hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious
2007-11-30 04:14:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
why don't you ask him?
2007-11-30 04:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by jersey girl in exile 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from your story i think you still have a very strong feeling towards him despite the way you claimed that you moved on and he moved on as well. I think you let him take advantage of you so in a way you are leading him on for allowing him to kiss or make out with you at the end of each date. the best way for your problem right now is to find out what you want from him. do you still dreaming about him? do you still fancy him? if you do then maybe its time to get back and start your relationship with him again. BUT if you dont want him back at all and be honest with yourself then its time to cut him off completely. it might hurt like you got bite by shark for a while but at least you are not confused by this feeling for him every time you see him.
Now its your choice of what you want from this feeling. are you going to act on it or are you going to disconnect from it. We the public can not decide for you, but whatever makes you happy is good for the holiday spirit, more jolly to the world. Remember whatever you decide no regrets later. Happy holiday to you and him!
2007-11-30 04:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by mycorollababy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has feelings for u still he calls u and u guys still hang out and he kisses u i think for a guy doing that is cute and also u should give him another chance i mean maybe thats what he wants but doesnt want to say anything either he is shy or he doesnt want to upset u or he wants u to do it first talk to him hell if u still have feelings u deserve each other and have each other it can't hurt to ask ok go ask have fun be happy love and be loved
2007-11-30 04:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by Goober 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forget about him. It sounds like he's the type that occasionally needs an ego boost everytime something goes wrong in the relationship department. You don't need that. Move on and find a guy that will treat you better.
2007-11-30 05:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want out of it too because you are seeing him when he calls you. It's good that you're dating other people. I think you two are probably just comfortable around eachother. Nothing more.
2007-11-30 04:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by Newly Eloped 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him, he is a coward to commitment.
He is playing games with your head, that is not love .
Make ur own decision, when the actions dont match the words its bull ___ . Always remember that .
Nov.30.2007.
2007-11-30 04:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by gracb2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opninion is not to sound to mean but maybe you were kinda harsh on him ...............he likes to work and works hard obviciously and wants to make a good living nothing wrong with that maybe he just wanted to give you a good life
2007-11-30 04:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's still in love with you but doesn't want to make a committment right now.. it's difficult to tell, and i think you're right by asking him.
if this is causing you distress, maybe sever ties with him and move on with your life..
take care
2007-11-30 05:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe he still has feelings for u but he just doesn't know what to do. You should definitly talk to him and see what's on his mind. Good luck :]
2007-11-30 04:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by axpxjxc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he still loves you. No man would just keep calling his ex if there was no feelings there.
2007-11-30 04:17:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋