when the other person just wants to spend all my money. I work alot and make barely enough for bills. and all she wants to do is acuse me of lie about money and that i try to mess her life up every day. when I am off for 2 days she yells at me and says you dont support the family. when she doesnt work. I am at my last nerve. and about to take my daughter and leave legally
2007-11-10 12:00:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Put ALL your money into a private account and YOU handle the bills.Do NOT give her access to it for 2 months and tell her your going to do this.Tell her she will have an allowance to blow.
Keep records of everything deposited and what it is spent on.
Tell her if that doesnt suit her you and your kid are out of there.
Make sure if she tries to get custody that you explain you can "PROVIDE" a BETTER life for your kid that the mother doesnt work a job.
Also explain you dont want child support from her this saves the courts money and they will probably side with you.
2007-11-10 12:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that she doesnt need to yell at you. If she helped just a little more with bills then you wouldnt mind lettin her blow some money. She doesnt make any currently and she needs to realize that your the ONLY ONE supporting the family. Get your own bank account and spend only what the bills call for. She will want money but dont give in. If not then do whats best for you and your daughter. Tell your wife that you are going to have no choice but to leave if she doesnt stop blowing the little bit of extra cash you have and doesnt start helping with bills.
2007-11-10 12:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by Randa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should leave. Sounds like she doesn't appreciate what you do. But then again are you just working all the time and not spending time with your family?, cause that's just as important. Not to mention if YOU plan family activities, you can budget for the day and she feels like you've spent time and money on her.
2007-11-10 12:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by Honestly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that in to days world both parents need to work to pay the bills...unless you have a very good income. I agree with the first answer, get your own account, take care of business...if she can't help herself to help the family...who knows...pray a lot. If we had a baby, I would do anything to support the child and my family.
2007-11-10 12:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we dk how much you pay for rent but that yelling sucks when she isnt working to help.. is there a mom to watch the baby if she works like say part time? consider that...tell her to calm down
2007-11-10 12:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like you said take your kids and leave
2007-11-10 12:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by out of control 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋