Family & Relationships - 30 November 2007

My child support worker called me and asked me who the person was that signed the ex's child support summons papers. It was his new live-in gf. I asked her if she could do that and the worker said she was not suppose to so now he has not been served. I told her who she was and that she lives there. Is this going to make it where he will not have to show up for court and i will have to wait even longer for my child support order???

2007-11-30 03:24:19 · 10 answers · asked by fantasy gal 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He likes to pretend that everything is okay, like living in lala land. But I want to come up with solutions because pretending like nothing is wrong does not make the anger and fights go away. Although when we do try to resolve something, all it does is bring another fight. Each of us feels the other is being unfair. There is never an ounce of understanding even when we try. I am willing to bend but he's just stuck in his thinking and shrugs off the problem. So the happy times seem fake. How is it supposed to work when only one person wants to really fix the problems? Maybe he doesn't care to fix it b/c he's not the one receiving most of the insults? More than half the time I feel like we're strangers living under one roof.

2007-11-30 03:23:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-30 03:20:46 · 9 answers · asked by danielle b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have had 8 shaky years together and this year was a horrible year. First in an arguement she jumps across the bed and breaks her knee, prior to that she attacked me a hurt my shoulder. Next she got pregnant - quit her very-high paying job - never got another one - and I was stuck paying every single bill. Now due to another (we've had 8) misscarriage - we have no child (that hurts), our house is about to be foreclosed and I'm 3months behind in all bills. My water and cable were cut off yesterday - my power tomorrow. I'm starting to hate my wife - really hate her. I don't want to so should I just leave and let it all go - start over. Or should I continue to be the idiot/good guy and stick it out until all gets better - if ever?

2007-11-30 03:16:26 · 45 answers · asked by Bakari J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when you're a married couple..What do you do when you have no family to look after your kids and you're surrounded by freak'n druggies. We're in a bad area, currently looking to move and the school my daughters in isn't the best so I don't want to ask about babysitting there. We're in an extremely small town and we're dying to get out. Last time I went out was this past July and prior to that 3 yrs ago to my father-in-laws funeral. I can't get the same babysitter (my neighbours kid) long long story ended in the mullet lady getting hurt!

Do I just suck it up and try to trust a stranger with my kids that I don't know or do what I currently do and have date nights inside the house when the kids are asleep?

Cheers!

2007-11-30 03:14:07 · 32 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-30 03:12:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you stay if you boyfriend gave you an STD? What if he got it from his ex-wife whom was cheating on him? It isn't his fault he was cheated on...doesn't it stand to reason he is just as much a victim as you are?

I am going through this right now. My boyfriend got a divorce from his wife this summer, we have only been dating a few months. At the beginning we both got tested and came up clean but now I have chlamydia. I know for a fact I was clean before him because I had my annual check up only a couple of weeks before I started dating him. I have learned from the doctors that there are a couple reasons why the inital test came back negative...a false-negative or it was dormant at the time. He feels horrible about the whole situation we had a very long, serious conversation last night about it.

2007-11-30 03:11:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-30 03:11:45 · 15 answers · asked by Ivory33 6 in Friends

I did something very wrong ,terrible,and bad without thinking.I just got married this year(september 15)to a good guy with a lot of potential up and comming career ect...many people(like my entire family) would say he is perfect.We were set up by one of my aunts at church we dated for 6 months got engaged and married by month 8.It all happened really fast and my brain is still kind off in shock.To get to the point of all this i have an ex.bf from high school who as my first bf..kiss as well as other things.We dated good girl prepie vs. blue coller bad boy and broke up 2 times went through all kinds of drama pregnancy/miscarriage related. I only ever told one other person(BFF) what really happened so my family has no clue.Anyhow we tried to be friends but his new gf hated me and 6 months later he came back while still with her for a fling.I resisted at first but i had feelings for him and was lonley in college with few friends so i gave in.It was only meant ...continue..

2007-11-30 03:10:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's this gal that I like and have told her how i felt last year, but she said she just wanna be friends. some might have changed now.
She has shown some interests and always teases me. She shows interests in things about me, she also doodled something on my paper without my knowledge... saying "You Ugly" (it's a joke)... she also helps me a lot...she's like more comfortable with me compared to other boys...she can joke around with me...her friends tease her about me sometime...

But, there's this other guy who likes her. I heard that she is online more often (i don't have her as contact though)... i'm not sure if she chatted with him... but she and that boy doesn't talk at school... why would they not talk if she likes him back? everyone know that he likes her!
i was cold to her because of this but somehow she striked a conversation and teased me... and also the doodling thing... but today she seems to be 'quiet' with me... she does that sometimes...

2007-11-30 03:09:21 · 1 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I like, who lives all the way in America and I live in England. We met on Teenchat and took it from there, on the roleplaying section. I really like him and I know he really likes me and he has asked me about long distance relationship.. but I am not really sure about this. Do these relationships work out? I gave it a go for a week.. but called it off. It didn't feel right, going out with someone who lives so far away from home, lol. I know it is a stupid question - but I would love someone else's opinion. There is also another guy I like, in my own country. But I seem to be smitten with this guy who lives far away. I feel ashamed for falling for someone who doesn't live near me. Stupid, too. Falling in love on the internet, wasn't my intention. :(

I'm probably the only girl who gets these problems. I'm so weird, LOL!

2007-11-30 03:08:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-30 03:07:14 · 22 answers · asked by Sylvia 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-30 03:06:14 · 2 answers · asked by lady t 1 in Singles & Dating

And the possible reasons?

Ruling out stoutness, illness, mental incapacity, substance abuse ......

2007-11-30 03:05:33 · 6 answers · asked by Perseus 3 in Singles & Dating

If you spend 4nights apart from your partner and download and watch a movie for an hour for three of those nights? (Obviously avoiding the night before you see your partner.)
Is that too much?

2007-11-30 03:04:44 · 33 answers · asked by SweetLikeHoney 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband will be missing our first wedding anniversary because he'll be in Iraq. How can I send a piece of our wedding cake and ensure that it will get there and still be good to eat?

2007-11-30 03:03:24 · 6 answers · asked by armywife21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We met in school (im a girl). His family moved to another state last year but we sometimes still contact each other. I told him that I was thinking of coming to see him on my next school vacation and he said that it would be cool. What does he mean?

2007-11-30 03:01:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello?Delima.I have been knowing my friend for about 3 years and we seem to be really close.Welll I invite them over meaning her and her family and she has a 14year old daughter that is stealing from me.She steals my shoes and my clothes and them she tells me remember I have one just like you. Well this has been her third time stealing from me and I am tired of it.Do I confront her myself or do I go to her mother and let her know what is going on.I don't want to lose the friendship but I am scard of letting them back in my house ever again.WHAT Do I do???She even sprayed half of my bottle of perfume on her!!!Please Help!

2007-11-30 03:00:03 · 15 answers · asked by Candace 1 in Friends

I see that everyone talks about themed weddings, but I dont have a themed wedding are you suppost to? I just pick things that I like.

2007-11-30 02:59:58 · 23 answers · asked by HOPEFUL 2 in Weddings

Hi my fiance' and I finally set a date-July 5, 2008. We know both our families will be in town for the 4th so we decided to host them the whole week starting sunday. We thought we'd attend church and go out to dinner. But outside of that we don't know what we want to do. On the 4th we were going to have a BBQ rehearsal dinner. Then saturday the is the wedding. Any ideas? Oh and does anybody have any ideas for a Tinkerbell wedding shower?

2007-11-30 02:58:55 · 8 answers · asked by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5 in Weddings

Hey does anyone have any suggestions about how to get my husband to help out with chores?

DH and I are having issues about the cleanliness of the house. He thinks because I get off work 1 1/2 to 2 hrs earlier than he does that I should be the one who does the majority of the house work...majority meaning ALL of it. But in those 1.5-2 hrs that he's working, I'm picking the girls up from school and then getting dinner ready so that when he gets home we can all eat. I usually put this dishes up and load the dish washer while I'm waiting for dinner to get ready.

When he gets home he eats and then he sits on his butt watching TV for the rest of the day...and his excuse is that he works 8 hrs a day and I only work 6 hrs a day so he doesn't have to help me clean the living room, bedrooms, laundry, dishes, cooking, cleaning, bathing the children, brushing their teeth...you get the drift. There is a lot to do EVERY day and I'm the only one doing it. And it is making me angry.

2007-11-30 02:58:29 · 15 answers · asked by Sandra R 3 in Marriage & Divorce

some people told me that my now ex bf didnt want to breakup with.. but i broke up with since someone told he was going too.. could he not have wanted to break up with me??? or would he be after me again.. we've been both kinda down latly..

2007-11-30 02:56:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

something where I told her that if she lost she would have to model some of the lingerie she got from her showers. Well I lost and she thought it was really really funny to make me wear some of the nightys and bras and panties. She insisted I left the bet open and had to pay up. Was this fair and why was this so funny for her?

2007-11-30 02:50:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-30 02:48:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

yall i have a HUGE crush on this guy and well he doesnt even notice me. how do i get his attention?
we text sometimes but he doesn't act like he likes me..
what should i do or say?

2007-11-30 02:45:28 · 13 answers · asked by sadie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-30 02:43:13 · 1 answers · asked by rociostar2003 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

so u know we've talked about it. he wants to be with me. and we were talking about getting married. and he asked me what i wanted for christmas. do i tell him i want the ring or not? i dont know and i need help before i might make a mistake.

2007-11-30 02:40:33 · 11 answers · asked by panda 1 in Weddings

Last nite I bought 2 dozen roses, 3 stargazers, dressed 'em up beautiful, took a taxi from midtown to brooklyn & delivered 'em to my new guy to surprise him. He wasn't home, I left 'em with his mom. He calls later that nite but didnt mention the flowers. His mom didnt tell him. She put 'em in the kitchen. I HAD TO TELL HIM they were there. He asked her why didnt she tell him & she said "they were sitting in the kitchen whole time". He opens the flowers & all I hear is "okaaayyy" "okaaayyy" & silence. Not much energy AT ALL. My heart dropped. I felt like he didnt like them & I wasted my energy & money bcz his response was dead energy. Plus I HAD TO TELL HIM they were there, so my surprise was all spoiled. He said he liked 'em but didnt know what to say & that he never got flowers like that before. But I was disappointed bcz his response wasnt excited & the surprise was spoiled. Now I'm mad as hell & dont want to talk to him.

How would any of you feel?

2007-11-30 02:38:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

besides cheating.

2007-11-30 02:33:35 · 29 answers · asked by Mary 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I scuba dive. We have been married 19 years and have a good relationship. One of our dive instructors wants to take him on a dive trip to Florida. I have to work and take care of my Mom I cannot go. He wanted my blessing before he accepted this invitation. I gave it. He will be gone for 2 days and nites. The dive instructor is much older and married also they are going to hook up with some more men for this dive experience. Think this was a good idea for me to give my blessing? We usually go everywhere together.

My Dad recently passed away and we are tiring to get our carport converted into an apartment for her right now we are just getting bids. I am very stressed out but I think if one of us can let go. Go for it right?

2007-11-30 02:29:41 · 20 answers · asked by mdjgirl7 4 in Marriage & Divorce