I hung out with my friend last night and she and when I went in to kiss her she said "It's about time." We did the dirty but then she kept getting texts from this other guy and was texting back and forth. She kept laughing at what he wrote so i asked what was written. She said the guy who's texting is annoying her and that she told him she was on a date. It bothers me that he was texting her at 2 in the morning. Why did she tell me that it's a guy she doesn't like? And that she told him we were on a date?
2007-11-30 06:10:58 · 25 answers · asked by Jeff H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
could be a best friend.find out the facts before you bring out the chainsaw
2007-11-30 06:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Civic_Drifter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you must realize that just because you humped doesn't automatically put you in a relationship. By her comment she has obviously wanted to hump you for a long time. If you are her friend than you should know how she is with other guys. Is she very flirtatious? She was probably telling the truth that a guy was irking her with texts. Once he found out that she was with another guy that gave him the ammo to try and keep her attention on him as opposed to you! Think of the things that you were in his shoes..something like telling her "not to waste her time with another dude when she can be spending time with you." You know what I mean? Her telling him that she was on a date was just a nice way of not telling him that you were humping! Everyone doesn't need to know all the truth all the time!
2007-11-30 06:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by U aLrEaDy KnO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guy texts her at 2am and you are bothered, why? Maybe she doesn't like him and he's being pushy and therefore told him she was on a date to get him off her back, and also bc she is hinting that she is interested in YOU not him, this can be supported by her comment "it's about time."
Maybe you have been wishy washy about how you feel about her, and think you want to be friends, but are not acting like that. If you are bothered by a random guy texting her, then you are not treating this relationship as a friendship, it sounds like you both may want more.
2007-11-30 06:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay,
heres the deal,
she only your friend right?
well in that case why do you care?
she a big gurl she got what she wanted, plus it sounds like you got what you wanted to cause you didn't stop her, plus you just kept on haveing sexs with her.. more likely then ever she was wanting a good time an you gave it to her..
Plus if she was your fist sorry, you can't change that,
you should of talked to her and found out what she wants in life an what you want in life..
I hope everything works out but you should of told her to stop, you should of thought before you kissed her, what she really wants just sexs from you or more, But anyways you guys are to young it sounds like.. If she really care for you an if you cared you guys would of waiten for sexs till you guys got on or feet an new what you wanted in life or to even get married.. but if she true she will waiten if she doesn't then she doesn't want you she just wants the sexs.. think about that nexts time what you want in a gurl.. before you kiss on her..
2007-11-30 06:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by marie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's what happens when you have casual sex, no real commitment or love. You can either enjoy the ride protect you self physically and emotionally or if that kind of relationship is not for you then change it or get out.
2007-11-30 06:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by Rational Humanist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she either wants to be with you and wanted you to know that or she wants to be with the guy she was texting and was trying to make him jealous by telling him she was on a date. I would be careful of her!!
2007-11-30 06:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows, well I think that one he probably was making her mad or she just didn't want you to know. you said she is just a friend so ask her what's the deal with her and this guy ( not what the were talking about ) but what is really going on between the two.
2007-11-30 06:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls, are multi taskers! They can file their nails, dye their hair, talk on the phone, cook dinner, fold clothes and even send texts while making love!!! Ya got the nukie didn't ya!! Bout time!!
2007-11-30 06:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you...i would cut her off..point blank! That was supposed to be your special time together and she spent it flirting with another guy. She is not serious about what you have and she is playing games...just let her go...I wish you the best of luck.
2007-11-30 06:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause shes 2 timing you.
2007-11-30 06:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by Rocket_man 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋