some people told me that my now ex bf didnt want to breakup with.. but i broke up with since someone told he was going too.. could he not have wanted to break up with me??? or would he be after me again.. we've been both kinda down latly..
2007-11-30 02:56:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just talk to him. Lots of couples get back together after breaking up. What was it that made you think he was going to break up with you? 'leave before getting left' is quite an immature thing to do. But work on your communication with him. If you both really want to be together, Im sure you can work it out.
2007-11-30 03:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by katiebear152 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, you screwed up big time.
It is never a good idea to make a relationship decision based on hearsay, unless the tattler has photos to back up the allegation.
Talk to the ex-boyfriend and see what he wanted/wants, and make your decision based on that conversation, not the comments of troublemakers.
Doc
2007-11-30 11:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never listen to what other people tell you when your in a relationship. You should just discuss it with your significant other. There are people out there who will try to break you up and make you miserable, because they are miserable and hate seeing you happy, or the just want your man.
2007-11-30 11:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by KIMBERLY H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did. Going off of what other people say is such a big mistake. Anyway if you beleive what ever she said and couldn't just communicate with him then it sounds like you are not ready to be in any relationship.
2007-11-30 11:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you talk? Why would you break up simply because you thought he was going to? Sounds to me like someone needs to grow up a little.
2007-11-30 11:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with your boyfriend cause someone told you he was going too... Yeah, you screwed up, and you know you did cause now your questioning your decision... If he's smart he won't take you back!!!
2007-11-30 11:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by assassininelives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen to your heart and follow what it says, not on other people. do you still love him? then go ahead..... there was just the two of you in the realtionship to begin with, getting others involved only complicate things and make you all the more confused.
2007-11-30 11:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by katherina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you did, you shouldnt have gone with people had said, and you should of ask him yourself....
2007-11-30 11:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Oooh So Pretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe everything ,you think was said
2007-11-30 11:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by EnglishDenis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋