everytime I go clubbin, girls never approach me or introduce themselves. I'm really good lookin, I have a nice body. 5'10, black hair, tan skin, blue eyes. Whats going on here? How do you meet a girl???
2007-11-10 13:58:44 · 12 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they are afraid you will say no. There is something about your posture and mannerism that is sending a message that you are unapproachable. Try to relax more, look around for girls who are looking at you then smile at them and wave them over to you!
2007-11-10 14:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by Buddie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This may sound old fashioned but why don't you approach the girls?
People are so funny to me. They all go out to a club to meet people and then sit there with their friends and appear to have a good time and act like they do not notice that other people are in the room.
That kind of reminds me of when I was going out with a bunch of friends we would drink so much it was ridiculous and then we all pretended we were sober. It was like lets get plowed and see who can act the straightest.
ahh back to dating. If you scan the room you may notice someone looking back. This could be your invitation. Lets face it it is not easy to approach a stranger but you have to have a plan. If your interested give a gal a wink. Or send her a drink or go to her table and see who she is with. If it is just a couple of gals ask if they mind if you join them. When a good song comes up.. there ya go. If your really shy write this down on a piece of paper. isleofview. show it to a girl ask her to read it out loud. Then ask her to read it faster. Before you know it she will be saying iloveyou. Have fun.
2007-11-10 14:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by Linda S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women don't like talking to guys at the club because most of the guys at the club are always trying to talk to every girl in there.
2007-11-10 14:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by sexychocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's your body language. Your body language says a lot about you/ You may present yourself unapproachable. And many girls wait for guys to approach them. I do. Maybe you should start mingling and introducing yourself to them.
2007-11-10 14:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most girls aren't that forward , you have to pay attention to the ones that walk by you a hundred times or stand near you , that is your cue to strat a conversation.....
2007-11-10 14:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't expect girls to approch you, make the first step. remember you are not the only good looking guy in the club, besides, it's more about attitude sometimes. just be cool!
2007-11-10 14:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mex d'or 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol Well maybe you should introduce your self to them. Or your not as attractive as your stating.
2007-11-10 14:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why aren't you going over and introducing yourself to them?
2007-11-10 14:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When people say you're a 9...that's out of a hundred.
2007-11-10 14:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your full of yourself. Maybe you act like that too!
2007-11-10 14:02:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋