if you tell all the guys that ask you out that you're happy being single and are surrounded by guy friends what does that really mean? Personally I think nobody really enjoys being single but it's a defense mechanism to cope with a former bad relationship. this very attractive woman i know has all these guy friends just waiting to get a shot at the title and she tells every single one of them she is just happy being single and doesn't want to date. everybody wants to date at least some time and everybody gets horny so why the facade she's putting on?
2007-11-30 03:47:13 · 7 answers · asked by surviving 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she's happy being single and she doesn't want to date. Every woman doesn't have to be in a relationship, a lot are perfectly fine single. Good luck. 2D
2007-11-30 03:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to have many guy friends and loved being single. I honestly loved spending time with my many different men friends and gal pals.
She has not found anyone she really wants to date yet and/or she likes all the attention she is receiving from her male companions. Maybe she has been hurt in a past relationship and prefers to have friends only until she is ready or finds Mr. Right. Possibly she prefers to have meaningful sex as opposed to just sex. She can control her urges to satisfy her emotional well-being.
2007-11-30 04:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by hiya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not necessarily a facade. I really like hanging out with the guys! It's just that having a bf is hardword sometimes. Girls can live happily without a man in their lives, we are not completly dependent on men, we do have a life!! I mean what if we have objectives to fufill, having a bf would only make it harder to achieve them. Plus there are SO many morons out there that it just makes you feel good to know you're not stuck with one!
2007-11-30 03:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Josephine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always say that too and I am glad to be single, I do not want to date, how ever that does not mean that I do not need sex,,,::::I do:::: and I am having it, just not with the ones asking, I am sure she has a friend with benefits ,,,just find out who he is. The truth is she is not attracted by any of you guys.
2007-11-30 03:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by Narcisist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she wants in a man she hasn't found yet. What makes you think she's putting on a facade. She clearly isn't interested in any of those guys. The bigger question is... why can't these guys get a clue?
2007-11-30 03:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't want to get entangled in a relationship and thinks its more trouble than it's worth.
She might be A-sexual, or just not interested in dating any of THOSE guys, or perhaps like the poweful hold and atttention she gets over them.
2007-11-30 03:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a crush on a guy and you (and the others) so far aren't him.
2007-11-30 03:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋