on u. gud luck!
2007-11-30 07:59:30 · answer #9 · answered by Gaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call him and talk to him about it.
2007-11-30 07:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by Rhyann 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋