Family & Relationships - 10 November 2007

for the past 2 months i've been severely stressed out with school and home and i sort of feel depressed it's said that my uncle and grandpa take zoloft, but back to the 2 months i'am constantly been yelled at at home and barley get anything in school and i don't know how much more i can take before i actually run away cuz im not gonna kill myself or go emo i just need to get away, and right now my gf the only thing keeping me going, so thats y I'm staying cuz i can't live without her.

2007-11-10 12:27:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My dad seems to think that now i'm 13 i don't want to hang around him coz i want to be cool. But thats not true i know i'm not cool or popular and i'm a loving person, but thats not what dad thinks. i only get to see him on mondays and weekends but mondays he's working and weekends a have to look after my half brother or dads spending time with his girlfriend who his the mother of my half brother so i rarley see him. we used to go go-karting together just him and me but now my alf bro is 10 he spends more time with him coz his aloud to race now. he buys more things for my bro he spends more time with my bro amd i sometimes thinks he eveen wants to see more of my bro than me. I need your help. There is only 1 thing i'm thinking of doing and thats prettending to look at questions when i'm at his house and suposebly come accross this 1 the one i'm writing and he will relise how much i actually do love him. well hope someone can help me.Sorry if there are any spelling mistakes i cant spell

2007-11-10 12:27:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-10 12:27:02 · 13 answers · asked by JustWondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The guy is in his late 30's and has not had sex since at least 2002.

2007-11-10 12:25:47 · 49 answers · asked by craig_snow2000 1 in Singles & Dating

WOULD YOU RATHER HAVE: #1- a man that you had tied around your pinky, wanted to be with you all the time, was deeply in love with you, was at your beck and call, wouldn't cheat on you, was jealous, didn't have much of a backbone to stand his ground, but would do anything for you...... OR #2- a man who offerered you a challenge, loved you and treated you with respect, one that you wondered if he'd cheat on you or not, one who kept you on your toes who wasn't always predictable, and one who had his own life and occassionally wanted his own time to do things...

2007-11-10 12:24:51 · 11 answers · asked by Shelber 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-10 12:22:56 · 13 answers · asked by drip_drop 1 in Singles & Dating

Or do u think that guys should just tell the girl they like her and deal with the girls answer? should they risk it? why?

2007-11-10 12:22:39 · 1 answers · asked by sweetnancy602 1 in Singles & Dating

We have three children 4, 8 and 10 years old. I understand that in order to keep my children with me I have to show some reason to divorce judge. I have the reason - my wife is drinking. The question is how to document her drinking. Should I contact local police station when she comes home drunk? Or neighbors? How to do it right to present in court?

2007-11-10 12:21:26 · 9 answers · asked by OlegB 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-10 12:20:42 · 19 answers · asked by Alexa 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a fairly attractive 63 year old woman , divorced for 18 months now and want to know of places to go to meet men and make friends. Im very shy, and wont go anywhere alone. i dont even have women friends i can go out with. My son occasionally takes me out for a drink or to bingo, but i want to be able to do things on my own. anyone out there with similar experiences? i just want a life....

2007-11-10 12:18:02 · 5 answers · asked by Fran M 2 in Singles & Dating

ive actually seen grown men do this too.

2007-11-10 12:17:02 · 15 answers · asked by Hi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this crush and he knows now i smile at him every day but i don't know if he likes me back and i want a different look any ideas i have blond hair blue eyes he has blue eyes blond hair and my friends say he is ugly but hes really really cute and now they tease me should i dump them?

2007-11-10 12:16:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He says it is because he feels fat and unattractive. Don't men want it not matter what? I mean I present myself well. I am attractive. I have other men who think my husband is an idiot. Although, they do not know why he doesn't want to do it. My husband says for me to make the first move. I get my thong on and wear a sexy top with no bra when we go to bed and I message him. Still nothing. Help!

2007-11-10 12:14:21 · 30 answers · asked by N8TIVEHUNNIE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My 5 year old step son told me that his daddy stayed the night with him and slept in the bed with his mommy. Is this fantasy/wishful thinking or do kids just not make up stuff like this?

2007-11-10 12:13:32 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 8 years and have 2 kids. My husband is a functional, binge drinking, alcoholic. For 3 years I have told him I have not been happy with the marriage and we need to seek counseling. I did so on my own for three years. I feel like my husband has been a teenage son rather that a spouse and I am burnt out. I think he may be bipolar also. Mood swings and depression. He currently is not drinking, (that I know of) and says he will not drink anymore. I finally decided after the past 3 years that I do want to separate and NOW he wants to go to counseling. He says he knows he has issues but he says I do too. After 3 years I have come to terms that this marriage is over and I am ready to move on. He is ready to try, I think a bit too late. He is saying that some of the way he is is because of me. Now I am feeling wishy-washy and 2nd guessing my decision! Thoughts anyone...

2007-11-10 12:10:46 · 10 answers · asked by Q T pie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 51 next week and have been cancer free for 7 years. I have wanted a pink ribbon tattooed by my ankle (about 1" tall). I have wanted this for the past four years and have not changed my mind. My husband is against it, he doesn't like tattoos (we have been married 29 years). How can I help him to understand this tattoo is my "badge of honor". He said maybe one time, and he suggested it be put where it doesn't show.....I want it to show!! Any suggestions?

2007-11-10 12:07:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im fed up!me nd my mom have been fighting so much lately nd iv tried talking to her and nothing seems to be working.I don't know what to do.I js feel lyk I want to give up nd go live with my dad(he lives in illinnois and I currently live with my mom in florida)she used to tell me how things would get better and we would move out of my aunts house just me and her and we would get our own place and things would getter better.and one day when she wuz in florida visiting her then bf they broke up nd she met someone new and they got married and she came back and about 3.4 months later she made us move to florida away from our family and friends.I got so mad because he had no family here in florida either so I thought wouldn't it have just been easier for him to move up there.and about a few months ago my brother moved down here with us nd me and him don't get along nd we haven't lived together since I was 6 and he was about 14.and that was almost 7 years ago.and now she wants us to be all nice.and my mom totally ignores me.I ask if we can go somewhere and she says no,he asks and she automatically says yes.I sick of having to go thru this fighiting.how should I handle this?or even better yet what should I do?

2007-11-10 12:07:09 · 2 answers · asked by w0wii 1 in Family

I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 years!!! we have always been very close, we're each others best friends!!Lately I've noticed we dont really hang out without each other!!! we are always together....everyday!!! Sometimes you just need to be away from your boyfriend and hang out with just your friends...right??ok well he's been getting jealous of me hanging out alot and its really starting to bother me!!! He complains that hes always working and Im out having my fun, I live with my parents, he dosent support me, but he does pay when we go out....but I dont think that he should be throwing something likr that to my face!!! I just feel like he's being too controling =/ I should be able to do wut I want, my parents arent even controlling as much as he tries to be!! I hate it.....wut can I do to stop it!!! I think hes insecure....but he shouldnt, Im not intrested in anyone. I just wanna hang out with my friends!!!! he dosent understand...... I

2007-11-10 12:03:12 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In Bush's own words (or perhaps the words of his speach writers), the war against terrorism is really a war of "Hearts & Minds".

The way the Iraq war is being conducted (by the generals) is actually playing into the hands of the Islamic fundamentalists.

We are using White Phosphorous "Whisky Pete" because it makes the Army generals job easier, but it tarnishes our image in the eyes of the world.

We are repeating the same political & moral mistakes we made in Vietnam....

We are sophisticated enough to fight the insurgents by not having to inflict indiscriminate mass incineration on Iraqi civilians,...we are trusting our generals too much, and they are letting us down.

In this video, it shows testimony from former US Marines, and a British member of Parliment (22:15), that we are using methods outside of the Geneva Convention.

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-3826487796319021454

Question:

How can we make our generals do their job in ways that are less convenient for them, but still preserve our moral standing?

2007-11-10 12:02:57 · 2 answers · asked by American Dreamer 1 in Family

i am 18 years old

2007-11-10 12:01:25 · 12 answers · asked by bla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm black myself but my friend wanted me to ask a question on yahoo .


I notice alot of black and latinos have very nice figures.

their figures are like that hour glass shaped, everything correct everything in the right place blacks and latinos legs tend to be longer, butts bigger, have smaller waists,etc.

even when they are fat they breast tends to be bigger and their butts larger when they are skinny they still have curves (you know like jessica alba but with a booty and breast)

yeah there are a few black american women who don't have this body type but i recently went to Nigeria and EVERY woman there had a nice body like omg

anyways my real question is why do alot men prefer woman who have "the hour glass figure"? is there any other man out there who likes flat chested girls or girls with short stocky legs?

and why do black and latino women have such nice curves!"

I asked this question bf but the answers weren't the one's i was looking for. plz give me educated ones

2007-11-10 12:01:07 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when the other person just wants to spend all my money. I work alot and make barely enough for bills. and all she wants to do is acuse me of lie about money and that i try to mess her life up every day. when I am off for 2 days she yells at me and says you dont support the family. when she doesnt work. I am at my last nerve. and about to take my daughter and leave legally

2007-11-10 12:00:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-10 12:00:07 · 10 answers · asked by Nikki aka nicky 2 in Family

My wife and I have been married a little more than a year, but have been sleeping in seperate rooms since April (per her request for space). I have never cheated, lied, abused her or lacked in responsibilities and yet she treats me horribly. Her reason is that "she has no feelings for me". We are both Christians and went through Christian counseling prior to being married. Once we had problems we went back to the counselor who encouraged us to increase our relationship with God. I did so, she did not. In fact she refuses to go to church with me and spends every weekend with her family. I consider divorcing her almost everyday. I have not had sex, a home cooked meal, a hug, a kiss or a kind word since April. I work long hours and this marriage is taking its toll. Any advice from a Christian perspective as to how I can better deal with this situation. I do not believe divorce is an option, but some days I wish she would give me the papers and I would definately sign. thanks

2007-11-10 11:56:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-10 11:55:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so there is this guy i REALLY like... and sometimes are eyes meet.... One time i was talking to my friend .. All of a sudden i hear him go "wait what happened".... After that are eyes kept meeting... I want him to notice me before he gets a girlfriend! HELP ME!!!!

2007-11-10 11:49:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have a 2 year old together and he has a 3 and 5 year old with his ex girlfriend. My concern is not for my son as he has always seen mommy and daddy together. However I am concerned for my step children. They have a basic idea that I am daddy's girlfriend but how do we explain that we are now married (4 days ago). Sometimes the 5 year old asks why doesnt daddy live at his mommy's house. i mean how do we explain to a 5 year old that his parents are not together nor will they ever be together again and daddy is now married to me and what that means?

2007-11-10 11:47:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 18 years old, and go to college. My parents are divorced, both side remarry. I live with my mom and my stepdad. They have been married one and half years. They want to have a baby. My mom is almost 44 years old and is hard to conceive. However, i keep on worrying, and I DON"T want them to have a baby. i keep on complaining in front of my mom, and my mom says i am being very selfish. That i shoud give out more love instead of demanding for more. Because maybe i don't want them to have a baby because i feel i'd be the outside. I am an only child. So is she right?

2007-11-10 11:47:07 · 12 answers · asked by ginger_spic 1 in Family

It seems like she goes through phases where all she wants to do is be physical but then she never wants to, i don't know how to change my moods when she changes.

2007-11-10 11:44:41 · 10 answers · asked by K1LLA B33 1 in Singles & Dating

My 18 year old FEMALE cousin is dating a 15 year old girl in high school. Am I the only one that finds something wrong with this? The girl she's dating wants to keep it a secret and my cousin told the entire family about it. I met her girlfried and observed how they act together. They both behave like 12 year olds when they're together and run around the house chasing each other. I have no problem with my cousin being a lesbian but she's dating a child! And my cousin claims that they're going to be together forever and get married and blah blah blah...and they've been together for four months. Everytime I try to talk to my cousin about this she says, "You're just jealous." I have to seriously control myself from saying, "JEALOUS!? You're embarrassing me by bringing her over here and you're behaving like a CHILD!" What can I do to mak her grow the hell up? She's living in this fantasy world and acting extremely immature.

2007-11-10 11:44:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family