2007-11-10 13:17:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hard without coming on like a psycho-chic. I went through a guys room once when he left me at his house, and found all sorts of girl paraphernalia, and YUCK! used condoms!. Listen to the way his friends talk to him about you, and the way that they treat you. Do they treat you like it's worth remembering your name? Do they look you up and down and continue to act as though he's alone. DO NOT check his cell phone and his wallet for phone numbers, if you are newly dating he probably has other girl's numbers. However if you see an extensive girl call list, guys who aren't players don't have those. Careful, make sure his girl-friends you meet and he talks with are exactly that or related to him. If he's dated her before and they've been intimate, put your foot down. Once it's over, it's over. Listen to everything he tells you, (not the schmoozie stuff), especially his past relationships, he'll tell you everything you need to know. How he treated women, his ideas about female roles, what he feels is appropriate and acceptable behavior in a relationship.
2007-11-10 13:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by mudpup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By woman's intuition but if youve just started dating try trusting him first I know its hard but you cant be in a relationship without trusting the guy first otherwise theres no point in being with someone if you dont trust them.Cause to be honest how do you hes not thinking the same about you? But hes giving it a go with you anyways,give it a chance. Dont doom its over before its even begun.
2007-11-10 21:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple answer to that is if he is a true player you will never know but if you play dumb and dont be inquisitive he would be more bold about his ventures and eventually slip
2007-11-10 21:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by John C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he notorious for liking more than one girl at a time. Does he have really short relationships, and talk to a lot of girls? Some ways you can tell. Hope I helped.
2007-11-10 21:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by LexiSexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he talk about you to his friends?
Is he secretive about having a relationship with you?
Is your relationship more than just a sexual attraction?
If he has a reputation as a player then hes probably playing you as well...
2007-11-10 21:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by dianaaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a ******* magician, so let's see... yes, you're 300 lb loveboat is a "player"
2007-11-10 21:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if a hott girl passes in front of both of you and he looks, he might be a player
2007-11-10 21:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by Becca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take things slowly, don't put out too soon, and don't give him money. Watch his behavior, look at how he treats you and others. Make sure he does what he says.
2007-11-10 21:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a place that is full of women, if he has a wandering eye, call it quits!
2007-11-10 21:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by Calista 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go by his past up to present to know that.
2007-11-10 21:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋