Would you stay if you boyfriend gave you an STD? What if he got it from his ex-wife whom was cheating on him? It isn't his fault he was cheated on...doesn't it stand to reason he is just as much a victim as you are?
I am going through this right now. My boyfriend got a divorce from his wife this summer, we have only been dating a few months. At the beginning we both got tested and came up clean but now I have chlamydia. I know for a fact I was clean before him because I had my annual check up only a couple of weeks before I started dating him. I have learned from the doctors that there are a couple reasons why the inital test came back negative...a false-negative or it was dormant at the time. He feels horrible about the whole situation we had a very long, serious conversation last night about it.
2007-11-30 03:11:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sexy Devil - he is effected now as well. After I went to the doctor and found out he went and got tested as well and it came back positive too. I have already taken my medication and he is in the process of taking his. This is a "silent" illness most of the time there is no symptoms, I found out by chance because I having other medical issues at the time.
2007-11-30 03:23:17 · update #1
That really sucks for you both. If he feels so bad about it I would definitely stay by his side. You're both in the same boat now anyway.
2007-11-30 03:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The victim here is the one who believes the bull. It takes two to tango, who says he didn't give it to his ex from sleeping around. Do you really believe he is telling you the truth ,or are you trying to sell yourself on it? Wake up and smell the coffee! Does he have it too? If not how did you get it? when I was growing up those that ended up getting STD's called it a childhood disease, today they call it a death sentence. I thank God I was brought up not to go out and have sex, with everyone I possibly could score with so as to say. I remember treating those who went on leave in sick bay while on the ship in the Navy. It show you you never know whom you can truly trust huh? Get treated and let this be a hard lesson learned. Good Luck!
2007-11-30 11:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by mandm68 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt stay if he never metioned to me he had an STD before i slept with him. If he did tell me and I did the act knowing i might be at risk, then i would stay. In your situation if you love him then stay, you both now have STD's in common. By being with eachother, you guys can support eachother and by just sleeping with eachother the disease wont spread to others. Its good he shows remorse, that shows he cares. Best of luck!
2007-11-30 11:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by Gmarie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stay. This is not a serious STD. Love is the issue. Forgive me, but I believe you are over-reacting. If he is worth keeping before, he still his. He was just wounded in battle. And he may feel worse than you. goodluck
2007-11-30 11:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's entirely possible that he's picked up the STD since you both were tested. Make absolutely sure there's no doubt he's been faithful.
2007-11-30 11:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer this one. If what you're saying is true, then he wasn't being irresponsible.
If you're into him work through it. If you feel you've been betrayed/violated, move on. And make sure you see a doctor and get treated.
2007-11-30 11:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Panks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he picked it up and gave it to you. he either got it from his ex, or he was sleeping around. what i dont understand is why isnt he affected as well if he was the one that passed it to you?
2007-11-30 11:18:22 · answer #7 · answered by Sweety 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get rid off the cheating *** hole!
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2007-11-30 11:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously he is sleeping around.
2007-11-30 11:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by solelone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋