He put his arm around me and said "wow look at all those merits" (we were up with the teacher signing off our marks) IVE NEVER SEEN HIM DO THAT TO ANYBODY ELSE and ive been in his class 4 3 years !! i was actually really surprised he did this... i just let him do it ...
all of my friends say they can see me and him together. i want us to be 2gether BUT THERES ONLY 3 DAYS LEFT OF SCHOOL (i live in the southern hemisphere and its a 3 month summer holiday)
Plz can u give me some advice and maybe a plan of action of what to do i those 3 days...
?!
2007-11-10 09:12:03 · 33 answers · asked by Felecia C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go 4 it!
2007-11-10 09:14:55 · answer #1 · answered by hiya_jennifer_rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 days is not a lot of time to really get to know someone but you can do things like ask what he is going to do this summer and see if there are ways you can meet without going all summer not at least seeing each other. don't rush into anything too fast because that is why so many kids in school become parents in school, but figure out ways to stay in touch over the summer and perhaps do things together if you live close enough. In those three days you can get an idea of what he likes to do that you might enjoy also whether bowling, going to the beach or whatever. Don't rush him but be a friend and if he wants to see if more works out, fine. Have a great summer.
2007-11-10 09:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could've sword I saw this question before..
There are three possibilities: He's just being nice, he likes you, or he's slightly jealous. It's more likely to be the first two. So what you should do is try to get to know each other more. You'll at least be best friends, and going out is a definite possibility.
You should just try to get close to him as possible. At least get a phone number or email by the end of the week. Then you can get even closer during the holiday and possible go out during the holiday.
2007-11-10 09:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by Luna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're talking about the teacher making advances - report him.
If you're talking about a school boy, then his timing sucks. There isn't enough time to start a romance in three days for you to know whether you will last the 3 months of summer.
Go home, keep in touch, meet new people, see how it goes.
Good luck.
2007-11-10 09:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just got more merits than everyone else. how was the hug? did he grab you inapropriately while he did it? is this an unusually good performance for you? maybe he was just surprised and wanted to show some encouragement but if I were him I would have just said "good job" or something like that. sometimes a hug IS just a hug. have any other girls in your class been touched by him? ask around but think first before you make any charges. while I don't believe in any adult messing with kids you don't want to feel responsible for ruining an innocent person's life.
2007-11-10 09:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was probably genuinely congratulating you on the amount of merits you had gained. You said "we were up with the teacher" meaning there were other pupils with you at the time. If he was coming onto you, he wouldn;t have done it with others around. Seems it was just harmess. have a great holiday with people your own age and forget him
2007-11-10 09:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by amazin_woman2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he looked at a demerit chart with you, and you think he likes you?
No signs are pointing to that, sorry. Especially if that's the first time he's ever even talked to you. If you like him, flirt with him. I'd wait until next year, though. You can't really get anything in edge-wise with the time you have.
2007-11-10 09:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we talking the teacher or a student?? You just let him do what---????
There are several questions to be answered here in order to give you a GOOD and HONEST answer. I know you can't put any relationship together in 3 days. Be smart and careful.
2007-11-10 09:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by Nannie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously extremely young. Stop wasting your energy on what you should do or shouldn't do. Your focus should be on getting your education and having a blast with your friends. You'll, soon enough, be ready to do the dating thing...don't be in such a hurry.
2007-11-10 09:16:17 · answer #9 · answered by Beth 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with him, but don't make it too obvious you like him.
Ask him for his phone number or something, tell him you hope you two can see eachother over the vacation, and tell him you should hang out, and stuff. Things will flow from there :)
2007-11-10 09:16:06 · answer #10 · answered by Christina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, just tell him how you feel and say "if it was not the last 3 days of school,we would have something" and say"i hope you understand" also.....for more ask more
2007-11-10 09:19:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋