Family & Relationships - 10 November 2007

see i like a guy who is a member of my church(mormon).i flirt with him whenever i see him or hang out with him.but he never seems to get the hint that i like him.he always flirts with the girls that i go 2 church with.im starting to give up! if u have any advice,id really appericiate it. thanx.

2007-11-10 07:39:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm very depressed, have been for several months now. Every time I told my fiancé he said we don't have money for me to see a doctor. So I'm dealing with this on my own. Sometimes I cant stand looking at him I go and sleep on the couch. He really believes our relationship is GREAT!! I have started to be sad all the time. I feel he is making me worse. I want to leave but keep thinking of our son. I looked up an apartment that I might be able to afford a couple of weeks ago. Well they sent me an email about first month being free. Is this my sign that I should leave? I have been with my fiancé for 4 yrs. We, well he bought a house (my name not on house) and opened up a successful business. I stayed home raising our son for the first year. I recently just stared a job as a Cake decorator. Pay not great but I can try and make it work. I’m just so lost and confused on what to do. I've suggested counseling. But he thinks it stupid and a waste of money. HELP

2007-11-10 07:37:21 · 14 answers · asked by momma to 1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-boyfriend who I dated 2 yrs ago and we are still great friends he is 20 and is engaged to a 15 yr old... He says he still loves me and wants to be with me... He has been with her a yr, she just found out her mom has terminal cancer and she really doesn't have any other family....He feels its his responsibility to take care of her.... I know its bad that I want him all to myself but im tired waiting my turn... she is young and has time to find many other guys... I am not in high school anymore I want a family now... what should I do? I am only a sitting duck? The evil side of me wants to burst her perfect life bubble and show her the emails and conversations he and I have everyday.... and the other side wants me to wait but I think after her mother dies he will feel responsible to marry her and take care of her and thats is the last thing I want... She is very mean to him and thats just cause she is young and inmature I know but he shouldn't put up with it either.... Help!!!

2007-11-10 07:37:13 · 52 answers · asked by Amber m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-10 07:37:08 · 8 answers · asked by Kaya M 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

well me and my husband ben separatd for 2 months lastmonth i found out i was pregnant i tried to work things out with him but he refuse to hes alwyas ignoring me and he tells me that its not his child that someone tld him i sleep around which is a lie i know for sure , i never cheated on him and he never accused me either but i dont know why hes saying that when he know we usedun protected sex because he wanted a child and just cuase we're separated hes saying its not his, im tired and stressed out dealing with him and trying to tell him i need his support andfor him to be there for me, i dont know if hes just saying that cause he doesnt want it or he knows its his but dont want to be there, and women was orin y situation? i really need helpand good advices? will he be there at the end or what should i do to get over this.

2007-11-10 07:30:52 · 9 answers · asked by rhea 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what are the specific signals that tells you he loves you other than words?

2007-11-10 07:29:27 · 6 answers · asked by Cherokee Billie 7 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is almost 9 years old and she knows the word sex so I attempted to explain the concept to her. She knows about periods and why Mommy has them. The one time I tried to explain the difference between boys and girls I ended up pulling out the encyclopedia and she lost interest. I am a single mother so I don't have any male support on this issue so I'm scared and confused as to how and when to go about this. I don't want her learning from friends at school because as we all know she won't get the truth. What do I do?

2007-11-10 07:26:53 · 17 answers · asked by Marilyn F 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-10 07:25:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok well me and my friend liked this guy for a long time and finaly he asked me out but i said no because i didnt want to make her mad so he asked her out and she said YES!
yea well i got over that part but me and him hang out but only when my friend is there.... and today he came over just me and him and we were just talking and he kept like putting his hands on me and rubbing me.. he sat down then pulled my pants off ... But OF COARSE I PULLED EM BACK UP.. but still then when he left he tryed to kiss me but I wouldnt i dont want to hurt my friend WHAT DO I DO??

2007-11-10 07:23:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend is wonderful when it's just me and him. He calls and texts me all the time telling me how much he wants to see me and hold me, etc., and we get along great. But when we actually go out (with his friends) he ignores me and turns into a completely different person. He "toughens up" and refuses to hold my hand, put his arm around me, or sometimes even look at me. He gets even worse when we're around his female friends. He will walk next to them and leave me behind. Then afterwards he will tell me I'm overreacting. The strange thing is, he only ignores me around certain guy friends. And it's not like he's a little boy, he's 20! It's just getting ridiculous. What is up with him?

2007-11-10 07:22:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been married for 3 years now. Great girl and i love her very much...but she suffers from depression and she sleeps alot. We also dont have as much in common as we thought.
Ive recently (and i know im a dirtball :( but ive started seeing someone. We have been physical, and we love being together and have a lot in common.
I just dont know what to do....im a very visible person in my community and we have lots of close friends. In other words i would have to quit my job and we would have to move if i did something drastic. I dont want to....but i also am not sure i can go without seeing this person. Its not some puppy love or phase, or lust. We genuinely have a great connection together.

2007-11-10 07:21:27 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok.... here it goes im 22 yrs old had a baby whn i was 16 and i havnt been with my sons dad in awhile but we still have sex is tht healthy or should i stop?

2007-11-10 07:19:20 · 21 answers · asked by tiff 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am very suspicious my husband is cheating on me because ever since he went into the military he is mean to me. In basic trainig i didn't get one phone call. His letters only talked about his daughter no hello to me or anything to my 7 yr old from previous marriage. he is now in ait he NEVER answers his phone. i have text messaged him i need closure and that i think he is cheating but he never responds. He called his daughter one time in the whole 4 months and i missed the call but he says on the voicemail the srgt made him call he does send the lowest legal amount but thats it. Other than that were dead to him he didn't invite me to the graduation from basic where they are allowed to sleep with wives for one nite on post. since he gets weekend passes in ait from sat at 5pm till sun 5pm he has been renting hotel rooms at the marrioot & spends lots of money atm debits of 300 dollars should i go up there and confront him since he never answers his phone or just consider him a cheater

2007-11-10 07:18:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please answer these five questions guys
Question Details: What do you prefere in a girl?

Blonde or brunette?
Skinny or fat?
Big hips or no hips?
Big boobs or small boobs?
Blue eyes or brown?

and PLEASE DO NOT say looks dont matter becasue this question isnt about personality its bout what men prefere

thankyou x x

2007-11-10 07:10:12 · 7 answers · asked by Jasmine G 1 in Singles & Dating

When I seem more uncaring (for lack of better word), she's super caring and loving and funny and just absolutely charming to be with. Then when she's more uncaring, I feel unavoidably clingy cuz when I want to hang out with her or have her come over or I need to talk, she'll usually put that way down the list of her priorities.

The best situation seems to involve me being more uncaring. It feels the best and things go the smoothest and I'm actually happiest then... but I really don't like the sound of that.

Has anyone been through something similar and has a perspective or an idea how to sort through this? I'd really appreciated it.

2007-11-10 07:08:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have mixed emotions on the subject. In my last relationship I loved and inadvertently lost. It was my first time being in love. The hurt was borderline unbearable and it's affecting my current relationship, a year later. I am less prone to act on emotion, and I am always putting on my armor - the result being a mundane, hum drum relationship. But on the flip side, I relish the memory of my past relationship, remembering it as the best time of my life. But was it worth never being able to get close to someone new?

So I propose the question, to see if anyone can come up with the answer or even a justifiable opinion. Is it best that I have loved and lost, or is it better to be naive in the ways of love? It's a question I often ponder.

2007-11-10 07:06:16 · 18 answers · asked by Angelic Maneater 1 in Singles & Dating

I did just that. I asked a date to kiss me. She did, a nice long one at that. But now I question myself, would a woman rather just be kissed, or be asked and leave the option open to her?

2007-11-10 07:06:15 · 26 answers · asked by david 4 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to find out how to go about changing a divorce order. I know I will need a lawyer to do what we are wanting to do. But we are going for joint custody of my husband's kids and also want to change his child support order to consider his present employment status. If anyone can help please let me know.

2007-11-10 07:05:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what is it? is it bad?

2007-11-10 07:04:16 · 16 answers · asked by Oreo 1 in Singles & Dating

LOL

Well,semi drunk,at least.
A few girlfriends who haven't been together in ages and I are going out.
I am not driving,my kids are with my ex...so why not?

2007-11-10 07:00:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im thinking about it but im not sure i think just doing at night would be the best am i wrong?

2007-11-10 06:58:24 · 14 answers · asked by beastly102 1 in Singles & Dating

what do i do? i dont know how to turn her down. thats it im flying to the moon and never coming back. but yea she is hideous. help!

2007-11-10 06:54:51 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He seems to have moved on, but I am still raw. It's a long story. My bio-father never supported my mother's pregnancy. They were both in college, and he made no effort to see me, or provide for me. He left for his home country when I was about a year old. I found him again in my early twenties, after giving birth to my own child and we communicated for awhile. I soon discovered he was still the arrogant, selfish little boy he was when he abandoned me in the first place. I cut ties with him. Part of me regrets this, but he gave me no other choice. I still cry over this. I think about how life might have been with his presence. I think about all the relatives that are oblivious to my existence. I think of my own child and that he might suffer from this void as well. I think about how this man stole so much from so many people and yet, he seemingly takes no accountability.

What can I do to move on? How can I heal?

2007-11-10 06:53:47 · 12 answers · asked by Lolly 2 in Family

had bought 4 leather sofas on the internet without waking you up? He felt he found a good deal and I could tell he was getting too excited. I told him before I went to bed not to buy furniture on the net at least untill we shop and see what we could buy locally. I woke up this morning and he had bought FOUR leather sofas. Not a sofa and loveseat or sofa and chair. I have 2 rooms of sofa pairs.I could have spontaniously combusted. He said I should be happy. What do you think? Would you be happy?

2007-11-10 06:53:27 · 16 answers · asked by BERT 6 in Marriage & Divorce

im getting married in the summer, and my planner has asked us to come up with a winning theme! any ideas?

2007-11-10 06:52:50 · 13 answers · asked by Kiya-Jai 1 in Weddings

I'm a single woman in her mid 40s and without children. I had spent a long time with one guy and we broke up a couple of years ago. As luck has it, I look a lot younger than my years and am frequently taken as a 30 year old. I also take good care of myself by keeping fit and eating very well. Because of this I am often asked out by guys in their twenties. The problem is, I am often attracted to them too. You might say 'what problem'? Ok, true, if an attraction is mutual why not go for it but in reality, I feel a bit insecure about the level of maturity of these guys and usually turn them down. I am not really attracted to men in my age group so I feel frustrated at this situation. I want to date a guy who is able to have a stable long term relationship with me. I fear that these 20 somethings are just looking for a fling or sexual experience with an older woman. Can these relationships really work..like real love? Or will the want a young girl for a baby etc?

2007-11-10 06:51:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with this guy for over 2 yrs now and we have a 5 month old baby girl. We get along great for the most part and he has been there for me in really hard times. I was hospitalized for 6 months in the begining of our relasionship and again for 2 weeks when I was pregnant, he was right there waiting for me and supporting me. He asks me everyday to marry him and I keep saying just a lil longer, is it time to say yes. I love him and do plan to be with him forever but I am just scared what do I do?

2007-11-10 06:50:46 · 15 answers · asked by Boo Boo Kitty Fuck 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 21 yr old virgin. I am skinny and somewhat attractive. But I wanted to hold my virginity till marriage as part of my beliefs. Now I am getting nervous about the first time and wondering if I should get practice. I dont want to be like a clumsy mess and screw everything up when the time comes. Should I hold my virginity till marriage and not worry about not having experience. Or should I head to the bars and get some experience first. ;)

2007-11-10 06:50:22 · 38 answers · asked by DaisyDUke22 3 in Singles & Dating

So here's my situation. Me and my bf live together and have been together for over 5 years. We have 2 kids and 1 on the way. My baby is due in january and my brother asked to stay with us for a few months to get on his feet. He's been there since the beginning of september. He doesn't appear to be trying to leave soon. He has only given me 180 dollars since he's been there. He is taking up the room that will be my newborns room. He works practically part time and other then that he doesn't do anything. He's lazy and doesn't help much around the house. It's really stressful and hard on my bf as well. To top it off he brang some girl over last night and they had really loud sex. I mean it was ridiculous. My kids rooms are right next to his!! My boyfriend said something to him. Now he's acting like we've done something wrong. He's basically used up all of our other family members. If we make him leave I don't know where he will go. Any suggestions on how to tell him to leave nicely?

2007-11-10 06:50:06 · 13 answers · asked by ~*cHrIsTiNe*~ 2 in Family

He shot and killed himself a year ago, and I wanted to do something on Tuesday to honor his memory, but I also want to avoid spending the day crying. There is no way for me to visit his grave. He was a very very good friend of mine, and I spent a lot of time with him the day before he killed himself and didn't know he was suicidal. I partly blame myself for missing the clues. The whole thing is such a mess that I feel like I'm afraid of this day. What can I do to feel better, while acknowledging him at the same time?

2007-11-10 06:47:18 · 22 answers · asked by Ravenclaw Alumni 2 in Friends