Hello?Delima.I have been knowing my friend for about 3 years and we seem to be really close.Welll I invite them over meaning her and her family and she has a 14year old daughter that is stealing from me.She steals my shoes and my clothes and them she tells me remember I have one just like you. Well this has been her third time stealing from me and I am tired of it.Do I confront her myself or do I go to her mother and let her know what is going on.I don't want to lose the friendship but I am scard of letting them back in my house ever again.WHAT Do I do???She even sprayed half of my bottle of perfume on her!!!Please Help!
2007-11-30 03:00:03 · 15 answers · asked by Candace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well it is better for u to approach her mother and tell her abt it. If nt her daughter will get used to it and will continue her bad habit stealing. she's still young there's time for her to change. if Not it will inherit when she grows up. Talk to her in a low profile nt exposing it in a big issue as this will make her or family feel ashamed. if nt try to tell ur friend abt her sister's attitude. if nt keep her away from ur room by lock up ur door. don't let her get into ur room. but its nt a good solution for her. U need evidence to proof what u r saying if nt her mom won't believe it.. Don't be too harsh as mostly mother will protect her own kids by nt believing it... settle it in a nice way
2007-11-30 03:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by amy h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i feel you she tell her mother and see what she has to say about it. I mean if your friend is a good friend then she won't be mad at you or think you are lying on her daughter. Also i think you should have said something when you first found out that she was stealing from you. I mean she's 14 and if her mother is still buying her clothes then she should know whats not her daughters. I mean if push come to shove then don't let them come back over anymore and when your friend ask you why tell her that her daughter has been stealing from you. I mean we as people work hard for the things we have to let someone come and take it from us so even if it cost a dollar you had to work hard to get it. So just tell your friend
2007-11-30 03:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by blessed is me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very ignorant. How can you blame a whole race for what a child did? You can't even string together a few words without having a ton of errors. Your child chose this girl as a friend. Maybe you should take a good look at your own child and her upbringing. And you should not be so racist. Look in your own back yard before you go blaming an entire race for your problems.
2016-04-06 05:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her mother in a mannerly way. Don't accuse right off the back. Just say 'I'm not accusing or pointing fingers, but I have a feeling that your daughter has been taking things from me because some things are missing.' Then explain why you suspect that. Don't make it harder than it needs to be
2007-11-30 03:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you allow her access to your things? You should have confronted her the FIRST time! It's your home, make a rule that she is not allowed out of the living room or kitchen! Yes confront her in front of her Mother, NOW!
2007-11-30 03:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i would talk to the daughter, in a friendly manner. Just let her know that you know she is stealing and that it is wrong. Tell her you wont tell her mum as long as she brings your belongings back and that it doesnt happen again. Make it clear that if it does happen again you will not hessitate in telling her parents.
2007-11-30 03:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh-Oh.You have a problem....You have 2 options.
A. When they come to your house to chill tell them to go somewhere else and you'll go along
or B. Take all your valuables and lock them up in your room.
But C. You should tell her to stop or you'll tell her mother and if you lose the friendship dont worry...now she wont come to your house to steal. =)
2007-11-30 03:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by ~Chix 4 Chix Advice~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her mother. You are gonna have to anyway, if you don't want this to blow up out of proportion.
Tell her that you find it odd that some of your stuff comes up missing and that her daughter tells you that she suddenly has the same too.
2007-11-30 03:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by the girl next door 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her mother because if you talk to the daughter she might run back to her mom and over exagerate what you really said or she can throw a fit.
Talk to her mom ASAP.
2007-11-30 03:06:17 · answer #9 · answered by sylvia713 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with the mother......tell her whats going on. If she doesnt believe you then she was never a real friend. Good luck
2007-11-30 03:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋