my ex broke up with me and now i have a different girlfriend but now shes acting like she likes me like trying to play games and mess around(not sexually)so what do i do...i was crazy about her)
2007-11-10 19:11:06 · 25 answers · asked by yo moma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well we did stop talkin after we broke up iI stopped talkin to her and she got angry at me for it and just completely drifted from her but after a while(before i got a new gf) she was talkin to me askin how i am tryin to always make conversation so idk wat to think
2007-11-10 19:19:55 · update #1
The thing is she just broke up with me because she needed some time alone but hoped to be back again and i tried talkin to her about it and she ignored it so i moved on and i gets so much more complicated, her friends say she still likes me and idk if i should believe that
2007-11-10 19:26:17 · update #2
i liked my ex a lot and my new gf i just like her but have u guys any advice on how to talk and make things clear with my ex?
2007-11-10 19:31:46 · update #3
she broke up with you?
Act all interesred and ask her to sleep with you, and if she says yes, then say "just kidding damn Biatch!"
2007-11-10 19:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by orlando_beau_pre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand your question correctly the old girlfriend is acting like she wants to be the current girlfriend again, now that you appear to have moved on. If this is right, then what you are experiencing is the time old process of not wanting you but not wanting anyone else to have you. It is the challenge of getting you back, and the ability to let go, even if breaking up was her idea. This is a sad part of human nature. We want what we cant have. If you believe it is not the right person, let her down gently and move on. Do not give her mixed messages either. I would also caution you- if you can consider going back to the ex, then you are not ready for a new girlfriend and leading her on is unfair to her, just as the things your are experiencing from the ex is painful for you. Make a choice based on facts, take a stand and stick with it.
2007-11-11 03:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by puchtakathleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on WHY she broke up with u. if it waz "it just wont work out" then prepare a romantic love letter. Be creative! Surprise her! Pay a skywriter like in the Simpsons! Write a poem or something.Then when she comes 2 talk 2 u about it, u invite her out 2 dinner (the place u went on ur 1st date 2gether or something).
then tell her how u feel & cut 2 the chase (nothing that will be too mushy but it must make her smile ((maybe even get a bit teary)) !)
2007-11-11 03:18:32 · answer #3 · answered by 1 13 25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am presuming when you say she is acting like she likes you again you are refering to your ex????? Maybe she does still like you a bit but only in a way that she does not want you to be happy with somebody else. If you decide you want to be with her then break up with your new gf and have a go but be prepared to be hurt again. Also work out how you really feel about both girls and dont play with either until you can decide which one you want.
2007-11-11 03:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already broke up with the girl, you probably had good reasons for doing so. It all depends on how your relationship has continued. Are you mainly just friends now? Anything with 2 girls is very complicated and I'd suggest not even messing around with your current relationship.
2007-11-11 03:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by falcon_xman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your statement is not very clear, you broke up with one girl, now you have a different girl....but you don't make it clear who exactly is acting like she likes you...do you mean your ex is acting that way? If that is the case, you need to stick to your original decision in breaking up, it is the only fair and honorable thing to do, because now you have a new relationship, and you need to honor that. So, tell your ex to get lost and stay out of your life.
2007-11-11 03:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl that best suits what youre looking for and the needs you have. If shes toying around with your head chances are shes just getting what she wants out of you, OR she could just be testing you to see if youre really in it for love. Youre the only one who can judge that.
If shes not the one, then no worries, just break it off gently by saying that shes wonderful, but you dont think that the two of you are meant to be. Its not her fault, no more than it is yours that the two of you werent written on the scrolls of destiny. Wish her the best of luck and keep looking... shes out there!
2007-11-11 03:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing head games with you. She's getting a buzz from teasing you at the moment and as soon as she gets you she'll toss you aside because the thrills gone.
She strikes me as a person of low self-esteem that's using your affections to boost her opinion of herself. Don't get into this trap of hers because you'll be the only loser here.
Your current girlfriend should be special enough in her own right to fill the void this schemer left in you. Stay with your current girlfriend. No good can come from pain.
2007-11-11 03:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by Alice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off contact for her. I mean, no offense but after a break up if you can't let go of someone then you shouldn't have dumped them in the first place.
I'm guessing that you two didn't stop talking after the break up, so don't expect her to react too well when you're with someone else.
2007-11-11 03:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with your ex, and present girlfriend, if you still have feelings for your ex, get out of the current relationship. Deal with old baggage before you move on, it is only fair to all involved, including yourself.
2007-11-11 03:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by Gabby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.. how are we supposed to help you with this? Be responsible and either stop what she's doing, or break up with your current girlfriend. If your ex is doing this stuff to you, she's pretty scummy, and you'll probably be the same if you go after her. Be honest.
2007-11-11 03:14:36 · answer #11 · answered by areyze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋