I don't know if this is just a "boyhood" crush or not. I'm 20, she's 26 we've known each other for about a year and just recently I started feeling affection for her but I don't want to be considered a homewrecker or hurt our relationship and make her feel awkward. We have a lot in common, I want something more than just friends but I don't know if that will ever work, so I'm asking for some advice.
2007-11-10 18:28:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be friends with her hun, if she's happy in her marriage, leave it at that. Like you said, you don't want to tear up someone's home, and make her husband feel like he has to fight for his wife. I'm sure you can find someone that is just as good (if not better) than her that isn't married. I think you may be suffering from "I want it because I can't have it" syndrome! Try and focus your affections elsewhere.
2007-11-10 18:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by ~~*Paradise Dreams*~~ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't date a married woman. Just be friends.
2007-11-10 18:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know alot of guys your age...our age, I'm 20 as well. They like older women. I'm not sure why. But if you were this woman's husband (who probably thinks she is as great as you do) how would you feel if this "twirp" was trying to get with your wife? I would back off. Not worth any of the drama.
2007-11-10 19:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's married, and my thoughts are that she's happily married. Keep you're friendship with her.
You don't want a reputation as a home-wrecker.
I know it seems like you like her, but one day, you'll find someone you like, who is happily single =]
2007-11-10 19:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sora Ukata ™ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Please just walk away . You should never get yourself involved with someone who is married ! It really hurts the one who is cheated on and it won't last because if she cheats on him she will cheat on you . Find yourself someone who is not married . There are plenty of women out there who are not married . Go look for one and stay away from the married ones !!
2007-11-10 18:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by Saharwi Wife 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should probably let it go and move on. Even if she isn't happy in her marriage its not a good idea to try to start something it will result in drama and heartache for everyone involved.
2007-11-10 18:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by pgiggles 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she's married.. so get over it
2007-11-10 18:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by tech 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
back off !!!
you know she is married, so why pursue? its the male thing you have going on atm...want what you cant have.
a respected man, if that is what you want to be ..would not SHOW the interest. you may think of it, but not act on it.
however, if you want the typical bad boy ...get what you want, dont care about who you hurt as long as your satisfied routine, go for it.
choice is yours
2007-11-10 18:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Here is my advice........
there is no way to you can hook up with her..
Hello ??? she is married........
2007-11-10 18:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by HAPPY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋