im so tired of all that love stuff! its all just so hard. once i read it that all people just want to be loved and love someone if so why is it so hard to find love? im 14 and to think that i have so many more years to find that special guy is horefing. i know i should be just haveing fun but the truth is i can still get hert and all that stuff and have and lets admit if someone is going to put focus on ur school work well im not going to listen cause i can do both.
2007-11-10 14:04:32 · 12 answers · asked by lalcutiepie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you only hate love because you can't find the perfect guy. like you said, u have more time in the future to find him! and just do school for now! and then later on, you'll meet your dream guy and love won't hurt anymore...and love would be the greatest thing in your life.!
2007-11-10 14:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by <3 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ah, yes. Love. Not everyone is going to find that special someone so young in life. Sad to say, but it's true. We've all pretty much been there, done that. Love can be wonderful when we have it, but when we don't, we tend to frown down upon it or "hate" anyone who's "in love." I hear you. I feel your pain. I know it's difficult to see it when you're going through it, but all those "bad" relationships that we had in the past and getting hurt by those we thought cared about us really help us to grow, not only in love but in life as well. Just remember that things happen for a reason. We might not always understand the reason(s) at the moment, but when we look back over things, it starts to make more sense. Trust me, when you get older you will know what I mean.
And when you're a loving, caring, nurturing type of person (like I am) and you can't seem to find anyone special (or the "special person" you like doesn't like you back), it makes you feel, and I'll be honest, like crap! You think, "why me?! what did I do to deserve this?!" And it's completely natural and normal to feel this way. Thing is, if these guys are hurting you for whatever reason, in whatever way they are hurting you.. truth is you don't deserve that. Rather, you deserve much better. You deserve a guy to treat you like a princess and worship the ground you walk on, desire to do any- and everything for you.
I wish you the best in finding that special someone. You might find him tomorrow, you might find him five years from now - but fact of the matter is everything GOOD is worth waiting for. Don't allow the past bad relationships and experiences to deter you from future relationships, because you could be passing up your true love. Just learn from your "mistakes," don't let them tear you down.
Good luck =]
2007-11-10 14:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by iammai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know. Love is a very different thing. I'm 12 and people my age ( or even 11) start going out and end up in the bathroom crying for 2 hours becuz their bf or gf just broke up with them. i'ts really weird how people start going out when they are 10 or 11. I like a guy but i have never gone out with anyone. So, i kind of agree but love can also be very powerful.
2007-11-10 14:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by dancegirly1995 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it extremely is extra sturdy, loving human beings whom you don't like, or loving those who do compared to you? maximum individuals must be hard pressed to respond to that, yet we are oftentimes talked about as on to do those very issues. How sensible, how all the way down to earth is the note of God! It bargains with themes proper the position we stay. This very week you're talked about as on to love someone you don't like, or love someone who does compared to you.
2016-10-24 00:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you mean. I used to hate love as well.
I think I hated it the most because all my friends had boyfriends and were ALWAYS talking about what they were doing with their boyfriends and stuff. How happy they were, and their plans for the weekend and things. The funny thing was that I had a boyfriend and we broke up. I always hated talking to all of them and hated love because they had what I lost.
2007-11-10 14:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young still you got years to figure out what real love is til than dont worry about it and have fun.
When i was 14 i was confused about love even though i had a bf that said he loved me all the time and he was 15 but i dumped him to figure it all out and 3 years later i figured out wow i love him so i think it might take a while to figure out what real love is so just dont worry it'll come to you
2007-11-10 14:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by Rayray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll find someone in the future.. don't rush love.
be a kid, have fun... hang out with guys, find what they like.
I HATE everyone who thinks you have to be a old fcker to know what real love is.
people who say that obviously never grew up
2007-11-10 14:13:24 · answer #7 · answered by Quinn W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14. You know nothing about what real love is. Quit worrying about it.
2007-11-10 14:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chick dont give up yet soon that special some one will come into your life and make your heart melt.he mit be in your math class how knows!! you will find that person
2007-11-10 14:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by marilyn s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno i hate love to!!! I want to boycott against all that peace and love trash!!! Make peace, help the world,Why???? So u can get screwed over !
2007-11-10 14:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by reeseepiecie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋