How much porn is too much?

Question

If you spend 4nights apart from your partner and download and watch a movie for an hour for three of those nights? (Obviously avoiding the night before you see your partner.)
Is that too much?

Answer 1

I did some recent work to trim down the memory use of mailinator. This was more of an optimizing exercise than any sort of impending need (its really running cheaper than it ever has
and the recent spam surge really hasnt really affected much).



I noticed many emails with some real useless porn emails in them. Now mind you, I am not out to block (legal) porn - that's not mailinator's job. But I wouldn't mind getting rid of some emails that no one reads or are clearly unsolicited spam. Check out Joe's mailbox for example - its rather random what you'll get at this very moment, but chances are, there will be some pr0n.



Most people from what I know use mailinator to sign up for stuff, not to peruse random porn spam and click the links. So I ran some stats on my subject line filter. Basically it rejects any email with a given word in the subject line. After running 12hours here's the stats for the words I've tested. Basically, each word is followed by how many emails that came into the system with that word in the subject. Note in this particular 12hours we received 2,021,175 total emails.



Badwords total counts:
explicit: 54789
viagra: 49057
c*m: 5761
f*ck: 23297
c*ck: 10686
hardc: 5063
p*ssy: 8306
schoolgi: 1823
porn: 1477
porrn: 395
cialis: 16653
teen: 9070


Note that "explicit" is found in emails tagged as "sexually-explicit" which basically says "I'm unsolicited porn spam".

Answer 2

If you have a good sexual relationship with her then it's OK to watch porn when you are alone. Try watching for 3 days but not relieving yourself. When the two of you see each other on day 4 I guarantee that both of you won't leave the bedroom all day!

Answer 3

Lol! It's kind of a personal preference. If you feel like you're addicted (it is possible), then it's too much!

I'm laughing, because I used to live with two guys. I had a computer that I allowed everyone to use. One day I downloaded a new media player, and it asked me if I wanted to import all media files. I clicked "yes," and was just bombarded with porn. They had hidden it, but had hundreds of files on my computer! I was ticked!! I've never had a problem with porn. But that was TOO MUCH!! It was so extraneous. I put them on a limit of saving 10 videos apiece.

Answer 4

If it gets in the way of you and your partner's time, then ya, I think it is too much. But - if your partner doesn't mind and your relationship is not jeopardized, then I think it is ok. If it starts making you wander elsewhere, you may want to take a step back and reassess the situation.

Answer 5

First of all, you already answered your own question, by using 'partner' and 'porn' in the same sentence.
If you are with somebody, then why in the hell look at porn? It's retarded anyways, regardless of whether you are with somebody or not! You're being unfaithful to your partner, and I'm sure if they knew, you'd be single again. ANY porn is too much, and only an immature idiot would engage in watching it.

Answer 6

Nothing is too much as long as you avoid your partner just for sake of watching the movie.

Answer 7

It is too much when it infringes on other aspects in your life.

For example: If you're ditching other activities to get your porn on, you are developing a problem.

Answer 8

Not really if its not a habitual thing. Doing it once in while is fine. As long as u dont watch it every single day for the rest of your life and become a porn addict. its perfectly Normal.

Answer 9

when it does nothing for you then you've had too much porn lol

Answer 10

too, too much!!

reduce it by 10mins each time

so then there will be less in the end