what do i do now?

Question

me and my best friend had a patch up but just as friends.she wants time even to talk.she wants me to msg before i call her.i told her she'l get her space.i was trying to be back to normal but she was saying that she has inborn so much hatred that even my voice can make her angry.we both are sailing in the same boat.even m angry but for the sake that we'l b friends again i am keeping quiet.it was just a fight and we are no more kids so whats the big deal,why cant she forget and move on...

Answer 1

its nt so easy 2 forget someone who is vry close & loved ....u or her may get angry 4 one or the other reason but it dosent mean tht u should nt speak with each other ....even i had the sam problem but still i could nt forget her ......life goes on bt memories leave the pain in tht bloody heart

Answer 2

Its very obvious that she still carries the hurt and not over it so she is not ready to trust you and making you pay by being rude but in a nice way so if you like her so much then both of you sit down and sort out whatever the problem was accept if it was your fault just don't go on blaming each other otherwise there is no use of this patch up tell her you need her friendship and would always be her friend.Al lthe best

Answer 3

sounds like she's hurting , and only time can heal that sort of wound,you can't expect things to get back to normal after a trust has been violated,or after a heart has been broken...give her some time, write her a note of apology and be sincere about it, because some friendships take time to mend... key word is"time."

Answer 4

you've both upset each other and each of you are dealing with it in a different way.

its important to allow each other space to think and feel how you want by yourselves in order to heal.

then this will hopefully allow you both to move on.
maybe you could send a bunch of flowers.