It's a long story but I will sum it up
So there's this girl, that I like...she is really nice and cool to hang around. I never thought she liked me but last month, we started hanging out all the time. Even she said wierd stuff to me like asking what I thought she should do about asking out a guy. When i asked her who it was she did not want to tell me. We even saw a play together. she started to hug me, and for instance during the play she would lean on me, and sometimes she would put her head on my shoulder. Just recently now it seamed like she stopped liking me, for example she had a party, but did not invite me. We had such good times together I just don't don't know were they went. We still talk but not as much, and I was going to ask her out but now I'm starting to have second thoughts.
Also shes the kind of girl that flirts with everyone, and has boyfriends all the time, i don't know if she just does this with evryone or she really does like me. Please help.
2007-11-10 14:35:52 · 5 answers · asked by Austin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She doesn't sound right for you. She is a little flirt and little flirts do not make good girlfriends. Look for someone who deserves you. Good luck!
2007-11-10 14:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Alvin York 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like shes playing games.. could be intentional or unintentional.
shes either playing you hot and cold, she did like you and now she doesnt, or like you said, maybe that was just her flirting and maybe she does it with everyone..
theres also the chance that she likes the hunt and she just wanted to have fun and flirt with you.. if you started to show affection back and thats when she started backing off.. thats might be a clue that thats whats going on. in this case she probably doesnt want anything serious and she just wanted to have some fun, care free flirting. if you want her to continue, start acting like you dont care about her and just treat her like any other girl. this might get her interest back with out her knowing it.. but in the long run she still probably wont want a relationship.
in my opinion.. youre reading too much into this. what happens, happens. she cant help her feelings and it mights seems like shes jerking you around, but to her it is probably unintentional.
2007-11-10 14:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by Terra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In light of everything you have written,this girl sounds like a girl who is flaky, flirty, and can not be trusted.Even though it appears that you have some feelings for her, you will be wise to call it off and not pursue her.This girl wants attention, lots of attention, and she doesn't care where she gets it or who gives it to her.She can not stick with one person. but multiple people.Save your self some pain and undue hassle and leave her alone.
2007-11-10 15:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might not like you and maybe she's afraid that you'll ask her out and she might not want to hurt your feelings
i dont know, that the negative side...maybe she's just had some issues lately
this is funny
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ou0YJiPaD_s
2007-11-10 14:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kemps K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she liked you at the time, i'd let her go, she's obviously found another dude.
2007-11-10 14:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by |Marlena_Misery| 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋