Family & Relationships - 10 November 2007

Why is it that ppl think its ok to have sex before marrige(if u belive in the god)?

2007-11-10 14:26:19 · 3 answers · asked by sarah m 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, my name is Chen (pronounce Wen)....and I've been feeling kinda depressed.....I miss my complete Best Friend, knowing she wudnt be getting married...you see?

i miss my ex gf, Lauren, a lot, you could see the whole story of how we got together in my other questions....it's been quite a few months and I miss her....apparently I found out she had an arranged marriage by her family...I mean, she's still not married yet tho...but......can I still get her to be my gf? I miss the laughs, picking on her, and having her always come over to my house everyday and watching our favorite azn dramas together, and how we use to play songs onto piano from the dramas, and many more factors....any help?

I remember how her family canceled the arranged marriage after she talked to them a few months ago, but then, they changed their minds later and that's how we broke up...I hate this feeling sooo much...Help plz? How can I get a lost heart back? or How can I get over being confused..all the tyme?

2007-11-10 14:23:00 · 5 answers · asked by Chen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we ar dating but the catch is that i shouldn't be. My parents won't allow me to but I am anyways. Secretly. I want to tell my parents cuz I feel bad lying to them. But I don't want to tell them cuz I love him so much! And he isn't the "usual" boyfriend that I go out with and break up with a few days later. Someon help me please

2007-11-10 14:21:28 · 9 answers · asked by Emmybug! 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my sis's wedding is in July and I'm not using protection right now. I was wondering which type of dress I should be thinking to get. She wants to order the dresses in December. Should I ask if she will let me wait to order my dress until a few months before the wedding just so I know which one to get or what else would you recommend doing?

2007-11-10 14:20:39 · 9 answers · asked by Dani Marie 4 in Weddings

would everything be segregrated? like what?

2007-11-10 14:20:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay my boyfriend asked me if i wanted to kiss him and i said idk but i do i dont no how to. im not prude but everyone thinks that im just scared a little cause i dont wanna do it wrong please help!

2007-11-10 14:20:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i have been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs. and lately he gets on my nerves and acts like an ***. i dont want to throw our relationship away, but i dont know what to do. He's like my comfort zone

2007-11-10 14:19:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-10 14:18:49 · 2 answers · asked by Rinaldi 1 in Singles & Dating

i am going out with a guy named davon...i broke up with him once because we never acted like a couple.we acted like friends. i got back with him we are 9th graders and he don't even talk to me much or anything i think he was checking out cheerleadrsand afterlunch a guy called me a name and davon didn't even back me up then i heard him say yeah i forgot we were going out too. and then i said how aboput i make it easier for you and he asked how and i said how about we not be together and then he said why you don't want to date me anymore (in a regular voice) then i said yeah i do still want to date you...do you?then he said i don't know...then i repaeted what he said but in a shocking voice and he said i don't know again then i got pissed off and went to class without giving him a hug because i was mad because a boyfriend don't tell them i don't know there suppose to ssay no... so when i go to school on tuesday i am dumping him...we don't do anything and it's bugging me.

2007-11-10 14:18:32 · 7 answers · asked by Shimmi 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl alot in my head, my ex, i thought i would go crazy if i saw her with another guy, but i didnt feel anything when i did, is that weird?

2007-11-10 14:18:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like what does it mean? also during sex in more cushinf for the pushin do the boys like pushin the girls *** or something or do they just slap it? i've never had more cushin for the pushin bc i'm skinny.. also can i see pics..lol

2007-11-10 14:17:44 · 6 answers · asked by xXMILEYXx 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like to know how old you think you should be before you have sex?

2007-11-10 14:17:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl
shes really cute
she told me she used to like me but then someone said something about me and she stopped
i am friends with her friends
i asked her to dance at a school dance and we did for about 5 seconds but after i was told by her friend that it was because she felt bad for me
im in seventh grade and so is she
please dont tell me im too young to date since IM NOT!!
i want to ask her to be my girlfriend not out on a date just because thats how it works in our school
i have been told by her friends that if i ask her she will probobly say yes but this friend is not the most reliable
asking a girl to be your gf and not on a date is just how it works in my school
please help

2007-11-10 14:16:51 · 37 answers · asked by joeyjjoeyj 1 in Singles & Dating

I HAVE 3 YOUNG KIDS AND I WILL BE LEAVING ONCE SCHOOL IS OUT FOR THE SUMMER. HE WILL NOT LEAVE THE HOUSE SO I HAVE TO. CAN YOU LEGALLY SEPARATE IN FLORIDA? HOW LONG IS THE DIVORCE PROCESS? ANY ADVICE WITH CUSTODY ISSUES (HE DOESN'T DO MUCH WITH THE KIDS BUT I WORRY BECAUSE I WANT FULL CUSTODY). ANY ADVICE WILL BE GREAT.

2007-11-10 14:15:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what would you do if you knew your mom only had a short time to live, mine is only 48 yrs old and has so many illnesses and her time is getting short, i dont think i will be able to handle it, i will have to burry her. ive known bout htis for 1 yr now andtime is moving so fast but there is no deffinate time but the doc says could be today or a year from now.

2007-11-10 14:14:26 · 11 answers · asked by deliah182003 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you had to do it all again with all the drama from dealing with the ex and kids that are not your own, would you? (honestly)

2007-11-10 14:11:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

yes i use to dance and absolutely hated it but i lived on my own and the money was great . until finally 2 years ago i quit since i couldnt take the sick creepy men anymore and got a fantastic job while still finishing up school.

Well i recently met an amzing guy and am soo ashamed of what i did. Do i need to tell him what i did? Its funny cuz the subject came up.. like on tv was a girl dancer... and i was like.. ohh i should do that.... and he was like did you??? and he seemed really concerned as if he would never want me to do that and i was like.. nooooo im just kidding.... - so can I take this shameful secret with me to the grave or does he have the right to know???

2007-11-10 14:11:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i am scared of becoming emo or sutting my self. my parents get me so mad then when i get even madder i get a oencle and start cutting my self with a pencel. I dont mean to but i cant help my selp i am really scared even thought it dosent even bleed i am scared that in the furtre that i will make my self bleed plese help and i dont want to tell my parents cuz they could careless. the resaons i start cutting my self is that somethimes my dad will get so mad at me and then he will break stuff....like my ipod and once he brke my phone and dresser and my tv and made me pay for all of the repacements 600 dollars for stuff he did. Some times i also fell like running away one time i did get out of the house but then when i was a mile away i turned back cuz i was soo scared. Plese help

2007-11-10 14:10:56 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i broke up with my boyfriend cause he never had time to talk to me, he was always busy, as he said. also, we'd always get into stupid fights-i'd always get mad at him cause he talked about all his girl friends, which ones were hot, and smart, and funny, etc. i got jealous and asked him many times to stop but he didnt. now were not talking and i feel really bad, cause when i dumped him, i asked "if i dump you will you still be my friend?" and he said yes, so i did. but now whenever i see him he ignores me, til i say hi first, and evn then he barely looks at me. and he flirts with other girls in my presence to rub it in.
was i wrong to be mad?
does he even care that we broke up?

2007-11-10 14:09:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So you hear all the girls here say they want a guy who's funny, sweet and sensitive. But when they do meet a guy like that, they get along great and she automatically puts him in the friends zone and go for a "bad guy". What is your logic?

2007-11-10 14:08:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...when developements in a relationship happens quickly and
YOU'RE having fun and we just want to stay together always...

2007-11-10 14:07:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you remember that guy that had the TV show called Mr.Rogers? i heard he was a marine sniper and he always had long sleeves on becuz he had both his arms fully tattooed. is this true?

2007-11-10 14:06:01 · 8 answers · asked by keith m 2 in Singles & Dating

im so tired of all that love stuff! its all just so hard. once i read it that all people just want to be loved and love someone if so why is it so hard to find love? im 14 and to think that i have so many more years to find that special guy is horefing. i know i should be just haveing fun but the truth is i can still get hert and all that stuff and have and lets admit if someone is going to put focus on ur school work well im not going to listen cause i can do both.

2007-11-10 14:04:32 · 12 answers · asked by lalcutiepie 1 in Singles & Dating

I jump everytime my patient asks me for anything and I usually voluteer...and also I usually can anticipate what he needs before he asks....so why is he so crude to me and sometimes rolls his eyes at me....I am doing EVERYTHING I can do....

btw he is a quadraplegic from an accident and not from a birth defect.

2007-11-10 14:04:25 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

a girl is dating a man (15 years older) for 4 months. She used to be involved with a married man and found after 2 years that he was a serial adulterer and predator, so she lost trust for men. she wanted to tell him about the past in order to explain why she canoot totally relax and trust and enjoy their relationship and broke up with him. he, who said they could be friends, totally disappeared after she told him the story. is it too much for him? is he judging her? should she have told him at all? how do men react to such a past of their girlfriends?

2007-11-10 14:03:52 · 5 answers · asked by noodles 1 in Singles & Dating

My crush is usually very friendly with me. He usually talks to me and he'll smile or laugh if I laugh at one of his jokes. But lately, he's starting to act shy around me. He hardly talks in class, and he used to be a huge chatterbox. But no matter what, he looks at me practically every time I pass him in the hallways. I don't know what happened. I think he might have stopped talking to me because our seats were moved in our only mutual class, and we used to sit together. I think he's not talking to me because he's not interested in me. What do you think? Please answer. Thanks.

2007-11-10 14:01:54 · 3 answers · asked by ♥Erin has a crush on Brandon♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

okay, so i just got this new boyfriend. well, he was my best friends homcoming date, but she said it was okay if i dated him. well, we've been going out for aocuple days now, and i was wondering when we should kiss. i know its kinda weired to ask and all, but i need to know if i should or if her and stuff like that.

WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-11-10 14:01:22 · 10 answers · asked by Myseriuse A 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend and i r almost the same person and i think she likes me but if i ask her out and she says no will she still want to be my friend? by the way, we r both 13 and in 8th grade

2007-11-10 13:59:54 · 8 answers · asked by baseball_champ13 1 in Singles & Dating

my friends ex is asking her to be friends with benefits now. i dont agree with this. but i cant make her change her mind about saying yes. what can i do to make her understand??

2007-11-10 13:59:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

everytime I go clubbin, girls never approach me or introduce themselves. I'm really good lookin, I have a nice body. 5'10, black hair, tan skin, blue eyes. Whats going on here? How do you meet a girl???

2007-11-10 13:58:44 · 12 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Singles & Dating