ever like the idea more then the person?

Question

i like this girl alot in my head, my ex, i thought i would go crazy if i saw her with another guy, but i didnt feel anything when i did, is that weird?

Answer 1

Nope, natural. The pain comes from missed hopes, dreams and fantasies. Sort of a "What can't it be" sort of thing. Were if you were to see her, you'd be feeling "Why not me?" But since you don't! Technically your what they call "moved on" or you've "let go". The time envolved is typically related to how deep your hoped, dreamed, and fantazed with that person. So it can be quick for some, to the point of no exsistent, to a life time struggle with others, such is the nature of love.....

You'll know, as time and experience goes on, what I mean here, but I feel it was a strait respentation of how little even the idea met to you.....