Family & Relationships - 30 November 2007

My ex-boyfriend aucsed me of cheating, i was not, so i dumped him. Recently he got expelled and moved to a bording school in france. Hes been there for a couple of months but i havent spoken or seen him since the holidays, which was like, august. Now he has started email me and i think he wants to get back with me, but i dont know if i should, as it will be hard to have a relationship, when he is in France!
Please help me.

2007-11-30 04:19:39 · 7 answers · asked by Liz 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine makes her 13 yo daughter wear a bodysuit, that undergarment that covers all your torso, back and nd breasts and clips at your crotch. The girls hates that thing, says it's uncomfortable, makes her sweat and none of her friends wear thst thing. But my friend, her mom , says it's for her best, thinks it's god for her body and especially for modesty. She says if most moms were like her, there wouldnt be so many cases of teen pregnancy. She doesnt back off, her girl tried to rebel but got punished, grounded and had to give in. I dont agree w/ my friend though I know she's sure its for her girl best. I'd like to know if this can be considered child abuse. I don't think it is, but I'm not sure. Anyway, I don't think it'd be a good idea for the girl to report her mom and I dont think she would, after all shes her mom , but Id like to know if this is illegal

2007-11-30 04:18:21 · 11 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Family

? My mother calls me up because I am having medical problems and she says my doctor is a quack and does not know what he is doing. Her advice is ludicrious and crazy. I try to end the conversation as quickly as possible by saying "cya." She does not want me to hang up though and I do not want to listen her idiotic advice. If she calls me again then I will not answer the phone.

2007-11-30 04:16:37 · 6 answers · asked by robert f 1 in Family

hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious

2007-11-30 04:14:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i'm a hindu, & she is a muslim, we love each other, so much.
we are getting married , any legal procedures/or any other hurdles involved in india?

2007-11-30 04:14:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been with my boyfriend for alittle over a year we live together. I just don't trust him and just feel that he's not in love with me anymore. The lack of trust started when we first started dating. I saw on his myspace he was messaging back and fourth with different girls even though we weren't offical. I was with him everyday and night and hooking up which hurt me. He deleted his myspace and all the numbers of girls out of his phone willingly i didnt even tell him to. Then i find this picture in his dresser of a woman . He say's that she was a friend from work. But he's not the type just to have a girl thats a "friend" Then we were cleaning out his closet and i found a box the "ex girlfriend" box there was all the stuff of his exgirlfriend from like 5 years ago they dated for four years and she cheated on him. And then he cheated on his girlfriend before me with the one from four years. Which has always made me jealous because he never talked to girls behind that girls back

2007-11-30 04:14:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 11.5 months has been using the internet for IM chat for a very long time but recently, I have been finding that he is engaging in sexual conversations with random women, often times, giving them his phone number when they are through and asking if maybe they could meet up sometime in person. He downloads nude pictures of these women and stores them on his computer. When I confronted him about this, he simply said that he isn't trying to cheat on me and that I'm just being paranoid but I don't believe I am. My boyfriend and I have started talking very seriously about marriage but I'm not sure that I could go through with it seeing as how their is a notion in his head that sexual online chatting is totally ok and that there is nothing wrong with it. Am I being paranoid to think that maybe he would consider cheating on me?

2007-11-30 04:13:16 · 23 answers · asked by Totally Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

It has made it so that i avoid basically that whole side of the family. I never felt like they cared about me anyways. They know i'm angry so it makes it harder to want to see them> They invited me for a xmas thing and i'm not going. It's just how i deal...ignore, avoid. I cant help it.

2007-11-30 04:11:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when things get ruff you break up untill you work things out

2007-11-30 04:11:23 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Where has my husband's sex drive gone? He never wants it - he was ALWAYS wanting it. We've only been married for 2 years (he's not cheating!!!!!). We are trying for a baby but I want sex all the time just for fun (not just for baby-making). What can I do about this? I've offered him to go have his fun with others for a bit, but nothing works!!!!

2007-11-30 04:07:14 · 16 answers · asked by Leo Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really hate wearing my hearing aids, i am a nurse so i need to...my speech is a little impaired, i am 26 single and never had a gf. I feel terriable, no one seems to be interested in me and judge me as a disabled person. any suggestions?

2007-11-30 04:04:11 · 6 answers · asked by Peter 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend has had all these bad things happen to her in the past 2yrs since meeting a guy that possibly wants to start seeing her again(a recent string of bad luck):

1) on the 1st sexual encounter she had with this guy while they were dating, she got pregnant (this was despite using condoms--which broke--and taking the morning after pill)

2) while pregnant, her friends criticized the guy & meanly assumed that he wouldn't be there for her or the kid. She miscarried not long after.

(some time later, her and the guy broke up)

3) she had 2 friends + 1 parent die during the span of half a yr

4) half a yr after she miscarried, she confronted the guy about her true feelings on some subjects that she'd stayed hush about before. She admitted that she felt slighted when he didn't visit her during the time she was bedridden & in pain during the miscarriage, but that she didn't express her anger at the time b/c she'd wanted to remain "laidback" and "cool."

2007-11-30 04:02:56 · 4 answers · asked by november_rain123 1 in Singles & Dating

for your wife or girlfriend
please tell how long you have been married or dating and tell which one you have wife or gf

2007-11-30 03:57:30 · 16 answers · asked by princess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I used to be conservative, now I'm probably middle of the road... I wonder how other people are...

2007-11-30 03:54:30 · 5 answers · asked by sir_b_man 5 in Singles & Dating

looking for a local band who can play anything from the 60's to modern day local being portsmouth uk can any one help please thank you

2007-11-30 03:53:40 · 2 answers · asked by rebeka 2 in Weddings

I have been working with this family for 6 hellish months...mom is suicidal...dad is just an ***...my job is to care for 2 yr old with health problems...therapists praise me constantly on how much progress baby has made since i've started with family...had a discussion with parents about involving me in their personal life (i was loosing sleep and crying at home over their problems i.e.impending divorce) and things have been tense ever since...now i think they are video taping me with the baby...i have never done anything to make them worry about what i do when they are away.....should i be offended or am i over-reacting? I really love the baby and want to continue to help her but her parents are driving me crazy and the pay sucks!! What should i do?

2007-11-30 03:49:46 · 15 answers · asked by backwoodscountrywoman 2 in Family

2007-11-30 03:49:19 · 15 answers · asked by troll_gumma 1 in Singles & Dating

Who buys the bridesmaid dresses?

Flower girl dress?

Groomsmen attire?

Mothers attire?

Fathers attire?

Is a rehearsal dinner expected? How does that work? After the rehearsal everyone goes out to dinner? Who should be invited? Who pays?

Parents of bride are poor losers. Parents of groom are well off and offer to pay for wedding. Should I let them? If they pay, then should the invitation be reversed (i.e. says they request the attendance...)?

Any other advice?

2007-11-30 03:48:13 · 22 answers · asked by Due May 17, 2009! 2 in Weddings

if you tell all the guys that ask you out that you're happy being single and are surrounded by guy friends what does that really mean? Personally I think nobody really enjoys being single but it's a defense mechanism to cope with a former bad relationship. this very attractive woman i know has all these guy friends just waiting to get a shot at the title and she tells every single one of them she is just happy being single and doesn't want to date. everybody wants to date at least some time and everybody gets horny so why the facade she's putting on?

2007-11-30 03:47:13 · 7 answers · asked by surviving 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it young boys are very quick to reach climax during sex, yet they can be ready to go again in a short amount of time. While older guys last longer, but they also take a lot longer to be ready again?

2007-11-30 03:44:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a personal budget.

2007-11-30 03:42:00 · 10 answers · asked by Allergic To Eggs 6 in Family

What is it about these "bad boys" that women are so into? What is so horrible about a mature man treating a women with respect? What is so appealing about jerks?

2007-11-30 03:40:37 · 12 answers · asked by ADAcarver 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has hinted that I am not making enough. I work from home and take care of the house also. I am feeling a little sad and upset about this. What would you think?

2007-11-30 03:39:16 · 63 answers · asked by Rein 5 in Marriage & Divorce

28 year old male personal trainer falling for his 42 yr old female client who is married

2007-11-30 03:38:47 · 16 answers · asked by Maria 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-30 03:37:23 · 8 answers · asked by gloria h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married before. It only lasted 7 months, and I ended up marrying a crazy person. I still to this day believe I got out right before it would have become really bad (he started hitting inanimate objects in rage over dumb things).

Honestly, I've been thinking maybe I'll get married one day. After going through all this... its too of a hassle getting divorced from a jerk.

I was already extremely independent way before him. I've been saying since I was 4 years old (now 23) that I don't want kids. Too many men get in relationships with me thinking I'll change my mind, I don't, and they get mad. My ex actually pretended to not want kids, and a month after getting married he suddenly wanted them.

I'm very goal-oriented, driven, and determined to take care of myself in life (I'm not depending on a man ever again).

My father has plenty of friends in their 40s who have never been married and never will.

2007-11-30 03:37:21 · 17 answers · asked by Ashley84 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so this guy just broke up with me after two days. And i dont know how to repay him because he is going back out with this really ugly girl and now he is saying rumors about me. Please help me!

2007-11-30 03:33:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents grounded me from everything....
ipod tv phone computer =]] (im on the school computer in case your wondering..)
and my dad is sooo mad at me
im thinking about not coming home after school...
what should i do...
run away or face the music?

2007-11-30 03:31:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-30 03:29:21 · 7 answers · asked by ukgrimey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi me and my partner are looking to get wed in summer 2009 which gives us plenty of time to save up. I was wondering how much did you pay for yours? Im not going all out for it i just want an elegant, simple wedding, but lovely at the same time. UK only please xx

2007-11-30 03:26:02 · 18 answers · asked by fairylandk 3 in Weddings