Family & Relationships - 10 November 2007

my mom is just sooo terrible to me... i do all the work and even though i have my own money that i earn from working from other people she wont even let my buy some tea, and it was on sale. it is my favorite type of tea and doesn't go on sale often. she always finds fault with what ever i do. she is soo mean. i am having to grow up way to fast. i can't move out im barely a teen. is there anything i can do?

2007-11-10 09:41:09 · 17 answers · asked by Elizabeth S 2 in Family

Ok so the guy I like and I got into a fight last night. Im really sad and I hate not talking to him. I really want to call him, do you think I should? What if it gets even worse? What can I say to apologize?

2007-11-10 09:40:56 · 20 answers · asked by LexiSexi 4 in Singles & Dating

a total lezbian
she video tapes girls in the locker rooms and
smacked my friends butt vannessa
What should I Do if she ever tried anything on me?

2007-11-10 09:40:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am circumsized, and she said she didn't want to have sexual relations with me because it wasnt normal. Girls, does the circumsizion status of a guy mater that much to you..? Guys - opinions?

2007-11-10 09:40:11 · 10 answers · asked by Billy L 1 in Singles & Dating

mine is lovely, and so funny, I can't wait for my lesson to come around.

2007-11-10 09:39:00 · 11 answers · asked by JULIA D 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been living together for the past 14 months. I noticed that my boyfriend cannot prepare meals. He doesn't clean well. He really tries to clean and pitch in with the chores. However he does a poor job and I often have to reclean the areas, he has "cleaned." when I explain these things to him, he think am picking on him. We were just raised differently . For example, his idea of making the bed is just throwing the sheets across the bed. Which differs from my idea of tucking the sheets at the end, making sure the sheets are even and the wrinkles are straighten out. When he cleans he is extremely sloppy!
I really love this guy and I can see myself living the rest of my life with him. But I can't help but notice the red flags and the thought of raising a family with someone who cannot cook or clean frightens me. He doesn't want to hire a cleaning crew and shows no effort to clean things properly. I am not a neat freak. I just expect things to be presentabl

2007-11-10 09:37:50 · 26 answers · asked by Guy's baby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know the question is generalizing, but I see alot of questions on here where women are saying that their husbands don't talk with them, or there is little or no communication in the marriage.

I think honest & open communication is key to the sucess of a marriage.

Just would like to hear from the guys on this.

2007-11-10 09:37:26 · 8 answers · asked by Bryan M 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been married for 4 yrs and we have a 3 year old son together. now my husband wants to get divorce and it will be finalized in few months. the reason for the divorce is he has been suffering from depression for many yrs and he does not want to talk to any counselor or anything, but he cannot take the responsibility to have a family. he would rather get divorce and be alone. but i am living in a hell, but i dont show it because i have to be strong because of my son, my parents in laws are helping me a lot to deal with the things but i cannot think anything without him. any advice how to cope with this pain?

2007-11-10 09:37:03 · 17 answers · asked by jmpk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was asked out on friday - 9th November - and i told the person who asked me i would tell them on monday - 12th November - because i had to think about it. i really don't know if i am ready to go out with another person yet after my last relationship - if anyone can help i will be really grateful. PLEASE I NEED YOUR HELP BEFORE 12th NOVEMBER... THIS MONDAY... thanks

2007-11-10 09:34:26 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I've had a class with this girl for about 4 months and all her friends say she likes me,she laughs at everything I say, and she even invited me to a football game and I went and we had a great time!But when her friend asks her out for me she replied,"I want to get to know him better" is she still interested in me?I need some advise!

2007-11-10 09:34:02 · 13 answers · asked by clubclan05 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a guy for sometime now and our time has been a roller coaster ride. He's got kids which are #1 to him which I understand however I feel I'm always put on the back burner.

He doesn't invite me out when he takes them out, I feel he never says he loves me anymore nor makes time to visit.

I try to be the best person I can. I even got some words from an ex of his that I'm nothing special. He didn't have to much to say about it.

I hate being alone and I know I'm hanging on for the wrong reasons. I just want things to be the way they use to be. I feel very depressed about it and from time to time he says he wants to live with me and then says I'm a slob (which I'm not) and then doesn't want to live with me.

Does someone have any advice?

2007-11-10 09:33:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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Thanks! :)

2007-11-10 09:32:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-10 09:29:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work in a large hotel and I had to stay there for a night last week. There's a manager there that flirts with me a lot. I got up early and was headed out to get something to eat a little after 630 am. When I got to the door someone knocked very gently and said "room service" almost whispering. I recognized his voice, so I just let him open the door and looked at him mean. He looked really embarrassed and mumbled something about "just checking rooms" and walked away really fast. I waited at the door for a while and didn't hear him open any other doors on my floor, but I know there were other empty rooms.

Here's the thing:
He didn't have to be at work until 7, and it was still 2 hours before he was supposed to check the rooms.
He had the list of rooms in his hand that had my name and room number on it.

What do you think he was up to?? Normally, I would still have been asleep (that's why you wait to check rooms until later.)

2007-11-10 09:25:36 · 22 answers · asked by Jane T 2 in Singles & Dating

does it mean personality, appearance or wut? wut the hell does it mean?

2007-11-10 09:19:39 · 16 answers · asked by solstice333 3 in Friends

I have been with my wife now 6 years; married 2, dated 4, lived together 4. We always seem to get along, have good sex, and enjoy each others families. Over the last 6-7 months I've have become more and more distant with her. The problem does not seem to be our relationship, but I don't feel as if I love her anymore. Is this normal, is there a way to fall back in love? I have spoken with her and she says she still loves me..... I am so confused and don't know what to do.

2007-11-10 09:19:33 · 11 answers · asked by flappy jack 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He put his arm around me and said "wow look at all those merits" (we were up with the teacher signing off our marks) IVE NEVER SEEN HIM DO THAT TO ANYBODY ELSE and ive been in his class 4 3 years !! i was actually really surprised he did this... i just let him do it ...

all of my friends say they can see me and him together. i want us to be 2gether BUT THERES ONLY 3 DAYS LEFT OF SCHOOL (i live in the southern hemisphere and its a 3 month summer holiday)

Plz can u give me some advice and maybe a plan of action of what to do i those 3 days...

?!

2007-11-10 09:12:03 · 33 answers · asked by Felecia C 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy in my class and were friends when ever were around each other we always look at each other and start blushing could he possibly like me or are we just friends and what should i do

2007-11-10 09:09:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-10 09:05:52 · 18 answers · asked by sara 4 in Marriage & Divorce

the thing is we both meat at our school dance when we were dancing we bomped in to each other ever since i cant stop thinking about him what should i do

2007-11-10 09:05:25 · 8 answers · asked by kikki16prettyprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

Please know that I have brought sexy clothes, danced for him, stripped for him etc. He does take the bait, and the whole thing is over in 2mins. I have talked to him for 2 years. I have been begging him to go on a vacation. He refused. I had a heart to heart with him two weeks ago. It didn't help, back at square one. Thank you guys for your comments. but, I have reached a decision, I'm leaving him today. I've been planning for awhile. My husband won't be home until 12mid. I have packed, emptied my account (we have separated accounts), I have brought two airline tickets. Me and my son will leave at 8pm. tonight. I took a leave of absence from my job just in case I want to return. Going to leave with a relative until I get settle. I feel that my mind will snap if I don't leave. Guys pray for me. If this is wrong, why do I feel so good. Comments?

2007-11-10 09:04:40 · 8 answers · asked by Monique 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I guess the question marks got you to click..lol..thought it would get more answers but ANYWAY,,,
I'm dating kinda a dork. He's really skinny and I feel..well..chubby sitting next to him. His clothes irritate me. And..he snorts when he laughs which bothers me. BUT,,, he treats me like a QUEEN. I love it.
The problem is, I kind of want to dump him cause like yesterday at the movies he kissed me and I didn't really like it..aren't first kisses supposed to tell about a relationship?
So, should I dump him or learn to like him?

PS...don't call me shallow cause it will be ignored.

2007-11-10 09:02:31 · 30 answers · asked by ♥anonymous♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

There was this young lady who I worked at this business, where I was basically acted as a consultant to the business.

She has it all professional (has tremendous potential to continually increase her skill set), polite, hard worker, very smart, lovely voice, beautiful smile, a great sense of humor, big stunning electric Blue Eyes...in addition she was "easy on the eyes"

We had a great time, well I think we had great time, while at this business together. I have to admit I had a little crush on this little lady, she knew it, was OK with it, we always kept things professional.

The business had a fatal flaw (bad location), we both knew this business was headed out of business. I was so impressed with her, loved being around her and there could be opportunities down the road for us, especially with her talent, to work together again. We took an oath we always be friends.Now we are apart, she has cut me off completely. If real men cry, I'm a real man. I need closure but there's 0 view.

2007-11-10 09:02:17 · 3 answers · asked by Chuck 2 in Friends

OK so im going out with this guy and now my mom found out and she wants me to brake up with him so now i dont know wat to do HElP ME

2007-11-10 08:59:41 · 8 answers · asked by hllrycrz 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I am a 16 year old boy, and I am a total loser. I'll just say that cause its true. I hardly have any friends and a lot of people really hate me for no reason. I don't play any sports or do anything fun, just cause I have no motivation to. What should I do to help improve my social life?

2007-11-10 08:59:38 · 12 answers · asked by The_Peacemak3r 1 in Friends

After a big argument and false accusations were made against me, I left my house with my new baby. I refused to come back home even though I really wanted to because I was scared. We went through a custody thing for a couple months. I really want to go home, but my husband says he doesn't know if he can "forgive me" because I was unappreciative of him when we were together and that I was cold. He said if I asked right now, he'd want a divorce but that could be different later, and he had to "fall back in love" with me. We've been separated for 3 months, and this past weekend I slept w/ him (after almost no communication for a while), then yesterday, he got mad at me because he received a bill from something a long time ago and told me he'd made so many sacrifices to make me happy and he didn't even want to talk to me! I have worked on a lot of issues, and am in counseling. How do I get a second chance?

2007-11-10 08:57:32 · 7 answers · asked by Morgan G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-10 08:55:39 · 27 answers · asked by Soda 1 in Friends

I dress well, I'm not heavy but I'm not buff/toned, Stay very clean and I don't smell. I am sometimes termed gay because my voice doesn't sound like most guys my age (11th grade) its a bit higher and a bit more feminine but I don't know what to do about it. I really don't want to change who I am but it seems from my experiences that I'm not that attractive to the opposite sex. What should I do about this predicament? I have tons of friends that are girls and guys but girls just don't seem attracted to me and its really discouraging.... help please?

2007-11-10 08:54:59 · 10 answers · asked by Yo Yo Ma 1 in Singles & Dating

My dying ex-fiance (who is also my best friend) knows that I have a new bf. Yesterday, I told my ex that I loved him more than any other guy. But then he just said "I wish you were happy with your new guy." Then he gave me his cellphone, told me to take care of it for him. Then told me that he hopes my new bf enjoyed my cooking as much as he used to. My ex is now in his hospital deathbed, he has cancer, I don't know what to do. I love him more than my bf, but it's so hopeless. (We broke up cuz we decided we were better off as friends). But why is he letting me go already? I don't want him to die...

2007-11-10 08:53:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this guy and we've recently become really close. He's liked me before, and i've liked him before, but its never worked out. Now we are like BEST friends.
And i like him again.
Should i tell him or not??
I dont want to ruin our friendship..but i REALLLLYYY really really really like him!

2007-11-10 08:52:06 · 35 answers · asked by Secrertt 1 in Singles & Dating