Should I call him?

Question

Ok so the guy I like and I got into a fight last night. Im really sad and I hate not talking to him. I really want to call him, do you think I should? What if it gets even worse? What can I say to apologize?

Ok, well the fight was about the fact that he should say yes to this other girl that asked him out cause, nothing is going to happen between us. He told me that he doesn't like to ask people out a lot and I have guys ask me out. This girl has been asking him out a lot and I kinda got mad that he hung out with her the other day. Its all really lame, and all really my fault. I feel like a big jerk.

Answer 1

Sometimes it is the words NOT SAID that can hurt a relationship.....think about it. Be the bigger person if you want this. What is the worst that can happen? Think about that -- figure out how to deal with worse case sceneio before you make the call.

Answer 2

Ok. This depends on what type he is..what the fight was about. See, if he started the fight, then you saying sorry probably won't do much. But if you did something to offend him, apologizing is your best bet. Maybe waiting a few days is better..but don't wait to long, because it could get to the point of him saying "She just doesn't care, I gotta move on." Say..one of you likes Bush, the other hates him. A way to get through that is this, "I don't want the current president getting in the way of us. He isn't going to be the president forever. Can we please agree to disagree?" or say..he thinks you should try a new lipstick, because he's tired of your old one, and you were dumb enough to say "YOU'RE SAYING I"M NOT PRETTY!" well, that could be fixed by saying "I'm sorry, I was feeling emotional and I over reacted. I think I could change up, too. I realize you weren't trying to offend me, and I am very very sorry." It's a fill-in-the-blank sorta thing. Good luck!

Answer 3

If he's a good guy, then yes, call him. If you don't believe you were wrong, you don't need to apologise to call him, nor do you have to pretend it didn't happen. But you do need to take some ownership that it got out of hand so just say something like "I'm sorry the argument got out of hand last night, just because we disagree doesn't mean you're not still a great friend" or something to that effect in whatever language you both speak :)

Answer 4

It depends on what the argument was about, if it was something that you need to make a point with and give him time to think and realize your point of view then wait.

If it was something that either way he did not take your feelings into consideration then let him stew about it for awhile. You can phone on Monday.

If it was over something stupid or something that you now know that you were totally wrong and he was totally right about then phone tonight.

Answer 5

Call him, if things get worse well it will be his fault not yours, you were just trying to make things better. Chances are it ont do anything negative. And sometimes guys are nervous about calling a girl, especially if they are afraid to loose them, because there upset.

Answer 6

call him and say I'm really sorry for what happened last night or something like that. good luck.

Answer 7

Just call him and say that you don't like not being able to talk to him. clear things up and in stead of using "you shouldn't have ...." or anything with a you, say "I'm sorry because I shouldn't have..."

Answer 8

you should not feel like a jerk and you should just call him and say that you are very sorry but i like you that is why i acted like that.

Answer 9

let him call you, who started the fight? maybe he doesnt want to talk to you yet, when hes calmed down he will call you, if not oh well move on theres more fish in the sea.

Answer 10

theres a rule wait 3 days then call