Family & Relationships - 10 November 2007

Hi, well, I have some best friends, but I sometimes feel like they're not someone I want to call my best friends. Most of the time, i just feel like I just want to be myself and keep a secret to myself, and not tell it to them..

my Best friend...We like differ on like 90% of things you could ever imagine! I never tell secrets to them.. only God knows what secrets I have! ha ha!!
they're true, not plastic.. but I feel like sometimes,

the only ones I can trust in this world is ...myself.. I'm scared! ha ha! no!!

do you guys feel this way? like you just wanna listen to "Welcome to my Life" by simple Life, or Perfect?

2007-11-10 17:25:23 · 29 answers · asked by Cholorophyll 3 in Friends

want to know if anyone who has been in jail and witnessed people cheating on their girlfriends/wives with CO's or other staff members. is it possible for this to happen?

2007-11-10 17:20:03 · 13 answers · asked by Rozie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I do photography for a side business- weddings and such. I just shot a friend of a friend's wedding today. Cut him an awesome deal on a last minute wedding with a mail order bride. He did not pay me (I am usually paid prior to the start). The entire family was incredibly rude. I was pretty much hired by my friend- do I deal with him or the groom? I will not give him the photos until payment is paid in full. Thanks!

2007-11-10 17:18:50 · 7 answers · asked by annie78 3 in Weddings

he has visitation every weekend, usually he makes it but drops them off at his house and then goes on service calls all weekend. the kids see there dad if they go to work with him. my son wears contacts and his father hides them and only gives him one pair every 5th week. thats the norm for perfect conditions. well my son is an active 16 year old that, now, doesnt even want to go to dads, and several times has had to go several days without his contacts, if their riped or dirty, because mr. power trip is in control of his sons eyes. this is just one of many incidents.

2007-11-10 17:15:46 · 2 answers · asked by diannimation 1 in Family

We have been together for 3 years. For 3 years I've been trying to get him to dance with me & he won't. I've even suggested we take private classes.

Dancing is something that I love more then most things in life. I used to go out dancing 2-3 times a week. But I haven't been dancing in 3 years out of respect for my husband. I feel that it would be inappropriate for me to dance with another guy.

Well he travels for work & this morning he called me at 5am telling me about his fun night. He hung out with 3 football players & he danced with a bachelorett. YES DANCED.

When I heard this I was heart broken. For 3 years I've missed out on dancing because he wont learn & he just went out & danced with a stranger!?!?

- So tonight I asked him if now that he could dance, would he dance with me. And he said NO. He said maybe once but basically no. He said they didn't do "real" dancing so he still didn't know how & he still didn't want to learn.

Am I over reacting or do I have a right to be mad?

2007-11-10 17:11:59 · 47 answers · asked by junebugbaby83 1 in Marriage & Divorce

does yahoo have a "suggestion box" type email adress. i think there should be a singles + dating board for teens/ high school only, because ive noticed the "rules" for adults and teens are MUCH different. anyone know how?

2007-11-10 17:08:50 · 1 answers · asked by definitions 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-10 17:06:01 · 14 answers · asked by Water 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have an interesting dilemma: I've been married to my wife for 5 1/2 years and recently hit some tough times. We recently decided to separate about a week ago, but we are still living together to take care of the bills. Now the twist--I've also became friendly with a girl I had met online, and anticipating the pending separation/moving out part, we planned on going out later in the week. My wife has been going back and forth on the separation issue, saying that she still loves me but there are a lot of things that she needs & I cannot give her. Part of me wants to just move out because her indecision is bothering me, but part of me wants to stay to see if anything changes. Unfortunately, if I was forced to choose what to do, I'd probably want to leave; this girl and I have a lot in common, share similar interests, and we seem to have a connection. I do love my wife, but I do want to see her happy, and I'm not sure if I can do that.

2007-11-10 17:02:01 · 16 answers · asked by joet5402 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married to the love of my life, our wedding is going to be quite formal, What i need for input is this...
My best friend is a guy, I want him to stand up for me, how do i get him beside me as my "maid of honor" with out him looking gay and still having a formal wedding. I couldnt imagine anyone but him being with me on my day. I know he will say yes to it, but i dont want to humiliate him either!
Is there any other way to have him stand with me? The grooms side is taken and besides that, he is my best friends not my fiance's... im sooo confused.

2007-11-10 17:00:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ive known this girl for what seems my whole life.. but its really only 7 months. anyways whenever she is around this one guy named Craig i get really jealous. He and her dated once and he broke her heart. after that her and i are trying to date.. we haven't started yet but will soon. however even at the slightest idea of him and her being around each other i get jealous and just want to hurt him and get her away from him.. this girl and I will start dating soon. I'm not afraid of her being taken from me.. i know she wouldn't do that to me. I just dislike him for some reason. so how do i stop being jealous of them? (btw she knows this guys an *** hole and player now) also i would like to know if this affects weather or not i truly love her. i mean if i truely love her would i get jealous for no reason?

2007-11-10 16:57:46 · 18 answers · asked by AdrianAP 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl by the way, a lot. I just want to talk about something that could keep up in a conversation, any tips on how to start a conversation like that?

2007-11-10 16:56:39 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-10 16:55:08 · 7 answers · asked by Curious Star 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-10 16:54:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a single, straight, successful, educated, 28 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend and I have only gone on three dates in my entire lifetime. I haven't even experienced my first kiss yet, lol. I have no problem with this as I am not a very affectionate person and I don't have the silly need for this that most people have. If I find someone to love I'll go for it I suppose, but it doesn't really matter. I also still live at home rent free, nice right? My question is as follows: Why do my friends "The Guys" seem to have more of a problem with my life than I do? They say it's not healthy not to date and/or have no experience with love along with still living at home. I told them it's not an objective of mine. There were even some friends asking if I were gay! Lol, geez is everyone automatically labeled gay if they aren't over-sexed? I am attracted to females and females only, but I can resist the "temptation" very easily. What are you thoughts?

2007-11-10 16:53:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were together from the time i was 16 to 29, and had 2 children (now adults). every time i would see his older brother, i felt i was fixed up with the wrong brother. i would push these feelings a side. we divorced 15 years ago. i just recently saw my ex-brother in law, i still have the same feelings about him. he's not married, but has been with the same woman for 7 years, he has a 2 year old child with his other lady friend. i don't look the same as i have gained weight due to depression, so i don't expect him to drop everything, and come running to me. i don't even know if he feels the same as i do. i did get the feeling a couple of times years ago he had some feelings towards me, and we might could of gotten something started. i was scared i was reading him wrong. i didn't want to make things ackword. i know he will always be a good friend. i don't want to lose him. he also has multiple relationships at once. i don't know if i can handle that or not. i'm a one man jealous woman.

2007-11-10 16:44:15 · 5 answers · asked by Barbara L 6 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my girlfriend are definatly in love with eachother and we say were going to be together forever do you think it will really happen? i hope so i love her with all my heart shes so beautiful and amazing and shes my world. im 14 and shes 14 but we want to be with eachother forever and ever. please help me and give me positive feedback. thank you so much.

2007-11-10 16:44:04 · 11 answers · asked by decide_86 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-10 16:42:03 · 19 answers · asked by sheena 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, my husband met me with two lil girls (ages 3&4), married me, moved me to his hometown where we are living together. Im 9 mo pregnant with our first. The problem is, he is always throwing in my face how he made a mistake marring me cause of the kids. He loves them & plays with them but he still has a problem accepting them. He hates everytime their dad calls to talk to them or when the girls leave to go visit with him and gives me a very hard time about it! He says he's not happy having to deal with this family crap and wont stay in a situation he's not happy in. He tells me he's still young, good looking, and would be more happy all alone doing his own thing. He says all he is going 2 care about is himself and baby in my stomach from now on. What do I do? Im so stressed. Do I cut the girls dad off from being able to see them to avoid arguments? I dont want to loose my husband. He agrees this is how he met me package and all but says he doesnt have to put up with it.

2007-11-10 16:39:41 · 19 answers · asked by Luv4Nevaeh 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my husband are haveing
marriage proublums
he chooses not to talk about it
and ignors it
how can i get him to open up
hes a really quiet person and shy
? thanks

2007-11-10 16:37:05 · 11 answers · asked by cher 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Its a heck of alot easier. You dont have to aim!

2007-11-10 16:36:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-10 16:36:02 · 5 answers · asked by azizbek1983 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey girls-- what do you when you see a guy you're interested in? Do you take the plunge or ask him out or flirt and wait for him to make the first move?

2007-11-10 16:31:28 · 5 answers · asked by shirah_life 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a terminaly ill wife maybe some one can help I have gotten medare for her but it is the only assistance i can seem to get have tried every organization for help but to no avail I live in ohio and I have no heat things are looking pretty bad any one know where i could find help for heat ,food, christmas

2007-11-10 16:31:22 · 9 answers · asked by Daniel L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

counseling really help ?

me and my husband went one time toghter
and it didnt help at all

we never even talked about it after wards

2007-11-10 16:27:53 · 14 answers · asked by cher 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 17 years old and I have a question so embarrassing that I have to ask it on yahoo answers. My boyfriend and I like to experiment we both know that I have know limits so we tried spanking. He was into it, i really dont care. I really didnt care. I was dealing with it at first and than he got rough. When i asked him to stop he kept going, and when i started to cry he kept going. When i asked him why he waited until i bled to stop he told me he thought i was enjoying it. Hes normally a great guy. Im kind of confused. How do i handle this? How do i approach him and is what he did wrong in any way?

2007-11-10 16:27:14 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or alteast most.. any way.. most men can barely do for 1 woman.. much less 2.. so what would be the point in it.. now of course I am not talking about the small percent that could pull it off. more the larger group of males..this could also be turn around as a question for the women who tired easily.. but would like the 3 somes.. as well

2007-11-10 16:22:24 · 20 answers · asked by vis 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Yea -.- and how can I get stronger so I don't look so bad. And girls is it a turnoff for a guy to be weaker than you?

2007-11-10 16:20:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been dating tyler for about a year and 2 months.. we've done all the "regular" stuff except sex. im not going into details because im sure you dont really want to know it all haha

2007-11-10 16:18:54 · 20 answers · asked by ღcounty¢hεεrlεadεr 1 in Singles & Dating

Can a girl be slutty/flirty and intelligent/smart at the same time? What are your views on this type of girl?

2007-11-10 16:18:46 · 8 answers · asked by Em 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm an ofw for over 5years now on my first year i learned that my wife is having an affair thats why i've lost my focus the purpose why i work abroad i did forget that i have 3 kids ,i always drink and until now i have no contact with them thats why i dont know their situation there in the philippines i always cry at night .Last year I've met someone and we lived together and we did have a son who was born last september.why do i always this feeling that shes cheating on me ?

2007-11-10 16:17:11 · 11 answers · asked by bendix v 1 in Marriage & Divorce