will a relationship at 14 last till marriage if your in love with her??

Question

me and my girlfriend are definatly in love with eachother and we say were going to be together forever do you think it will really happen? i hope so i love her with all my heart shes so beautiful and amazing and shes my world. im 14 and shes 14 but we want to be with eachother forever and ever. please help me and give me positive feedback. thank you so much.

Answer 1

I'm going to be honest with you staying together that long is hard work and and it takes a lot of growing up in the process. I have been with my boyfriend since I was 14, he was 15, now I am 17 and he is 18, and he is like the other part of me that I could never complete on my own. Anyways, I'm pretty sure we are going to get married when we get our lives situated, you know like school and careers and what not. I'll say this we did break up a couple of times, but it was not for other people it was mainly because we wanted to be able to be with our friends without hurting eachothers feelings. I hate to say this but you can't say forever in relationships sometimes it just doesn't work out and if it does then more power to you. I love the idea of finding that one special person and being able to know they are who you want to be with, but no one knows their own future...so basically enjoy the time you have with her and if it lasts forever then you can honestly say that "I'm one of those true love stories."
Now I hope this has helped you and I wish you luck and I hope if it does not work out you can find someone that is truly the other part of you.

Answer 2

Don't listen to the ones saying they don't last, because some actually do, I Married my high school sweetheart right after she graduated when she was 19 years old, I started dating her when she was 13 years old and I was 17, we never had sex until we were both ready and that was a few years later, But anyways, to make a long story short, Now I am 41 and she is 37, we have been married for 18 years and have 2 children that are 16 and 17, so yeah high school relationships can last, It just depends on how much love is involved and how you really feel about each other. Good luck and I hope it all works out for you, Just remember, A good marriage isn't only about being husband and wife, It's about being best friends, lovers and life time companions, If you truly love each other, you can over come any obstacles that life throws at you and you have to compromise on things in life to make you both happy. Good luck and best wishes

Answer 3

I know right now you'd love to be with her forever, but the chances of that actually happening are slim. Things happen, life happens, and people change. People grow apart. And you will find out what you really want in a person and what you really want in life. You're obviously in a good relationship right now and it's something that you'll want to hold onto. That'd be great if you two stayed together, but if it did last your relationship would be one of the very few that actually make it to marriage. Things happen, stress, different goals, different opinions, moving away, some things that you have no control over happen. From my experience, I don't think that any 13 year olds know what love really is, I'm 18 and I'll admit that I have no clue what it is. Just enjoy the time you have with her now, but if it doesn't work out there are always going to be more girls that you will meet in your lifetime. My thing is not to get involved in a long relationship until I'm older and know what I really like in a person and want in a person, but you obviously are quite the opposite of me. Good luck.

Answer 4

There is no definite yes or no answer to this question. As probably everyone else here has said, 14 is very young. I personally do not know anyone who has stayed with a boy or girlfriend from the age of 14, but I'm sure it's still possible. It depends on the specific people/situation. I wouldn't stress out about the whole marriage aspect yet, just enjoy your relationship no matter where it leads. :)

Answer 5

the boy i dated all through high school asked me to marry him the day we graduated. we were engaged for two years, and it was rough (in different college's and all). we recently split up for whatever reason. i know that we will finish school, get our lives together, and get married. but only because he is my true love, and sometimes the only way to find that out is to date other people and try other things. i will always love him, forever, even if things don't work out in the end. so just keep in mind, whatever way life takes you, your love for her will always be there.. :)

i hope this helped...

Answer 6

I know these people that started going out in year 7 (13), they are my friend's parents so that has lasted like 30 something years. :)

Answer 7

1. Don't get her pregnant
2. Listen to her feelings and learn from her
3. If you do break up then use what you have learned from your relationship to benefit your next one.

14 is very young....people change.

Answer 8

yeah it will last forever if true love exists.... as simple as that.... i don't believe that we can say at this age it's too young or old to love and so and so, nope, for me love has no age things.... 'coz if love deals with age and other stuffs then it's not love right?......... hope i helped you ^____^

Answer 9

14 year olds don't know what love is


you'll agree with me 10 years from now

Answer 10

Seriously. Get her pregnant. That way, her parents will really like you, and you can get an apartment and stuff. Then, when you're 28, your kid can have a kid, and you can kill/eat it.