i broke up with my boyfriend cause he never had time to talk to me, he was always busy, as he said. also, we'd always get into stupid fights-i'd always get mad at him cause he talked about all his girl friends, which ones were hot, and smart, and funny, etc. i got jealous and asked him many times to stop but he didnt. now were not talking and i feel really bad, cause when i dumped him, i asked "if i dump you will you still be my friend?" and he said yes, so i did. but now whenever i see him he ignores me, til i say hi first, and evn then he barely looks at me. and he flirts with other girls in my presence to rub it in.
was i wrong to be mad?
does he even care that we broke up?
2007-11-10 14:09:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he acted like a boy friend in other areas like he told me i was beautiful and that he loved me and stuff.
i feel like it was all a bunch of lies he said to keep me happy.
hed always say "youre the only girl i love you know that right?" after a while i didnt believe ti and told him once, since he always talks about other girls. then he got all offended and didnt answer my texts for a few days.
2007-11-10 14:17:41 · update #1
im so mad at him, i wanna get back at him.. in his skool rumors spread fast i wanna say something about him..is it wrong for wantin revenge?
or should i just leave it and pray to Gd he getts what he deserves
2007-11-10 14:20:05 · update #2
i cant even go back to him now, cause i think he likes another girl, i think he liked ehr from the 3rd week we were together cause thats when he began not having time for me.
2007-11-10 14:22:12 · update #3
you know what it sounds like? jelousy.
this has happened to me before, when your boyfriend or the guy you like talks about all these other girls. i found out he just did that to make me feel jelouse to make him sound hes to good for you. you should NOT feel bad about this.
if he doesnt look at you and flirts with other girls, it still looks like hes trying to make you jelouse, he probably isnt all over you yet. so yes, he does care that you guys broke up.
you have two choices to do
1. play along and flirt with other guys infront of him, but only do that if you still have feelings for him
or
2. give him time to cool down and just make time to talk to him, it will end of working like a charm.
and in that case, if you still have feelings for him, kiss him, to show him you were wrong to break up with him.
2007-11-10 14:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by Myseriuse A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever heard the term " People can only treat you badly if you let them"? Well that statement was made for a reason. When you stick around even after you have asked someone to stop a behavior and they continue then that is letting someone disrespect you as a person. I tell my niece all the time if someone is doing something you don't like don't tattle on them just choose not to be around them.
You were well within your right to dump him as you said. He was not treating you with respect and is still being petty.
Quite trying to be his friend and go and be right you were right to break up with him and you were right he was not doing what he should have so quite doubting yourself and move on. Quite saying hello to him because when you do say hello you are sending him the message its ok to treat me with disrespect.
So Quite it go about your life and move on. There is a perfectly nice boy around the corner. This one might even grow up if you stand up for what you believe in.
Good Luck!
2007-11-10 22:21:13 · answer #2 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. He doesn't care. He has a life. He had one before you and he has one after you.
2. Friends after a break up only works out about 5% of the time. Just move on. You dumped him.
2007-11-10 22:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He cares and was hurt and that is why he is rubbing it in. You were right to break up with him as he did not respect you enough to quit throwing other girls in your face when you asked him to stop. You deserve better than him. He is immature and doesn't sound like he is going to grow up anytime soon.
2007-11-10 22:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by firemouse23 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently not!!!! U did the right thing, now ur open to find someone who really cares about......... No big loss, now it's time to turn the tables.
2007-11-10 22:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by pokvet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u remind me of my friend, seriously just let him be he was a idiot for braggin my ex did the same then he got mad at me for dumpin him o well dont go bak 2 him unless u got sum stories likehot guys
2007-11-10 22:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by pimp132 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, he sounds like a typical teenage boy.
2007-11-10 22:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by Chow Doctor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes a f*ckin jerk!! why the hell are u paying any attention to him? he obviously doesnt care about u so dump the bastered and move on!!
2007-11-10 22:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by Because I'm Kool 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he was wrong, he should only talk about you and be there there are many other guys out there
2007-11-10 22:13:20 · answer #9 · answered by galalm1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no he sounds like a jerk. you deserve better. find someone who will treat you right.
2007-11-10 22:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by Shifty_Pink 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋