Family & Relationships - 10 November 2007

to walk up to a complete stranger, tell them I find them physically attractive,and ask them flat out if they would be interested in having sex? I am just curious.

2007-11-10 19:18:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex broke up with me and now i have a different girlfriend but now shes acting like she likes me like trying to play games and mess around(not sexually)so what do i do...i was crazy about her)

2007-11-10 19:11:06 · 25 answers · asked by yo moma 1 in Singles & Dating

What can I tell relatives and nosy aquaintances when they ask, "How many children do you want?" and I say, "None, he's getting fixed as a wedding gift!" to lighten the mood again? I mean, I'm pretty sure that him getting a vasectomy for me is the sweetest thing he could do, but these people are breeders who think that everyone who can should have children, help!

2007-11-10 19:09:56 · 14 answers · asked by some female 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-10 19:05:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok living with my mom means living with my sisters,brothers...
and the bad part is that ill miss my cousins, friends, and i have a bad reputation in school (people think im weird for some reason :l). If i live with my dad, i would go back to my old school were i know every1 there and have friends and a good reputation, have a maid, and have an allowance. but i would be living in a big house with my dad alone, my dad is really busy so i would usually come from school to an empty home, i would miss my mom ,sisters and brother. and my dad wouldn't have time to take me shopping etc.

2007-11-10 19:02:51 · 5 answers · asked by KK 1 in Family

me and my best friend had a patch up but just as friends.she wants time even to talk.she wants me to msg before i call her.i told her she'l get her space.i was trying to be back to normal but she was saying that she has inborn so much hatred that even my voice can make her angry.we both are sailing in the same boat.even m angry but for the sake that we'l b friends again i am keeping quiet.it was just a fight and we are no more kids so whats the big deal,why cant she forget and move on...

2007-11-10 18:58:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A couple of days ago I met a dude at work telling me this story about himself. He is about to get married to a brunet woman, but he says a few years ago, he even did not think of them and all the women he dated were blonde. He is now a little scared....that what if this will happen again....and, for example he switches back to blondes or whatever else.

He says he has a married friend who now wants to be with Asian girls...he want a divorce his white wife.

This is a little weird because when you are in love with someone, look is ONLY part of it, but on the other hand, it is not nothing.

Has this ever happened to you people? If so, how did you handle it? If your taste changes, especially after a serious relationship or marriage, you just step backward, or try to convince yourself that what that counts at the end of the day is inner quality and personality...

2007-11-10 18:47:43 · 5 answers · asked by John 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He and I seperated in the spring and the next summer he got a woman pregnant. He ran away when she told him, but she got him in court with paternity test. He refused to have anything to do with the child, because he can't stand her now. He and I have 2 children together and he wants me to keep it a secret. The woman seeked my friendship, and I weirded out but part of me felt sad for her little boy. It probably bothered her to know my ex picked up our children for visitation. A haunting thought came in my mind: Don't we owe it to tell the children that they have a half-sibling? I feel it is not my place to tell the kids about this, but I also feel like they have a right to know. I lost even more respect for this man knowing he denies a child. He really played a number on me -- thinking he was a good man. But it is my resposibility to keep my children out of the middle. This is heavy news for a kid. My ex has attitude of what they don't know doesn't hurt them.

2007-11-10 18:43:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi, i m 24 years post graduate with B.ed. female. my husband' s salary is 50,000 . so i need not much money , n even i m not interested in physical work. but my huksbadn says that if i don't go outside for work they will not keep maid for cleaning , in this case what i should do?

2007-11-10 18:43:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i havent had mine yet, but I think it would be really romantic...:-) don't go into anything inappropriate please.

2007-11-10 18:43:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I divorced my ex amicably 2 yrs ago. We lived 1 mile from each other, and I didn't fight for primary custody, we went for joint. All good, right? Well, I moved back in with my parents 18 months ago, and my ex and his new wife and kids moved to the opposite coast. My father and my brother have criticized me repeatedly about not fighting for custody of my son.

This is painful for me. My mother was never any help in caregiving for my son, but my ex had a big family ready and willing to help. Not only was my mother not a help, but she put me through emotional abuse from 12 to about 15. Right around 15 I was old enough to tell her to screw off, lol......but when my son visited me over spring break, my mother called him an asshole, because he was playing with and therefore working up her dogs. He was not mean to the dogs, he was playing.

My father knows my mother is this way, but still holds it against ME that I don't want my son raised with her. And my bro doesn't get it.

2007-11-10 18:42:30 · 6 answers · asked by navy_brat913 2 in Family

I cheated on my husband... and got caught... we worked it out... he thinks i'm still cheating even through i'm not... and has left me.... how can i get him back... we've been married 16years and have to kids....

2007-11-10 18:29:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know if this is just a "boyhood" crush or not. I'm 20, she's 26 we've known each other for about a year and just recently I started feeling affection for her but I don't want to be considered a homewrecker or hurt our relationship and make her feel awkward. We have a lot in common, I want something more than just friends but I don't know if that will ever work, so I'm asking for some advice.

2007-11-10 18:28:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-10 18:27:22 · 1 answers · asked by soccergirl 1 in Singles & Dating

`Just wanting some opinnions on people who have been in this type of situatuin. I feel I need to leave but I do not want to mess with my daughter growing up abnormal?"

2007-11-10 18:21:37 · 12 answers · asked by joduscabodus 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have had a very good friend for about almost 2 years. she went through some problems with a guy, he was married lied to her, and now when she found out all the dirt, her and his wife are friends and talk all the time. BUT she has them both fooled into thinking that she is pregnant. and has been telling this lie for about 2 months now, she gave them due dates and everything and has both of their myspace passwords and goes onto thier account without them even knowing. at first it was funny, to get back at him(he is in iraq and cant do much), but now she seems to be going kinda psycho with it all. and i saw some of the things she has put on the internet about herself and they are complete lies!!!! i dont know what to think of her anymore!! she was there for me alot and now (without her knowing) i see a whole diff. side of her i full of lies and drama i never seen before. what do i do? im kinda scared she will f*** me over if i be straight with her! i dont know what she is capable of.

2007-11-10 18:13:18 · 5 answers · asked by me me 2 in Friends

They are set on one photographer, and we have looked at many, many and cant agree. My budget, their wedding. Any advice?

2007-11-10 17:59:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I fell asleep in my g/f's dorm room and she left. I checked her cell phone while she was gone and she had just deleted all of her recent calls. She was gone for 15 minutes. She came back and said she was using the bathroom and said it was mysterious that her recent calls had been deleted. I don't think that they deleted themselves. So either she's cheating or the cell phone has a mind of it's own. She says she wouldn't ever cheat on me, but I'm suspicious. wadda ya think? I'm going to do some investigation and see if the phone has a history of technical issues surrouding this recent calls thing.

2007-11-10 17:55:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-10 17:54:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lets say both have the same service.

2007-11-10 17:50:52 · 13 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

love life situations in particular

2007-11-10 17:47:08 · 16 answers · asked by nightsky 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend txted me a few hours ago asking how i was today and whether i was in a better mood today. atm i really want to break up with him. im not sure if its just a phase im going through but i dont want to respond and say something i dont mean. do you think i should just leave it and forget about it. would you be offended if i didnt reply or would you not care at all?

2007-11-10 17:45:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Includes messed-up kids in their twenties.

2007-11-10 17:37:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He's my cousin friend. I met him about 2 months ago. Since then i see him at my cousin's football practice and he sees me. In school he come up behind me and pushes me and stuff. Some times he would put his arms around my shoulders. He went up to me the other day and put his hands on my shoulder and said Happy B-day. He also's touches my cheeks some times. i am very confuse, is he just playing w/ me beacuse he's my cousins friend.

2007-11-10 17:33:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you just tell him that nothing is wrong and try to forget about it? Does that work?

2007-11-10 17:32:19 · 34 answers · asked by Praire Crone 7 in Marriage & Divorce

yeah :)
no words
just...
holding your hand and playing with it

2007-11-10 17:31:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

us guys have feelings too we would love to know .

2007-11-10 17:30:23 · 32 answers · asked by blenyuk 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you like guys who are willing to help around the house such as chores? He has a job and he can help do house work but your gonna have to do some too. I know women nowadays hate house work but its something both husband and wife must contribute together in my opinion. My mom does most of the house work and works but I help around sometimes. My siblings are lazy. My father is a very hard working man and he is stressed out from work which is why my mom understands. So ladies would you like a guy who is willing to help around the house even if you gotta get involved too?

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-10 17:29:27 · 20 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-10 17:28:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been smoking weed for the past 2 months every weekend. I feel like it's changed me- I've become mellow and I feel like i've lost "my spark." I'm so tired after i smoke and i really don't like it anymore. I know it takes a month for the weed to get out of your system, but will my personality go back to what it was before? I feel like I've lost my morals cuz weed has made me accept so much and feel like its ok. will my brain cells grow back too?

2007-11-10 17:27:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating