I really need your help...?

Question

I was asked out on friday - 9th November - and i told the person who asked me i would tell them on monday - 12th November - because i had to think about it. i really don't know if i am ready to go out with another person yet after my last relationship - if anyone can help i will be really grateful. PLEASE I NEED YOUR HELP BEFORE 12th NOVEMBER... THIS MONDAY... thanks

Answer 1

say thay you would love to hang out and get to know each other, but you got out of a relationship and arent ready for anything commital, but you would love to be friends and see where it goes!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

If you can handle the possibility of akwardness and possibly telling the person it won't work out, then go for it. You might end up enjoying yourself, cuz you're not exactly sure, so why not give it a shot. But be prepared to tell the person that it might not work out after all.

Answer 4

Just tell them the truth. If you aren't ready to date again, tell them that and they should understand. If you think you like this person enough that you may want to go out with them in the future (when you feel more ready) tell them how great you think they are, etc. etc. to keep a glimmer of hope for them. Otherwise, just tell them that you just want to be friends and they'll probably get your drift.

Answer 5

What you need to do is tell them that exact thing. By the sounds of it you are not all the way over your ex, and you don't want to give this person false hopes and make them become the rebound person. Tell them that you aren't fully over your ex and that you don't want to hurt them by plaguing them with the title of "rebound." If you actually do like this person, tell 'em that it may happen later, but to give you time to think things over. If they truly likes you they will wait for you and be there for you the whole time.

Answer 6

do you really like this girl because if you do go for it but if you are not ready for a relationship tell the person that you are not ready and explain you like them and you just dont feel ready

Answer 7

Just say what you wrote down in your question...that your not ready for another relationship just yet. Try and let her know that you still wanna be good friends.

Answer 8

Just think everything over. On Monday if you still have the feelings your not over your last relationship just explain that to them. some people will even still be with you if you say that. =) GOOD LUCK!

Answer 9

Tell him you like him but you don't know if you are ready for anything but a friendship and if that's ok with him at this point, go out.

Answer 10

Theres no harm done in saying yes.

But it really depends, how much do you know about this person?

Maybe you should get to know her first?

If you say yes, then dont forget that you can end the relationship whenever you want!

Hope I helped!

Bianca =)