Family & Relationships - 10 November 2007

I've moved out of our bedroom, separated our finances and if I could afford a lawyer right now I'd get one! I've tried being nice, thinking that would make it easier. But he goes through my checkbook to see what I'm spending money on, when I go out he calls to check up on me and gets mad when I don't answer. He actually sets his alarm clock for the middle of the night to see what time I get home. He constantly accuses me of cheating, which I am not. The only action I get is my vibrator!! He's been on Adult Friend Finder.com and answered at least 2 personal ads that I know of. Then there's Tasha from work who is in a tottaly different dept, but he called her at 11pm and doesn't remember making that call. That would be the best thing for me. I wish he would find someone else! But don't call me the cheater! I think he's even put spyware on the computer to see what I'm up to. So if he wants me back so bad, which is not going to happen anyways, why is he on the hunt for internet whores?

2007-11-10 08:47:24 · 13 answers · asked by mary rachel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im happy and trying to do well at school
why is it my friends are so concerned about my none existing love life?
they all have boyfriends, and there concerne is slowly starting to bug me...

2007-11-10 08:47:10 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

but they dont mind taking them to a bar where there is drinking and sometimes dancing..wouldnt guys still try to disrespect there too??guys answer

THANKS

2007-11-10 08:47:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Without being too blunt? I don't want to hurt his feelings- I just want him to know that I'm mad at him for what he has done. Any suggestions?

The situation:
Basically, he's a player. Right after he played me he started hanging out with me less and less, and now he wants to know why I'm upset at him.

2007-11-10 08:47:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

died this morning and i'm trying to comfort her. is there a good poem that anybody knows that i could give her, just something sweet saying i'll be there for her. i'm probably going to give her a bunch of books that i enjoyed, cause that's what i would want.

2007-11-10 08:43:49 · 21 answers · asked by Missy K 1 in Friends

My partner has an account on a live webcam site where he can tell girls to do whatever he wants while he masturbates. He doesn't have a webcam, only they do. If you were in my situation, would you end the relationship? Would you consider this cheating?

2007-11-10 08:43:03 · 17 answers · asked by weatherizbad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I liked this guy for a long time, yet i just moved recently. He talked to my friend saying that he tried to call/email me but there was no answer (my email's crappy) so i talked to him and we talked for like 20 minutes on the phone. he said he wants to hang out with me soon and that i should come back to my old town. this was a couple weeks ago, and i dont know if i should call him again, cause i know he'll forget to call me. this guy is really sweet and funny but i dont know if i should still like him because there is such a long distance between us- and that would only hurt me in the end, right? plus, i like some kids in my new school, but i dont know and im really confused..help!!! thanks!!!

2007-11-10 08:38:08 · 7 answers · asked by Kelly L 2 in Singles & Dating

I just got married and I decided to turn up our sex life. I decided to spice up our really boring sex life by surprised him with all
kinds of lingerie, sexy photos, games, suggestion cards, ect. Just to keep in fun and alive.....I have had them since the honeymoon and he has yet to open anything and when i suggest it he just shrugs his shoulders. I even took sexy photos of me in lingerie for our wedding for him and he just looked at them once and then never looked at them again.

The last straw was last night when i got all dressed up (stockings high heals, ect ect) and he was have watching tv instead of me. I'm not ugly and keep really good care of my body......but now its starting to take a toll on my self esteem and i'm tired of trying. I even resent him now. I know this isn't the answer but I have outlawed sex to "show him" because i don't know what else to do......any help would be appreciated

2007-11-10 08:35:20 · 13 answers · asked by MadKat 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-10 08:34:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a heterosexual male but I love wearing women's underwear. I have not done this for a while and I am wanting to give in and purchase some panties and women's sleepwear. What should I do?

2007-11-10 08:31:16 · 33 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

if your ex boyfriend or girlfriend done to you by physically abuse or verbal abuse but already go to anger management or counselling if succesfull , will you give your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend second chance to be back together ????

2007-11-10 08:29:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

looking for the perfect present for my biological sister whom ive never met but am meeting over x-mas break...i wanna get her something that means alot to her, well her favorite band is the stills, and ive been looking for something to do with them, bu ti really have no idea what to get her...any ideas??

2007-11-10 08:28:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It has nothing to do with liking another guy, feeling unloved from my boyfriend, or anything like that. I just have this urge to do it to see if I can get away with it. He's never hurt me or cheated nme. No problem with sex life ect. nothing like that.

I just want to.
I know it's wrong. I know I shouldn't do it. There's no reason for it. So how do i get this feeling to go away?

It's been in my mind for awhile.

I seriously want this thought to go away. Help?

2007-11-10 08:26:36 · 59 answers · asked by B 3 in Singles & Dating

i notice that the woman gets more angry at the other woman. when the other woman could have been an innocent party.
meanwhile the married woman forgives the hubby.
do women secretly hate each other and dont want each other to succeed.

even during elections?

catty??

2007-11-10 08:24:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went out with a co-worker of sorts last night. He asked me three days ago if I would like to see a movie. Many people as friends go out along with each other so I didn't think much of it until the next day he comes up to me while i'm with another co worker and asks if we are still on for our "date." I awkwardly paused and said yes because I didn't want to make a big deal about it. We went to the movie and he talked about his exes and then talked about his booty calls and then said, "I don't date people from work" quite abruptly during dinner, which he paid. We were then walking and he asked what I thought about another co-worker, a male and then said that another one liked me very much, just like him and when I asked him what he meant, "he said, we both have a thing for chocolate women..." it ended...as he dropped me to my car. What was that?

2007-11-10 08:18:02 · 10 answers · asked by sasahi l 1 in Singles & Dating

ive never had a gf and i dont know how to

2007-11-10 08:13:15 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-10 08:12:19 · 20 answers · asked by Nice Guy 2 in Singles & Dating

My uncle is getting married at the age of 43 to a 48 year old woman whom I've never met. I have seen my uncle exactly once in the past six years. I have a lovely silver frame I am giving them but I thought about giving a basket of all natural biodegradable wonderful smelling home products. Air freshener, a plug in freshener, wipes, hand soaps, all-purpose cleaner etc. Personally this would be a gift that I would LOVE to receive. But I didn't know if it would be bad taste or not. Any thoughts?

2007-11-10 08:11:46 · 28 answers · asked by Laura 2 in Weddings

2007-11-10 08:10:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sexual activity whatsoever, would you leave them or support them?

I ask this because I received four thumbs down for answering "How important is sex in a relationship?" with "I believe that if you truly love someone that you can spend your entire life with them without touching them at all."

What is your opinion?

2007-11-10 08:09:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex will not move on. We have been seperated for over six months. He quit his job and got a lower paying?so child support would be lower for him. He claims to love the kids and me. How could he and quit his job. He has not given me money for then in over four months. What do I DO?

2007-11-10 08:06:00 · 3 answers · asked by Jazzy Faye 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine is getting divorced. It is a mutual divorce. They have been married for 4 years. They own no property, have no kids and owe less than $5,000 in credit card debt. Is a lawyer necessary in this type of divorce or can it be done on their own?

2007-11-10 08:05:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What if you did not have feelings for your husband for a long time but knew you could not leave because you had no money ,no job and nowhere to go?

2007-11-10 08:02:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband can't spell the word "romance". He never gives me flowers, or compliment my cooking. I know he enjoys my cooking, by looking at his plate (gready). No hugs, Kisses? what's that. Bedroom activities are 50% out of 100%. I can take it, or leave it. At this point, I don't care. We have been married for five years. I don't suspect him of cheating, because he is always home. He work comes home, play the video game for hours, get on the computer for hours, look at tv for hours. Then goes to bed. When its time to get intimate, he has the nerve to get mad when I am sleep at 2am in the morning. 2am is when his little activites end. Believe me it's not worth waiting for. I rather go with out. In a nut shell, I don't feel appreciated. I keep a clean house, I cook, wash his clothes, take our son to school, and I work as a R.N. in the Emergency dept. which is very stressful. Before we got married, he was so romantic. He acts like a old man. We are both 38years old. I do love him. Help!

2007-11-10 07:58:39 · 8 answers · asked by Monique 1 in Marriage & Divorce

whats the advantage and disadvantage of getting married early????

2007-11-10 07:54:35 · 15 answers · asked by jason D.C 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Just to be able to claim you took her virginity and then leave her an have the marriage anulled?

2007-11-10 07:52:38 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone I know just got engaged. Yay! Wait, though. She's 23, he's 20. She's known him for 6 months. Neither of them have met the other's parents. But now they are engaged.

I'm very worried she is making a HUGE mistake. But I'm not that close to her, so I can't say much. And her mind is made up either way.

2007-11-10 07:50:28 · 13 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3 in Marriage & Divorce

it hurt and was embarassing. she laughed at me. I've wondered for years if it happened to other guys.

2007-11-10 07:50:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have liked my neighbor for a while, but the only thing is that we've been best friends since we were 4, and now were 15. even though were really good freinds we still flirt a lot, and everyone says we would make a really good couple, he has been the shoulder for me to cry on throughout my whole life. a few days ago, after school we were outside laying on his hammock together, and it was only about 45 out and we both were complaining that it was cold, and even though he was complaining about being cold, he gave me his sweatshirt to wear, we were just talking, like about whats gonna happen when we go to college and things like that, when he randomly said that he was tired of being single, and that he wanted to go out with someone, then he started naming people who he knew liked him, then asked me who i thought of the people, i just went along, but wth? im almost positive he knew i liked him, so y would he ask me about that? im soo confused, help me understand?

2007-11-10 07:45:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was thinking of posting a picture of myself on truth or dare.com as a suprise for my husband. He likes it when I show off.

2007-11-10 07:44:31 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce