Family & Relationships - 10 November 2007

whats the point?

2007-11-10 15:05:02 · 19 answers · asked by male.confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I guess you could call me a nerd kind of girl. I don't talk to many people, just the friends who are close to me, but asides that I mainly keep to myself and am class president. My parents see me a the "perfect daughter", basically because my grades are top and my peers/teachers respect me.
But starting a this year, I met this guy at a park while I was sketching a drawing. He was only asking if I knew where a store was, though. Later, I found out we are in the same class.
The thing is that he has sort of a "reputation", at our school. A playboy, flirt, idiot, who failed a grade. But every girl is after him, anyway because of his looks and atheletic ability. Now he started to talk to me a lot. I don't even know why, but probably because of his personality.
We're friends now, but my parents don't like it. But I like him. A lot. Even though I know I'm not supposed to. Should I tell him? He most likely doesn't see me as more than an honor student.

2007-11-10 15:01:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we really really love each other and he is really upset with me right now. i talk to him on the phone and he told me "dont change you number, your going to need it" which makes me know that he still cares..but just the other day we had a big fallin out and he dropped all contact from me. its been 2 years of being in love. so now im just going to give him time. but what if in a few months i contact him again and he doesnt care? or he doesnt talk to me? how should i even talk to him when i do contact him again? if he ignores me i dont know what i would do. do you think after 2 years of talking about marriage and how much we love each other, do yo think after a few months of letting him breathe will make him just forget about me and not care when i contact him again?

2007-11-10 15:00:01 · 1 answers · asked by kamdgal 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you find most annoying about your kids? Just little things like not doing homework, not picking up after themselves etc??

2007-11-10 14:59:00 · 16 answers · asked by Mikaela O 1 in Family

Here we go. The relationship is over. I have started the process of moving on and healing. What can I do to help myself start over besides moving away?

2007-11-10 14:57:01 · 5 answers · asked by randomspazticgrl 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so there is this guy who always says hi to me and talks to me when he sees me and we ride the same bus afterschool but (not always since he had football practice)
so i sit down on the bus and then he says that he's here and i say "what? you want me to sit with you?" and he says yeah
and so i do.
and then a bit later
the guys behind us ask him if i'm his girlfriend and he kinda shakes his head and then
they ask him if i'll be his future girlfriend
and I look at him (he was hiding himself in the
hood of his jacket) but i could see him shaking his head and his face and thought he looked like he was smiling/embarrassed when he was not facing them.
and after they quit bugging him
he said something like "sorry he's a jackass"
still talked to me after that.
and when he asked if i was still gonna move away and i said no i think i heard him say "yes" under his breath.
but idk if i was hearing things.. I'm confused. Should i just think that we'll just only be friends or more?

2007-11-10 14:56:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how would you describe it?

2007-11-10 14:55:51 · 20 answers · asked by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

This is a sick world we live in, and one day we all will be judged!!

2007-11-10 14:55:48 · 17 answers · asked by enviro 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-10 14:54:48 · 16 answers · asked by chad20_83 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We made out once playing truth or dare.I like her ,do you think that she might like me?She gives me alot of hugs.

2007-11-10 14:53:50 · 12 answers · asked by Tommy 1 in Singles & Dating

i know i need to search his word more and spend more time in prayer but i cant barely bring myself to i dont know why i ignore him so much when i recognize that every good thing i have comes from him.. i thank him for almost every meal yet i dont even ask for his guidance when it comes to making important decisions.. im not sure what its going to take to break this cycle does anyone else feel this way?

2007-11-10 14:51:44 · 7 answers · asked by alex a 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend has been married for a little less than one month and we do not know if she can still get her marriage nullified???

2007-11-10 14:51:25 · 6 answers · asked by csula_ramirez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I tell him I've decided to move out again? We've been trying to work things out with a counselor for 3 months now and we're just cohabitating at this point. When is the best time to tell him I am moving out?

2007-11-10 14:50:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Where would a Older Man look to find a online relationship Girl Friend meet and chat online, date online, visit websites together play on line games, and hang out at our space were ever that may be online total online relationship with young lady I have not found any websites in my search so maybe someone here knows ok thanks

2007-11-10 14:49:26 · 3 answers · asked by Onlineguy 2 in Singles & Dating

Would stretch marks stop you from being intimate with a woman?

2007-11-10 14:49:11 · 33 answers · asked by iphone1234 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my family isnt really a family. my mom and dad are divorced. my sister moved out of the house becuase she married a spanish guy and my mom wasnt happy about it. my other sister fioghts with my mom and my mom has been very depressed lately. always cryin on the phone alot. it makes me depressed. and my brother is abrely here cuase he is at school (medical school) we have 2 move cause we cant pay for our house and got most of our cars taken away. i know very trajic now please help me!

2007-11-10 14:48:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

today was my friends birthday party and she invited me but i couldnt make it bcuz i was helping my parents with packing boxes for moving. I never told her that i could come, and i never told her that i couldnt come. I didnt go to her party and i didnt call her to explain....i dont know what i shud do or say...help

2007-11-10 14:47:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was downtown and walked past an indoor bus shelter, I saw a person inside with long black hair and a leather jacket. The person turned and looked at me and it was a gorgeous guy who continued to watch me as I walked past. I stopped to fix my earphone and I looked behind me and the guy had come outside the shelter and was standing there watching me. I had to go catch my bus so I started to walk off and I looked behind me again and he was walking the other direction and I went back to the bus stop to see if he would come back and he didn't.
So, I walked over to the other bus stop and caught my bus but when I left, I felt sad like I was leaving a part of myself there and it was so weird because I felt like I knew him even though I know that I have never met him before. It was the strangest experience I have ever felt. They say that when you see the one your meant to be with that you'll know it and I don't know if that's what was going on or not but I sure hope I see him again. :D

2007-11-10 14:45:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I see each other pretty much everyday. However, he works a lot and when I see him, it's usually around bed time. Since we dont really get to go out during the day because he's working, we try to make plans on the weekend. He tells me if we make plans to go out on a Friday night, the next day is for his guy friends and himself to hang out. But usually I want to hang out Saturday too since I only get to see him for a few hours Friday. I think that it's not fair for him to give me an option to only see him one day of the weekend at night and gives his guy friends the rest of the weekend. He thinks I'm being selfish. But what if I want to spend the whole weekend with him. I dont see why he just absolutely HAVE to hang out with the guy friends. He sees them just as much as he sees me during the week. It's not gonna kill him if he doesn't go out wit the boys! What do u think

2007-11-10 14:42:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-10 14:42:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It's hard to give details, but we are both in a recovery program. How do I tell her I want her, but give her the time she needs?

2007-11-10 14:40:29 · 6 answers · asked by david 4 in Singles & Dating

and she was your only partner ever....would you cheat to see what you missed out on?

Or would you try and negotiate some kind of open marriage, perhaps swinging?

Or simply divroce to live the single life?

2007-11-10 14:40:09 · 23 answers · asked by male.confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So there's this kid i've just started hanging out with cause he told me he's liked me for so long, and we've been like almost together but nothing serious yet. One day at school he was being weird. He stayed on the other side of the hall from me after lunch, and i walked right by him and he didn't seem to notice, and he didn't say anything about hanging out on our 4 day weekend. So i call him on saturday (haven't talked to him since thursday) and he happened to be at work (which now i'm thinking might have been a cover) and he said he'd call me back a little later. He hasn't, and what if he doesn't the rest of the weekend? Should i be mad? It's not like we were that serious but we were defintely into eachother. Oh and i read his ex's survey on myspace and she said her last text was from him.

2007-11-10 14:40:02 · 1 answers · asked by something else 2 in Singles & Dating

It's a long story but I will sum it up

So there's this girl, that I like...she is really nice and cool to hang around. I never thought she liked me but last month, we started hanging out all the time. Even she said wierd stuff to me like asking what I thought she should do about asking out a guy. When i asked her who it was she did not want to tell me. We even saw a play together. she started to hug me, and for instance during the play she would lean on me, and sometimes she would put her head on my shoulder. Just recently now it seamed like she stopped liking me, for example she had a party, but did not invite me. We had such good times together I just don't don't know were they went. We still talk but not as much, and I was going to ask her out but now I'm starting to have second thoughts.
Also shes the kind of girl that flirts with everyone, and has boyfriends all the time, i don't know if she just does this with evryone or she really does like me. Please help.

2007-11-10 14:35:52 · 5 answers · asked by Austin 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy, and we both like each other a lot, but we are not dating yet, but probably will soon.

Anyways, one night about 3 weeks ago, I had a dream about him wearing this shirt that he has, and then the next day, he wore that shirt. Ever since then, I have had these "feelings" about what color shirt he is going to wear, or had a dream about what color he will wear. One day, I'll have a feeling he will wear a red shirt, and he does. I'm not always right, and I don't always have these feelings, but I would say almost 3/4 of the time when I have the feelings, they are right.

I guess my question is... because we have such strong feelings for each other, do I have these feelings as a result of our mutual mental connection?

2007-11-10 14:33:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my bf for 2 yrs and we love eachother more than anything. The problem is we haven't been doing anything sexual for a while now. We used to 'do stuff' and have sex all the time, usually everyday. Up until about 8 months ago we just barely ever do, maybe once a month, or less. I always find porn on his computer and hes always making comments about other girls. About how they look and stuff and is also always saying things about me that he doesnt like. He says that i am pretty and that he loves me, and i know he loves me. But idk if hes lying about being attracted to me, bc if he was then he would want to be intimate with me. Hes never horny for me and gets so excited about other girls. I dont want to break up with him bc i know he truly loves me, and obviously isn't using me. But it breaks my heart that he isn't attracted to me or anything. I'm not fat, i weigh about 108 and im 5'0, and i have a pretty face, i think what bothers him is that i have a scar on my belly...

2007-11-10 14:32:37 · 37 answers · asked by *Babycakes* 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it i seem to only attract the rebaound i call it that recently divorced or lie about being married, or feels as like i was a convenience for them until they find someone else? Seems to me that a man only wants a woman that will cheat, treat them like cramp over a good woman.

2007-11-10 14:31:31 · 4 answers · asked by magician 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok me and my baby plan on getting married when he cames back from Korea. So far we just plan on having a court house marriage the a more formal on later on. My ? is what all do I need and need to do? And how long does the process noramly take? (he only gets a month leave) Thank you:D

2007-11-10 14:29:46 · 5 answers · asked by Beautiful_nightmare 3 in Weddings

sometimes i feel like i wanna leave my mother's house but she says i have to wait until i turn 18...is that true? or is there a age younger than that?

2007-11-10 14:29:04 · 7 answers · asked by Shaun D 1 in Family

Hi, I just got Hired as a Waitress at the" Hustler club" But I still have to pass a "test" to see how I handle Customers. Can you give me some "Good Lines" to say to the Customers WITHOUT sounding S.l.u.t.t.y??

2007-11-10 14:26:40 · 14 answers · asked by snowbunny360 3 in Singles & Dating