Family & Relationships - 10 November 2007

i'm 16, and i have been going out with this girl for a few months. she is pretty shy, but i really like her and we have tons of fun together, but it feels like this other friend of ours is always hanging around. i asked her about it and she said that she doesn't like it and finds it annoying. but lately it feels like he's getting more and more of her attention. she is still affectionate with me, so am i just overacting?

2007-11-10 13:58:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend sometimes answers his mobile phone and stops what he was doing. Is that wrong and it usually his exgirlfriend or a female voice on the line. Plus he goes in the other room? What do I do just wait or not worry about it or what?

2007-11-10 13:57:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been crushing on this guy for a month, and today i went close to him for the first time, and i think he's homeless cause he smells really bad, what do i do?

2007-11-10 13:56:54 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-10 13:56:33 · 14 answers · asked by Jayson H 1 in Family

What do you think other girls will chose?. (norm, society beliefs)

What color hair do you like best on boys
a. blonde
b. brunette
c, red
d. black

What color eyes do you like the best?
a. blue
b.green
c. hazel
d. brown

Would you rather have a boyfriend who is...
a. five pounds over weight
b. five pounds under weight

2007-11-10 13:54:37 · 36 answers · asked by angelgirl19th 1 in Singles & Dating

okie so i'm 14 and today, my sisters both went out with their bfs, my mom is at work, and my dad is taking care of some stuff .
i've been home ALL day by myself and its been soooooo boring !!!!!!!!!
they didn't let me go out with my friends so i'm stuck here.
NOTHING TO DO.
nothing on tv.
and its a saturday too :(

OMG i am going crazy. whenever i am home all day, i go crazy.
so can you make me happy?
crack a joke or something.
or give me an idea of what to do.
cause i am EFFING BORED !

2007-11-10 13:54:35 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i think that my husband is a little controlling. I know that he loves me and wants what is best for me. I do not want him to be a controlling jerk, or for what he is now to get worse,.
What are some of the things that a controlling husband does?

2007-11-10 13:54:32 · 25 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband spends all his spare time at the pub he dosn't want to be with me and seems our children.last week he spent every night there and uses the excuse he works so hard.
i have had enough.he told our children he would watch them at swimming club but on the way home we saw him at the pub and didnt get home till late claiming he was so tired from work i cant remember the last time he sat and ate a meal with us.
to all our friends he is just the best person hes funny, generous and seems to be caring but at home he is completly different.
i love him but have had enough of his drinking and him thinking about himself. after plenty of arguments to try and keep him at home so we can be a family i have had it and he has gone have i done the right thing.the kids are used to him not being here and seem ok but they will react as this goes on longer

2007-11-10 13:53:28 · 18 answers · asked by Kaz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I grew up with the adage that a way a man treats his mother is how he will treat his wife (in regards to respect). So, I am wondering if you think that a man that hates his mother, or has no relationship with her, if he will be a poor choice for a husband.

2007-11-10 13:52:14 · 10 answers · asked by Amanda h 5 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems like every guy I date wants to go out and get wasted. When does this stop? I keep thinking the next guy is going to be different. Is it just the way guys are in San Diego or what? It's not like I'm out dating the freshly 21 year old anymore. What's going on?

2007-11-10 13:51:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got myself in a bunch of doo doo today! I told my cousin that I don't like this guy (nick) that my sister hooked up with me and she said she was going to break up with him for me on monday! Of course, i really do like him but I have to be a two-faced miss independant! :( and then my sister and her friend called nick and pretended to be me and said a bunch of mean crazy things to him. Of course they were joking, so I pretended not to mind. He's my first boyfriend, and i don't want him to be my last....any advice on this problem/my life?

2007-11-10 13:51:27 · 9 answers · asked by Katie R 5 in Singles & Dating

i trust my boyfriend so much im not mad or the jelouse tipe
iys just sometimes i wonna go mad at him !! help

2007-11-10 13:49:53 · 14 answers · asked by star 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14, Brandon (my brother) is 12 he's nearly 6 foot. He has ADD and he doesn't try at school, he's failed once and is in 6th grade now. My mom and I can't handle him anymore. How do we get him to do his homework and study for school? PLEASE HELP.

2007-11-10 13:47:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ugh! I am about to pull my hair out! Me and my mother-in-law do not get along. We used to when me and my husband were jsut dating but once we got married man its been fight after fight and after the latest one (3 months ago) we havent spoken to each other. I apologized over e-mail because it bothered my husband we were fighting and it took her 1 month and 1/2 later to finally apologize to me and isnt there a such thing as its to late. I cannot accept it because it doesnt mean anything to me now?? After I apologized to her she called my husband and told him SHE had said sorry FIRST and I was the one who ignored her. She lies and maniuplates him like that all the time. I want nothing to do with her. Me and my husband are TTC #1 but I do not want her to be apart of my chilren's life and my husband wnats her to be. Now me and my husband are starting to fight and I do not want her to come between us! My question is do I have to be the bigger person and end this WAR WORLD III between us?

2007-11-10 13:45:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how old do u think u should be to have sex

2007-11-10 13:44:06 · 1 answers · asked by a123cheer4me 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this common? How often does it happen to you (and I mean without you flirting in the first place)?

2007-11-10 13:41:25 · 13 answers · asked by zailew 2 in Singles & Dating

Been with a girl off and on for three years. Met her at college, I returned home b/c of personal reasons, she stayed there. We didn't talk for an entire summer, and recently we are back on. I saw she had an online dating profile, and was talking with lots of guys. Also, she exchanged emails with one of them and continues to talk to him, and even gave him her phone number. She doesn't know I know that, but I asked her and she says she hasn't talked to anyone online or given her number out, all lies! I'm moving back up to where she lives in a couple months, and the last couple weeks have been stressful b/c she exchanged emails with this guy and was going to meet him, which she denies.I don't know if she met him or not. Now I'm having a hard time believing anything she says, although she swears I'm the only one she wants/loves/dates.Do I dump her for lying to me or tell her I know that she is lying? Keep in mind that I absolutely love this girl and have done much worst to her in the past

2007-11-10 13:40:34 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex & I broke up almost three months ago. He says he is happy & doesnt have any desire to be with me anymore. We were together for 2 1/2 years & he is my world. I still think he is making a mistake. We are PERFECT together.
But... He knows that I feel this way & he doesnt seem to care. I just don't know what to do. I have no desire to kiss, sleep with, or date any other men. I honestly believe that he just needs some freedom & that hell realize that he made a mistake.
I just dont know how to deal with it...
Do I continue to let him know that Im still in love with him or am I supposed to play the "hard ***" role.(he broke it off with me) Im not very good at playing games so I REALLY need help....
Also, he hasnt kissed, slept with, or gone out on dates w. ANY other girls since we broke up.
We are still really good friends, and he always tells me "I love you, I'm just not IN love with u. You are my best friend and I couldn't imagine my life without u in it."
Please help me...

2007-11-10 13:39:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband and I live in Nashville TN and I am from another state, we need more couple friends in our lives however we don't have children and are very young.

2007-11-10 13:38:46 · 6 answers · asked by Mon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-10 13:37:55 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is heavy on my mind tonight I guess...

Anyway..he is 39, I am 24. About three years ago he told me (we have been married a year this December) that he wanted me and he was going to do what it took to "win me". :P (I never told him, nor hinted that I thought he should lose weight. I just ..can't do that. Not to anyone!)

Since that time he has lost about 140 lbs (he says) because he felt his "young wife deserves to be with a man who at least looks like he is young".

First of all 40 is a young age! Good grief. :P Second, it is starting to freak me out. He weighs about 180 now and I think he is just perfect. He tells me he is working on losing more. I don't want him to! Do I have a right in telling him that? He exercises in some way everyday, which I know is good. But he pushes himself to much it seems. He says he wants to lose another 20 before May 2008.

!!!!!

2007-11-10 13:34:54 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have instigated counseling 5 times...he hates it. I have tried everything under the sun to make this work. I have been nice, mean, easy, strict, sweet, bitchy...you name it I tried it. He is lazy, self centered...he won't help around the house (he feels his 40 hours a week is contrubution enough...he does minimal chores), he refused to take the dogs for a walk, he doesn't help maintain the house, he is grumpy and cranky to the kids...and I am at my wits end. I have talked until I am blue in the face and it always ends up in a fight. I am tired of fighting and wonder if I should just end it. He is currently on day 2 of not speaking to me because he wanted to watch porn on the living room TV and I asked him if the kids were asleep three times (3 x in about 30 seconds...I was asleep when he put it in and I woke to find him watching it) he said I "ruined it for him". I am tired of fighting and have been thinking of divorce for years...as a matter of fact...for 12 years...

2007-11-10 13:32:22 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy I knew liked me (his friends said), and I liked him too. He was kind of shy around me and sometimes would shy away from talking to me. But one day I wear a miniskirt, and he goes "You look nice in a skirt" his eyes get like 5 times bigger and he checked me out like every 5 minutes. I dont really like him anymore...but its an example of one time I noticed this kind of reaction from a guy with a girl in a skirt.

I know it might seem kinda obvious...but i never really got it.
Can you help me out here on why they like a girl in a miniskirt?

2007-11-10 13:31:05 · 48 answers · asked by raineyswe3t16 3 in Singles & Dating

We've been married for 17years. We have two children together, We live in some house. but we were living separate room.Now we decieded working thing out, but we find out the woman who was sleeping with my husband is pregnant. He said he still want to fix our marrige but takes sometime. Should I leave or stay ?

2007-11-10 13:30:56 · 27 answers · asked by Ms don't know 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So many times I see cases of marriages broken by cheating spouses. I hear about the other woman, or man ( as the case may be) destroying 'our' marriage.
Do people really distrust their spouses that much? Are people really that insecure?
I would think that if your spouse truly loved and respected you, they would turn down ANY advance, by ANYONE. Regardless of ANY circumstances. So, if that spouse says YES to the advances, why is it the other party who is to blame? Everyone has the right to say NO. We are not defenseless baby springboks being taken by a hungry lion. The spouse is the one who has made a solemn promise, not the other party.
I would trust my wife to say NO.
I would trust myself to say NO.
Surely anyone who convinces you spouse to say YES, is doing you a favor by opening your eyes to the person you really married instead of the person you thought you married.
Even if this person knows that your spouse is married and pursues them anyway. Your spouse has the last word. NO!

2007-11-10 13:27:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-10 13:25:35 · 3 answers · asked by repogirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I donate plasma with my husband every so often. Every time we go he wants me to wear a hat, and if possible sweats. I have long blonde hair.
He wears a hat as well.
I get hit on a lot, i don't know if that matters.

2007-11-10 13:25:02 · 15 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am just curious as to why? I am very interested in some guys I see that are white, but they never walk up to talk to me. Even any in my classes. Only when they are drunk and on bourbon street do they have the guts. What is up with that?

2007-11-10 13:21:42 · 24 answers · asked by ms ambitious 4 in Singles & Dating

You'd think I'd be mad when I found out my ex...whom i really loved, was cheating on me. But actually im still in love with him. is this terrible? i think it is. but, i mean, i can't control my feelings for him. i tried to not like him so hard. i finally believed i didnt like him. but then i saw him and i immediately knew i was just lying to myself. isnt this bad? and i really wanna win him back, but idk how to cause idk what it was that made him cheat on me. was it the fact i wasn't pretty enough for him? am i too fat? did my personality change? what happened? I cant ask him though, cause he doesn't know that i know. he told his best friend and he made his best friend promise not to tell anyone- but he told me cause he felt i should know. but i just don't know whats wrong with me.

2007-11-10 13:20:49 · 18 answers · asked by lemonhead (: 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-10 13:17:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating