2007-11-30 05:33:37 · 21 answers · asked by miss me! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry... he is selfish in the sence that if something does not directly benefit him, then he wants no part of it or is reluctant to take part in it
2007-11-30 05:42:14 · update #1
very difficult to have him help with our son, so i can do something else (last night our son is sick, and needed to be held, well i was hungry and wanted to eat, he refused to entertain the baby so i could make some food....He was sooo busy watching tv)
2007-11-30 05:44:12 · update #2
**** if he made the baby he better start taking care of it! That's just wrong. Make him take responsibility. Don't give him a choice. Hand him the baby and say here, I'm getting something to eat! That's just wrong!!!
Good luck!
2007-11-30 05:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dealing with a selfish spouse is very hard. My husband doesn't even realize he is that selfish. For years I never said a word, but I do now. Especially now, we have two children, and it is hard to explain his behavior to them. I told him how I felt, but has it changed, NO! I have learned to deal it. I put my children first. I place all my attention on them. He has gotten a little better, but still has long way to go. He has always put his family and himself first. I thought I could change him, HA HA, what a joke. He will see his way as wrong, someday, when he's laying in his coffin. Until then I have to accept him as is. No it is not easy, but I married the selfish cad, and now I have to live with it.
2007-11-30 14:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, Sara! I didn't know your boyfriend was acting this way! I know that you don't want to be a single mom. But, if this is not working out like you planed then maybe it is better for the both of you to separate. It may be better for the baby all around! Sorry this is happening to you!
Jason is Yelling at me so I need to go!
Have a great weekend!
We are off to Or. and Sacamento this weekend!
2007-11-30 16:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by Creative Memories 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship there has to be one person who gives in at certian times, now im not saying all the time, its a give and take. dont have to deal with it, i would just give in to an extent. remember, you married him and love him for who he is. Good luck but remember, think of all the times you were being selfish and what the outcome was...
2007-11-30 13:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to get some counselling he is not living up to his role of a husband and a father. Tell him he helped make this baby and if he wants anything from you then he can start helping out or it will be divorce.
What a JERK.
2007-11-30 13:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesnt know he is being selfish....personally after one year i divorced my selfish spouse because he just wouldnt get it, but he also had more serious issues than that, he was a control f reak, and then some....marriage counseling would be a good place to start if he doesnt have other issues..
2007-11-30 13:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by marcella l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk about "selfish." Have you heard about the Texas torture and murder of 2 year old Riley Ann Sawyers? I can't believe these sick f***s!
Check it out:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoVhzh1etiHMwyuxs0y8s1Dsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071129203953AAORkOU
2007-11-30 13:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by GomerPyle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him first and tell him he needs to give as much as you are. If he is not willing stop doing things for him. If things still do not look good then counceling if that doesn't work then divorce.
2007-11-30 13:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, I would whip his *** two times over thats not a selfish spouse thats a person who dosen't care a bit about you or your child.....
2007-11-30 13:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry he's a selfish spoiled brat and you married him. He was like this before you got married, and i don't think you can get him to change now.
2007-11-30 13:48:49 · answer #10 · answered by harold 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋