WoW!!! i need some feed back!!?

Question

ok i have had a very good friend for about almost 2 years. she went through some problems with a guy, he was married lied to her, and now when she found out all the dirt, her and his wife are friends and talk all the time. BUT she has them both fooled into thinking that she is pregnant. and has been telling this lie for about 2 months now, she gave them due dates and everything and has both of their myspace passwords and goes onto thier account without them even knowing. at first it was funny, to get back at him(he is in iraq and cant do much), but now she seems to be going kinda psycho with it all. and i saw some of the things she has put on the internet about herself and they are complete lies!!!! i dont know what to think of her anymore!! she was there for me alot and now (without her knowing) i see a whole diff. side of her i full of lies and drama i never seen before. what do i do? im kinda scared she will f*** me over if i be straight with her! i dont know what she is capable of.

she is the vindictive type so anything to not get her to attack!

Answer 1

Your friend has a made a long line of critically bad moves. Now she seems to be trying to turn herself into someone she's not. She lying, and she's not trustworthy.

Much more, this friend is not someone you want to cross. She'll come after you.

You feel that the soldier and his wife deserve to know the truth about the baby. I agree. But if you tell, you'll have to hire a bodyguard.

I know a girl just like this. She will tell lies out her wazoo to make people do what she wants. She completely manipulates huge groups of people at will with her schemes.

I took my son to see his psych, and he told the dr. about this girl and the dr. says she at least has BPD--like multiple personalities only just two, and they haven't split apart. Sounds like your friend.

You noticed that--she was a good friend, and now all the sudden, there's lies, malice, and you're afraid to even talk to her friend to friend. Two personalities in one body.

You need power over this girl so that you can get the truth out and get her out of your life or into a dr's care. That spells parents.

My mom made me tell her about your pregnancy. I'm sorry, I tried to keep it secret. I can't help it if she called the soldier's wife. She said they had to know! I'm so sorry!

I can't help it if my mom suggested to yours that you need to see the dr. I didn't say anything to her about that...she just read one of the e-mails on my screen.

If she makes any moves neg or pos to hurt you, etc., get the guys in charge involved because they are the best people to protect you from this semi-psychotic ex-friend. Always go to the general. Don't fool around with lieutenants. Go see the boss.

TX Mom

Answer 2

You're right, WOW!!! :~)

Since she is A vindictive person, you wouldn't want her to do anything to you. It's A shame you couldn't call her on some of
the lies she is throwing around.

Maybe you could talk w/ the wife and tell her your friend is lying about being pregnant and maybe point out other lies you could call her on, only if U could prove they're lies :~)

Hope everything works out for you :~)

Answer 3

You need to stay away from her and warn the guys wife because that's not right what she is doing to her. bad enough she has to worry about her husband over in Iraq but now she is dealing with his mistresses invisible baby. tell that woman to change her password or convince your friend to tell them the whole truth. i can understand wanting to get revenge but karma is a b*tch and she does come around to collect her dues. she might seem crazy but the people lives shes playing with can be crazier.

Answer 4

Slowly ease yourself away from the relationship. Don't call her anymore or ask her to hang out. Find a new hobby and quick, nothing good is going to come from this situation. I wonder if she is suddenly going to "lose the baby". Either way don't be a part of her game it's wrong.

Answer 5

Go to a physiologist who can help her.