Ladies do you like guys who help around?

Question

Do you like guys who are willing to help around the house such as chores? He has a job and he can help do house work but your gonna have to do some too. I know women nowadays hate house work but its something both husband and wife must contribute together in my opinion. My mom does most of the house work and works but I help around sometimes. My siblings are lazy. My father is a very hard working man and he is stressed out from work which is why my mom understands. So ladies would you like a guy who is willing to help around the house even if you gotta get involved too?

Thanks for reading.

Answer 1

Absolutely; only, I wouldn't want him to go too far with it. Like I wouldn't want him to rearrange the cupboards or closets or move the furniture without my approval. It would be like me tinkering around with his car or truck. You know what I mean. Sweeping, mopping, washing dishes, helping with the kids or pets, picking up stuff, taking out the trash....all of those things are great. Like he probably would appreciate having me vacumn the car and clean the upholstry and dash but not mess under the hood or under the car. Same thing as messing with the closets or cupboards or moving the furniture around. Yikes....oh, one more thing....very important for all the guys to know: Once in awhile it's cute for a man to cook and a nice little change BUT DON'T EVER MAKE A WOMAN FEEL LIKE YOU THINK HER COOKING IS INFERIOR TO YOURS, if you do that she won't love you as much and she will secretly think you're gay.

Answer 2

Yes, having a man who can help out around the house is a major turn-on! A woman taking care of the house is a full time job, and if she has kids to take care of- that just adds onto the work. Men usually don't realize how much the women have to do during the day while they are off at work making money. If the women is also employed, then the housework definately needs done when both the husband and wife come home from making their incomes. Teamwork is the best way to do this! Lazy guys are a BIG TURN OFF. I think it's awesome that you help out around your house for your mom-definately good-hearted of you!

Answer 3

Of course. However, I think there is a basic problem with looking at it as "helping", which implies that it is still the woman's responsibility, and he is being nice by helping her when he doesn't need to. With both husband and wife working outside the home, the two should also share the responsibility for housework and chores. You would never talk about the woman "helping" with the chores, so why do we look at the man's work that way.

Answer 4

Well for me, I don't expect my fiance to help me around the house doing the cooking and cleaning, but it is nice to have help. Like now, we have a 4 month old son and I can use all the help that I can get. He works at a cemetery, digging graves, putting down markers and is tired when he gets home, and there is times that he just tells me to relax and he will do the things that I didn't get to do, b/c I have been taking care of the baby.
I don't think that it is right for a woman who don't work to just sit around on her butt and don't do nothing and the man to come home and have to clean up, fix dinner, and things like that. As far as your siblings are concerned, they need to help your mom out. When children get old enough to start doing chores, they NEED TO HELP OUT!!!

Answer 5

uuh ! YEAH OF COUSE!
there have to be inequalities between a man and a women that will be really helpful though if we are womens it doesn't mean
that we have to do everything at home almost every time
mens doesn't realize that work at home is relly hard and if you have kids thats more work the times had changed but i wouldn't like a man who goes to far though but dont ever make feel a women thst she is only there for housework cause we could have a job to
the housework have to be shared but womens have to understand that mens do a hard work to .

Answer 6

yeah. women can get stressed out easier than men. and to be doing a lot of work and stuff around the house can be hard. just think of it as a woman NEEDs your help. she will think you alot and she would think that you notice the things she does and care about it. things should be 50/50 but things can be hard, atleast try to give 20% help.

im not saying this just as a women but it helps in the end.

Answer 7

Not to be sexist, but I like it when women do all the house work. I am too young to live with girl (18) but I think when I get older I would like to come home from work to a clean house and hang my suit on the coat rack and eat dinner. Call me old fashion, I tend to be very liberal but in this case I think like a conservative pig.

Looking at what all the women posted, it looks like all the women want us to help them. I guess I can't blame them, but if they want us to do half the house work (like I see reading what everyone else is saying) I would expect them to bring home half the pay check as well.

My 2 cents.

Answer 8

Yes. I know what it is like to have dishpan hands and I love a man with dishpan hands. Housework should be shared and most of it done on an "as necessary" basis by the one who has had a chance to rest and has rested most recently so that no one is exhausted and too stressed out to function and relate peacefully.

Answer 9

I think you should help out and it is very good thing to learrn early that a relationship takes giving and taking of an equal 50 /50

Answer 10

Definitely! I agree about both people having to split up the work. My fiance takes out the trash and does the dishes, I cook, clean the bathroom and kitchen, and we split laundry or do it together when we have the chance. You'll be appreciated by the right woman :)